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Deborah Durkin Obituary

Deborah Durkin (Debbie), 81, died peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, May 31, 2023 at a senior living home, Suffield House. She was born in Hartford, CT, attended Saint Justin's School and is a proud graduate of Weaver High, Class of 1960. Deborah is the daughter of the late Edith Mary (McGill) Durkin and Matthew Joseph Durkin, Jr. She married and settled in East Hampton, CT.

While raising her children she was a caregiver of several neighborhood children and worked for the Town of East Hampton. Later relocated to a senior living community in Cromwell where she enjoyed gardening and spending time with supportive and caring friends.

Deborah is survived by her 3 children; Brian Michaud of Avon, Mark Michaud and wife Karen of Southington, Jennifer Lord and husband Richard of Suffield and 7 beloved grandchildren: Nathan, Sophia, Gavin, Grace, Matthew, Will and Addie. She is also survived by her brother Brendan M. Durkin and wife Barbara of Newington, CT and several nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests contributions be made to the New England Donor Services. New England Donor Services is a non profit organization that serves the community for organ and tissue donation. Contributions in memory of both Deborah and a dear family friend, Katie Coolican, a 6-yr old East Hampton resident who gave the gift of organ donation, can be made at neds.org/give or sent by check to New England Donor Services, 60 First Avenue, Waltham, MA 02451 in honor of Katie Coolican.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, June 5th at 10am at St. John's Church in Cromwell, CT, followed by a private burial. Cromwell Funeral Home is handling the arrangements. To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 3, 2023.

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Deborah Zapor

June 8, 2023

Brendan,

I am so sorry for your loss. I just read about it and you have my heartfelt condolences. Praying for you and the family.

Debbie Zapor

Joyce Micale

June 4, 2023

My sincere condolences for the loss of Deb. I will always remember our conversations and laughs we had. Deb was a special person.

Joyce Micale

June 4, 2023

My sincere condolences to the family. I was very saddened to hear about Debs passing. She will always be remembered.

Neil Sullivan

June 4, 2023

Dear Brendan and Durkin Family: so sorry for your loss. May fond memories comfort you and may Deborah Rest in Peace.

Charlotte Goldstein Koskoff

June 3, 2023

I felt very sad to read about Deb's passing.
She was my classmate at Weaver High. In recent years I would see her at meetings of our class reunion committee. She was a tireless, enthusiastic worker and leader on that committee.
Deb was good company, she had a nice sense of humor and was always interested in other people.
Deb Durkin was a very fine human being. I'm glad that I knew her.
To her family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Charlotte Goldstein Koskoff

Marlene Schaeffer

June 3, 2023

Brendan sorry for the loss of your sister.

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