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Debra “Debbie” Ann Kilishek (Wheeler), age 72 of Menasha, WI passed away peacefully on November 24, 2025 surrounded by the love and comfort of her family. Debbie lived a life defined by kindness, strength, and a heart that embraced everyone she met.
Those who knew her will remember her gentle spirit, unwavering loyalty, and the way she always made others feel valued and seen.
Debbie is survived by her sons, Michael (Amanda Wagner) and Thomas Kaufman; her beloved sweetheart, Clay Freelund; her brother, Larry Wheeler, Jr.; and her grandson, Jesse.
Debbie is preceded in death by her parents Larry Wheeler, Sr. and Jean Wheeler; and her sister, Theresa Wheeler.
Debbie’s family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to everyone at Oakridge Gardens who offered care, compassion, and companionship during her final days.
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