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Jenn
September 22, 2020
Topher, I miss you so much. There is no way I would have gotten through my family tragedy without your witty banter and constant encouragement. And now with losing you, I don't have you to walk with me through this fresh loss.
I cannot believe you have been gone for six months and find myself wanting to call you often, bringing renewed grief that you are gone.
I got a kitten to comfort me in the grieving process but my friends wouldn't let me name her Topher... since she is a girl and all. So I named her Jasmine and call her Jaz. She totally has your personality, though. It's uncanny.
Kathleen Solomon
April 26, 2020
Dearest Martha, Our hearts are heavy in learning about Christopher. It has been 23 years since we have seen Christopher and remember him as a precious little boy with big brown eyes. Praying for you and your family. We will always hold our times as neighbors on Capital Place as one of the best times in our lives. With much love, Kathy and Charley Solomon
Roberto Otto
April 21, 2020
Dear Martha, So sorry to hear about your and Elisabeth's terrible loss. I wished I could have met Christopher as I read such wonderful things about him and the outpouring of love for him via Gofundme. Chez was very proud of his son (as I am sure you were as well) and actually Chez sent me many photos of the two of them on ski vacations and I saved all the photos. I feel like I know him some through the all the fotos. Oh man I really do not know what to say anymore to be helpful. I just pray and send you strength that you and Elisabeth lean on each other with a very strong bond to support each other for a long long time. A big hug from Bobby O from Berlin, Germany
April 20, 2020
Martha, I am thinking and praying for you and Elisabee right now my friend. I can not find the right words to tell you how sorry we are to hear about Christopher. You are always in our hearts Martha and we think of you and our Capital Place family often. Love, Gina, Rich, Danny and Joey DeMartis
April 18, 2020
Steve and I are so sorry for your loss.
No words will help you feel better.
Thinking of you....
Susan Remick
Bernadine Klemczyk
April 18, 2020
To Martha and Elizabeth: I remember Chris fondly-especially his curls. You have suffered two great losses. May God grant you strength and peace.
April 18, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
I remember fondly our children playing together when they were little on Capitol Place. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Susan Reese
Rich Grace
April 17, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth, so sorry to hear about Topher. Our whole family; like everyone, loved him. We'll always remember his smile, The Grace's
April 17, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
Your son was a fun loving person from my limited experiences. We bonded over weight lifting and shared personal struggles in a couple of shared classes at Marist. I remember him for having extremely high character, and looking to help me even over himself. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Annie Minoff
April 17, 2020
Topher, thank you for being my first friend at Marist. Never would have gotten through freshman year without you. My thoughts are with your family and friends. You were one of a kind.
April 17, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
So very sorry for your loss.
The Hallenbeck Family
April 17, 2020
Marth and Elizabeth,
Our condolences for the loss of your brother and son.
The Nero Family
The Stagnitta Family
April 17, 2020
Martha & Family,
May God give you the strength you need. Our prayers are with you in your tragic loss. ❤
Colleen Everett
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your wonderful son and brother. He always was a ray of sunshine and such a kind soul. You all are in our thoughts and prayers and I pray for God to comfort you.
Wendy McAlonie
April 16, 2020
I remember Topher fondly. He was a student in my History class at Columbia. I am so sorry for your loss.
Frannie
April 16, 2020
Dearest Martha and Elizabeth, I am so sorry to hear about Christopher. As a mom, I unfortunately know the heartache you are feeling first hand. Please know that I am here to help you through this devastating time! I pray you both find comfort in memories you all made as a family and the beautiful memories made at the wedding. Allow them to bring comfort to your hearts, a smile to your face. He and his dad will be watching out for their girls and will guide you through the trying times ahead ❤Love and friendship,
April 16, 2020
Peace
Laura
April 16, 2020
I know that you always liked me, and I wish you had known that I always had a secret little crush on you
Daniel McGale
April 16, 2020
Mrs. Wos and Liz,
Topher was really one of a kind and I have so much to thank him for. He was the first friend I made at college and I couldn't have been luckier. He looked out for me every step of the way at Marist and during our time abroad. He introduced me to my fiancée and for that I'm forever grateful. He was a brother to me from the moment I met him and a really special person. You should be extremely proud of what he did his four years of college. I have never seen a person be so strong and I was unbelievably proud of how he handled himself in every situation. Sending my thoughts and prayers to both of you. Thinking of you and your whole family.
April 16, 2020
Dear Martha and Elizabeth, my heart breaks for you. I will always remember Chris's smile in the halls at Bell Top. My prayers are with your family. Love, Kathy DeWeese
Jane Smith
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
There are no adequate words. It was an honor to have shared a very small piece of Topher's time at Blue Sky...fond memories.
The Smith and Hyer families.
Laura Casellini
April 16, 2020
I loved you from the first moment that I ever met you, and your passing is just not fair. You were such a great person to be around. I pray that I will find a man with any of the qualities that you possessed. I love you and please rest in please and rise in glory.
April 16, 2020
To Topher's family and friends.
To a wonderful spirited guy who will be sadly missed. Rest in Peace Always, ~Marian
Nancy Kelly
April 16, 2020
Our hearts are broken for you, Martha and Liz. We loved Topher's great big heart and how he was always there for Laura, from junior prom until he moved south. God bless you in your grief. We will always remember him with love.
Alison Knapp
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth, so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
The Knapp Famliy
Laurie
April 16, 2020
So sorry for your familys loss
Emily Bonesteel
April 16, 2020
Martha, my heart goes out to you in this difficult time. Thinking of you and your family and sending lots of love your way.
Ryan Schafer
April 16, 2020
Topher was a great guy and an awesome friend. He will be greatly missed but I will cherish all the great memories. Love and prayers to the Wos family.
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth, our hearts go out to you. We cannot imagine what you are going through. We will keep you both in our thoughts and prayers.
Your cousins,
Pattie, Steve, and Alex Card
Suzanne Wos
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth, Dan and I are so saddened to hear about Christopher, you guys have been through so much these past years. Christopher was such a good person. May you find rest and comfort in the love and hope of God, and others that surround you. I pray that you feel his love as you mourn your loss of Christopher.
Sue and Dan Wos
Laurie & Rick Gonzales
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth...our hearts are broken once again. Please know we are thinking of you. Much love...
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth , my heart goes out to you!Please know you are in my prayers and that I am here should you need anything!!!
April 16, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. Chris sounded like a beautiful soul. God bless.
The Cohen Family
Pat Bucklin
April 16, 2020
Martha,
I am so deeply saddened to learn of your son's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Barbara McMahon
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth - so very sorry to hear about Christopher and please know you both are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Dessureau
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth, we are so heartbroken to hear of the passing of your beautiful son and brother, Christopher. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. You all have been through so much the past several years. Christopher was such a caring and wonderful person. You should be so proud of the young man he became. We hope you can find peace and comfort in each other. Love always, Chrissy, Rich, Richie and Justin Dessureau
The Hickey Family
April 16, 2020
Topher was a part of our family. He always had a smile on his face. Many laughs and great stories with this young man in East Greenbush and at Schroon Lake. Love to you all and may you find comfort during this difficult time.
Brittany De John
April 16, 2020
You and your family have always been good family friends and I'm so blessed to have know you all. I enjoyed working at the Y with you and your sister, you always had such a positive attitude and outlook on life. Sending lots of love to your family during this time! ❤
April 16, 2020
Martha, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Mary Catellier
Kristen Foley
April 16, 2020
So sorry for the loss of Topher. I taught him in 7th grade. He was such a nice, intelligent young may. A pleasure to have in a classroom. My condolences to all of his family. May he Rest In Peace!
Christian Crawmer
April 16, 2020
My deepest condolences to the Wos family, may the memories of our childhood live on forever Topher.
Much love,
Christian.
Elizabeth Wilkinson
April 16, 2020
Martha and Elizabeth,
Topher brought nothing but joy into this world. He will be missed beyond measure. We love you and will keep you in our prayers.
Love,
Elizabeth, Keith, Abe, Ben and Vincent
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