Elissa Monique O'Leary

Elissa Monique O'Leary obituary

Elissa Monique O'Leary

Elissa O'Leary Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wilsonville Funeral Home and Cremation Services on Oct. 21, 2025.

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Ellie O'Leary, a loving and devoted wife, mother, sister and friend to many passed away peacefully on October 13 at the age of 53.

Born in Toledo, Ohio, she graduated from Lakeridge High School, earned her undergraduate degree at the University of Oregon, and completed a Masters in Social Work at Loyola University, Chicago.

Ellie built her life around family, faith, and the belief that love, laughter and chocolate could carry anyone through life's hardest days. A fiercely protective mother and a supportive wife, she poured her heart into raising her children and creating a home filled with comfort and warmth. Her marriage was marked by enduring love and loyalty.

Ellie honored family traditions and truly enjoyed entertaining. Her door was always open and there was always room for one more at the table – especially Duck fans. Her warmth and candor drew you in and made you want to stay a while. She will be remembered for her welcoming spirit, her generosity, and a quick wit that brought an uplifting perspective even in difficult times.

Her laughter was contagious, her kindness genuine, and her presence a steady reminder of what it means to love deeply and live fully.

Ellie is survived by her husband, Patrick; Children Molly, Erin and Patrick. Parents: Jim and Michelle Ott; Siblings: Michaela (Adrian) Borgeson, Josh (Leslie) Ott, Andy (Leah) Ott, Ryan (Franziska) Weber; Nieces and nephews: Grace, Maggie, Lexie, Julia, Lukas, Quentin, Annie, Luke, Shane, and Vincent.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Pamela Josephson.

A Catholic funeral service will be held on Friday, October 24 at 10 A.M. Christ Church, 1060 Chandler Rd., Lake Oswego.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: (breastfriends.org)

or (birdallianceoforegon.org)

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Clare McEnteggart Murrihy

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To Patrick, Molly, Erin, Patrick and to all Ellie´s wider family and many, many friends, I offer my sincere sympathy to you all in the immense loss of such an amazing, wonderful lady.
Sweet, sweet Ellie...she stayed in contact with me after I met her in CA in 2005.
I loved receiving messages from her telling me all about her much loved family. I prayed for her throughout her illness and kept her informed on any fundraisers I did to help with cancer charities here in Ireland. She was always so encouraging and appreciative.
I will miss her friendship, love and laugh. Sending you all so much love, strength and hugs over the tough days ahead.
May beautiful sweet Ellie Rest in eternal peace, until we meet again.

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