Dzintra Messing

Dzintra Messing obituary, Quincy, MA

Dzintra Messing

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Hamel-Lydon Chapel

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Dzintra Messing Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts on Oct. 20, 2025.

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Dzintra "Cindy" Messing (Lavends) of Quincy passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 19, 2025.
Beloved wife of Dennis Messing Sr. Loving mother of Timothy Messing and his wife Lisa of Valrico, FL, and the late Stephen Cohen, Matthew Messing, and Dennis Messing Jr. Cherished grandmother of Brooke, Ryan, and Gabriel Messing. She is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews, as well as extended family and friends who will miss her dearly.
Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours on Thursday, October 23, 2025, from 2:00–4:00 PM at the Hamel-Lydon Chapel.
Burial will be private.

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Upcoming Events

Oct

23

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Hamel-Lydon Chapel

650 Hancock Street, Quincy, MA 02170

Send Flowers

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