Christopher Francis Vicente

Chris was a wonderful gay man...full of life and creativity. I feel very privleged to have counted him amongst my friends and professional colleagues. I'm devasted by just learning about his death.

Chris,I'm so sad.I've been looking for you so much and now that I have found you again you're gone.I simply don't have words.You are such a nice person,full of joy.I'll never forget when we knew each other in Rome during your studies:a great friendship soon was born and grew in the years;only the distance has kept us apart but the fact that after years I've been hardly looking for you shows what a great person you are!The fact you are Up there will make happier our ascent to God.I miss you,Federico

Connie, Frank, and all who knew and loved Chris,

My heart is full of wonderful memories of Chris. We were in middle and high school together, and my best times always included him. One of my greatest memories was when we first got to know one another in middle school. We both got the lead roles in the play, "Lost in Space and the Morgage Due". What a blast. Truth be told, high school was not the easiest time for Chris or me. Very turgulent times...but one of the things I loved most about Chris was his love for his friends. He always had a way of making me feel a part of and he reached out to me more times than I can count. It was so wonderful when Chris joinged our marching band. He took us to a whole new level of exellence and I remember all those band trips, Chris moonwalking down the isle of the band bus singing Micheal Jackson songs. I enjoyed wonderful long talks with him late at night on the phone talking about life, relationships, challenges, and dreams. He had a vest for life that was truly intoxicating. It touched my heart to know that he spread that vest all across the country after graduating from high school. He has friends everywhere! I remember when you, (Connie and Frank), moved to Richmond VA and he came to visit and we hung out during his visit. That was the last time I saw Chris, so many years ago, but we kept in contact over the years, continuing to share our challenges, dreams, and accomplishments. We had much in common, more than I realized, and I'm grateful I knew him...and feel blessed to be able to call him a friend.

My prayers continue to go out to all who are aching from his death. As I shared with Connie on facebook, I know Chris is dancing, singing, and entertaining everyone up in the clouds of heaven. That's what he did best, share his talents with others. Thank you Connie and Frank for giving the world such an exceptional man. The world will not be the same without his physical presence.

Christopher was my best friend and soul mate, I will remember him with love always.

What a sad day. I lost touch with Chris when I moved to Ohio before we graduated from HS. We both loved the stage and I've always wished I could've been just 1/2 as natural and fluent as Chris. We all new he was destined for greatness!

I'll never forget his awesome smile.

Goodbye ole Pal......

Dear Colonel and Mrs. Vicente,

I was so saddened when I learned of Chris's passing. Chris and I worked together at MTV Networks shortly after he graduated from college. He was a joy to work with, a wonderful friend and a compassionate and gentle soul. His smile always lit up the room. We have kept in touch over the years through annual holiday correspondence and I always enjoyed hearing about his new adventures. He was a very special individual whose joy of life will live on in all of us who were fortunate enough to have known him.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Miropol Posner

Dear Vicente family,

I am heartbroken to hear of Chris's death. We met at John Ryan and spent well over a year working in Toronto together. That period of time launched a very special friendship for me which has endured over the past 12 years. I felt privileged to work with him - he was always ethical, energetic, hardworking, humorous and overall, a blast to be around.

I feel so fortunate that when I was in LA this August, we were able to have lunch/shop together with my 8 year old daughter, Gabby. His sensitivity towards her and the kind words he had for you both would make you more than proud. I learned a lot from Chris and will keep his spirit close to my heart, always....

I met Christopher at John Ryan Company and I have to say how continually impressed I was with him. Christopher was a true professional that would be up for anything-- and always was enthusiastic and creative no matter how dry the banking related content! He had a great sense of style and was a true individual. Really missed by all.

Dear Connie & Frank,
I met your son in New York in 1991. From the moment I met him I loved him. Thank you for giving me and so many
a lovely and loving man. I will never forget him and love you both for this amazing gift call Christopher.

I met Christopher around ten years ago at John Ryan Company Minneapolis. I was sorting mail then and looked up to all the creative people I was working with. Christopher was someone I looked up to and would always take time to answer questions and give me advise. I never told him that he had such a big part in my life, helping me be who I am today. I am definitely a better person for it.

Dear Connie and Frank:
I am deeply saddened by Christopher's passing. While I had not spoken with him since being at Penn State, our experience as Lion Ambassadors will always remain in my memories. He was an intelligent, charismatic and driven person. He is in my thoughts. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,

I always admired Christopher's energy and attitude. He seemed to always be upbeat and in a great mood; and his love for Penn State was quite evident. I wish I had more time to get to know Christopher better during our time in Lion Ambassadors. He will certainly be missed by all of his friends and family; and although I am sure he made the most of every day, his time with us was too short.

Dear Connie & Frank,

Thank you for raising such a wonderful son and sharing him with the world! Chris was such an intuitive, intelligent and outgoing person. I will never forget him!

As advisor to the Lion Ambassadors, I could always count on him to get the job done. And he certainly knew how to work a room! Christopher was just as good a listener as he was a story teller! He made people feel good, like they were important and most of all that he cared. He had so many wonderful gifts and talents. I'll never forget his voice, his laugh and his energy.

I can't imagine the loss you must be feeling, but please know that Chris brought such joy to so many people. You should take heart in all that he was able to do while here on earth. His memory will last forever in our hearts.

Dear Frank & Connie:
I was deeply saddened to hear about Christopher's passing. I know how proud you were of all his accomplishments, both personally and professionally. He had a beautiful personality and a very generous spirit. He will be missed by many people on many levels. Please know that are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Dear Connie and Frank,
I was shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Chris's passing. He meant the world to me in high school, as you know, and I cherish the time and experiences we shared together. I can't begin to imagine your pain; I am so very sorry. My thoughts are with you.

Love,
Mary Beth

Dear Frank and Connie,
Sorry to hear about your loss. You remain in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Robb Whitmoyer
PSU Glee Club AIG

Mr. and Mrs. Vicente:
I met Chris in high school through Scott Purnell and then became good friends with him at Penn State. I met you a few times when you graciously hosted tailgates for us. Chris, as so many have described him, was one of a kind and such a wonderful and talented person. My memories of him warm my heart still. Sadly, we lost touch after I finished law school and I was not fortunate to have seen him for many years now. That does not diminish what he meant to me. I pray that you find comfort in all the lives he so clearly touched and your own memories of him.

With deepest sympathy,
Angie (Dumm) Thomas

My deepest sympathies to the Vicente family. Chris was a great friend and neighbor to me in our high school years.

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Vicente,
I am so sorry to hear of Chris' passing. We graduated high school together. I have very fond memories of Chris. I always have & always will remember him for his fun spirit, smile & kindness. Please accept my deepest condolences., Sincerely, Anastasia (Stacy) Kupeski

Dear Vecente Family,

Chris was one year ahead of my sister, Kathy at Bellefonte. There were so many talented people in all of the music activities, but Chris is someone who really stood out. I remember seeing him as the drum major and musicals. I remember hearing about his job at MTV and thinking that was so cool, because I watched it very often. I just loved seeing all of his talents, which helped a "shy girl" be able to shine in the drama program at Bellefonte. I most recently saw Chris a few years ago when he and especially his parents came to Perkins, where I was working. They were always so kind and genourous.

Dear Frank and Connie, we wish to extend our deepest and heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your cherished son. We very much enjoyed having Chris as a friend. He was a welcomed addition to our Minneapolis neighborhood and he will always be remembered in our hearts. Our condolences to you and your family during this most difficult time. Sincerely, Clint Czupka & Mike Miller

Frank and Connie,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry for your loss. I met Chris in Minneapolis in 2001. We continued to work on projects over the past few years. Chris was a truly kind, smart, talented, passionate, creative human being. He will be missed by so many people.

Vincenti family

My deepest sympathy goes out to you. feel free to contact me anytime.

Col & Mrs Vincente,
My heartfelt condolences go out to the entire Vincente family. Chris was more than a high school classmate...he was a true leader in every aspect of life. As parents you should be commended for the unwavering qualities you nurtured in your exceptional son. We were lucky to have Chris as our Class of 1985 President, but more importantly, we were blessed to have known him as an incredible friend.

With deepest sympathy,

Deepest heartfelt sympathies to the Vicente family. Chris was a wonderful person and my first love--my life would not have been the same without his wonderful presence and inspiration

Dear Connie and Frank, Words can never express the saddness we feel at this time. Please be aware you are in our thoughts and prayers and have our deepest sympathy. Chris was an exceptional man, he will truly be missed.

Connie, Chris looks so familiar to me..i live in West Hollywood and it is quite a small community here.. i had probably seen Chris around or maybe even talked to him and never put it together. I havent seen Chris for ages but i sure remember him tagging along with Jim and I, when we were playing in the basement at your mothers house. How many hours i use to spend down there playing.
My condolences,

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My condolences.
Chris was a good friend to me throughout middle & high school. He was always fun to hang out with and made life a little better with his positive attitude.
He'll be genuinely missed.

Farewell, Doody. For a Bellefonte boy you done pretty good.

My deepest sympathies to the Vicente family. I only knew Chris for a short time, but while I did, his incredible spirit for life and what he did shined through. He was such a pleasure to work with and to get to know. He will be deeply missed.

I have such fond memories of Chris from high school and I was so saddened to hear of his death. He was an extremely talented person and such a bright light in our school. My heart goes out to his family and friends. With deepest sympathy.

Col and Mrs Vicente,
I adored Chris. And I am so saddened by his death. There are so many of us here in Mpls who just loved and adored him and cannot believe the news. I got to know Chris while we both worked at John Ryan Co many years ago -- and then we stayed friends and colleagues and only fell out of close touch a few years ago for no reason other than busy lives and moving on to new career opportunities. Chris was wonderful. Truly a one-of-a-kind. Creative. Fun. Funny. Handsome. Spritied. Clever. We had lunch one day about 5 years ago and for some reason we talked about you both and his family for what seemed like hours. It was a great conversation because I felt like I got to know him so much better. He loved you both so much and was very proud of his family and how close he felt to you. We lost my brother many years ago but not a day goes by that I do not think of my parents missing him (as do I). It is such a tragedy to lose a child, no matter what that child's age or the circumstances. I cannot even imagine how you are coping with the loss of your beloved Chris. We will all miss him.

Connie and Frank,

Christopher was an amazing friend. He touched our lives with his passion, energy, creativity and vision. Amy, Grace, Abby and I were lucky to have known him and we will miss him terribly. You are both in our prayers.

I will miss seeing Christopher's beautiful smile in yoga. It always made me feel amazing!

To the Vicente Family: I had the pleasure of meeting Chris when we were floormates freshman year at Penn State. We lost touch after college and I was amazed, though not surprised, reading about his accomplishments after Penn State. I remember lots of great times with him, and he always kept me laughing. My thoughts & prayers go out to you.

Beaker...you may have lost your hair over the years, but your energy never waivered and it will continue to fill the space around all who may have known you! I am thankful for meeting you in Lion Ambassadors and sharing our lives over the many years since. I danced for you on Saturday like we did at the Brick & Scorpion. I know you are smiling and laughing very loud! You will be missed, but NEVER forgotten. My heartfelt sympathy is with your parents.

Connie and Frank
My deepest sympathies to you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Chris I was so honored to have you as my friend. I will pray for comfort and strenght for your family during these difficult times.

Christopher was a rare spirit. He loved and lived a lifetimes worth and was loved the same in return. His talent will never be duplicated. He gave so much and never asked for anything in return. He was a great mentor. I can still hear his laugh. May the love and support of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Frank and Connie - This is such sad news. I find my heart aching for both of you, and I just cannot find the right words of comfort. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers as you face these difficult days. Much love, Jane and Dan Madio

Dear Vicente Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. No words can explain the energy he showed in High School with the class of 1985. His smile will always be with us. I have often driven past the old house in Bellefonte and thought where is he now, what new adventure has he accomplished, and where is the beutiful orange Mustang he drove. Reading his obituary I now know that he never slowed down and was always pressing for something to be perfect. He will truly be missed by many and definitely by his class of 1985. God bless you all!

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

May the love of friends and family carry you through. Chris will be greatly missed.

Dear Vicente Family,
I am unable to attend the memorial for Chris this weekend. As I am going through a medical emergency with my husband. I just wanted to let you know that your son was a remarkable person.
And, he will be sadly missed by all who's lives he touched. May God be with you to guide you through this horrible time.
Here's a poem that I found that I read it often when I'm missing someone that I've lost.

Tears
If tears could build a stairways and memories were a lane, I would walk right up to heaven to bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken no time to say goodbye you were gone before we knew it and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know......

Such a great loss, Chris will be missed by all his friends in Minneapolis and around the world. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Chris I have great memories of us in high school, your talent took you to amazing places. Now you are in the most amazing place of all heaven. I will pray for strenght and comfort for your family. I am honored to be your friend ..Love always Emma (Dashem) Albright

I offer my deepest sympathies to everyone who will miss Chris. May you find the strength necessary in this time of grief.