Douglas J. Friauf

I always liked when Doug would be deep into an explanation of something, and then he’d push his wheelchair into the wall to straighten out his feet.
It’s funny the things you remember

Doug,
Damnit I miss you!

To Doug's family and friends:

My favorite memories of Doug are: "dancing" with him and his wheel chair at a concert, watching him give gleeful children rides on his lap in his chair at Minicon, sharing foods at bidding parties at science fiction conventions(one bite for him, one bite for me),and just talking, talking, talking. He was a lovely man and we are all richer for having known him. Sweet dreams, Doug.

I've known Doug wince I moved to Minneapolis 30 years ago. He has been kind and generous with his time, energy and money. I will miss seeing him in the future and I am sorry I was unable to be there Saturday to talk with you directly.

I've known Doug over 30 years, from the fellow with the somewhat odd walk to the fellow in the wheelchair on oxygen at the most recent MINICON. We celebrated his last birthday in a hospital room. I had been hoping to celebrate many more. I admired his strength and often enjoyed touring the somewhat seedier sides of cities around the world with him. He is missed tremendously!

Dear Friuf Family:
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Doug was a kind and gentle man who I am proud to have met. Knowing Doug, laughing with Doug and being in his presence was an honor. He was kinder than many, and stronger than most. I will miss hearing his stories, his laughter, and his jokes. You have my deepest sympathy during this difficult time and throughout your mourning. I only wish I could have been at the memorial to send him off. Unfortunately, I learned of his passing far too late today.

I enjoyed seeing Doug so many times at Minicon, usually surrounded by a group of chattering science fiction fans. I am sure I will continue to see him, just out of the corner of my eye.

To the Friauf Family,
I was lucky enough to know Doug through our work at Musicland. He always had a smile on his face. He loved to talk about all the movies and his science fiction interest. Know now that Doug is able to move freely throughout the world and travel to all the sites he couldn't in life. Doug always showed everyone such strength and determination and fought such a couragous battle. May god bless your family.

I'm so sorry to hear about Doug's death. He was a great guy to talk to, and I enjoyed seeing him at Minicon a few weeks ago.

Sadly, I just recieved this information. I was out of town all last week, and was saddened to hear of Doug's death. I remember his love of movies, and recall fondly our poking fun at a Block E security guard who thought Doug was trying to cause trouble. I didn't see him as much as I would have liked to, but he was loved by a great many people.

To the Friauf Family,
Doug was such a wonderful person to get to know. I worked with him for many years at Musicland. His strength and determination to fight this disease amazed me each and every day. Know now he is now free from the life he struggled with all those years. May he have peace and travel the universe to all the places he dreamed of. He will be missed by everyone he touched in his short life.

Sorry to hear of your loss. I remember the times he and I had lunch when we both were working for the State of MN.

Doug was a warm, kind, friendly guy. I always enjoyed his company when I lived in Minneapolis in the '80s, and I was glad to see him at Minicons and Worldcons since that time.

My memories are of a gentle soul. They just don't come any better than Doug. I sure am going to miss him.

I've known Doug from the local science fiction community over the years, which he had greatly enriched with his presence. He will be missed.

Dear Friauf family,
Doug was a wonderful presence in the science fiction community and I will miss the opportunity of visiting with him at our local conventions.

- Laramie

Doug, you were one of the bravest people I ever knew. The trips you took, the sights you saw, the adventures you had, all complicated by a failing body, made a deep impression on me. I'll miss you a lot. I'm proud to have known you for so long.

Darla,
I was so sorry to read of your brother's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Roger & Elaine & Family,

All your friends at MAPA join Ivy and me in sending our sympathy and prayers to you for the loss of Doug. While the loss is deep and painful the fond memories will live on. May he rest in peace.

John & Ivy

I'm so sorry to hear about Doug's passing. I worked with him for many years at Musicland and he was just a great person to be around. My condolences to all of you! God bless.

Duane,
This is a special message for you. I know you will miss your brother terribly. I hope you are holding up strong and you are well.
I still remember your visit to Ray and I in Buffalo! Wish we could be there with you all!
Love, Linda and Alissa

Aunt Elaine, Uncle Roger,
Diane, Donna, Darla and family…
We are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. We are sorry we can not be there with you, but know we are thinking of you all.
I hope Doug is at peace now and watching over us all. We will miss him much.
Miss you all,
Love, Linda and Alissa

Donna and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
We will think of Doug whenever we wish upon a star.
Ronnie & Rob Breitenbach

Dear Elaine, Roger & Family
We will be thinking of all of you during this sorrowful time and wish we could be there.
Doug went thru a lot during his lifetime, he is now free of pain and our prayers and thoughts go out to you at this time.

Dear Friauf Family,
I worked with Doug for many years at Musicland. He taught me a lot about life and dignity and overcoming hurdles. I know he will be missed. Please accept my deepest condolances.

Dear Friauf Family,
Jill and I send our sincere condolences. We wish we could be with your family on Saturday, but will be out of town. Please know we will be there in spirit.

The family has my sincere condolences with the loss of Doug. My prayers are with you all. I think Doug will be in a better place, he doesn't have to suffer with his illnesses anymore.