Deborah Joan Schexnaydre

Deborah Joan Schexnaydre obituary

Deborah Joan Schexnaydre

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1600 North Causeway Blvd, Metairie, LA 70001

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18

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St Charles Borromeo

13396 River Rd, Destrehan, LA 70047

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Deborah Schexnaydre Obituary

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Deborah Joan Schexnaydre, 74 years old, of Luling. She passed away peacefully on October 2, 2025. She was born on August 27, 1951, in New Orleans, the child of Edward and Florence Tschantz.

Debbie was, above all else, a fiercely devoted and loyal mother who lived her life with unapologetic boldness and boundless love for her children. A true maverick who was always willing to do whatever needed to be done to care for her family, often in her own wild, unconventional way. Strong-willed, outspoken, and unafraid to be exactly who she was,

Debbie's larger-than-life personality made her unforgettable to everyone who crossed her path. Her story, filled with humor, grit, heartache, and resilience, could have come straight out of a novel. In true Debbie fashion, she chose to leave this world on her own terms, surrounded once more by all of her children.

She is preceded in death by her parents, her brothers Edward and Wayne, her husbands, Kenneth Kirtland and Michael Schexnaydre. She is survived by her sister, Joan; her children, Kenny, David, Jessica, Tiffany, Eric, and Luke; her grandchildren, Carli, Isaac, Cassie, William, Kaden, Stefan, Jaxen, Chance, Olivia, Molly, Michael, Andrew, Julian, Elijah; and four great-grandchildren.

A visitation and funeral service will be held from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. on October 18, 2025, at Tharp Funeral Home, located at 1600 N. Causeway Blvd., Metairie, LA 70001. The service will be followed by burial at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church in Destrehan.

Arrangements entrusted to Tharp Funeral Home. Expressions of love and sympathy may be placed and viewed at www.tharpcares.com.
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Upcoming Events

Oct

18

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Tharp Funeral Home

1600 North Causeway Blvd, Metairie, LA 70001

Send Flowers

Oct

18

Funeral service

12:00 p.m.

Tharp Funeral Home

1600 North Causeway Blvd, Metairie, LA 70001

Send Flowers

Oct

18

Interment

12:00 p.m.

St Charles Borromeo

13396 River Rd, Destrehan, LA 70047

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Services provided by

Tharp Funeral Home - Metairie

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