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Ellie Gray Obituary

ELLIE GRAY
January 11, 1955 - August 14, 2024
Ellie Gray passed gracefully and gently on August 14, 2024, after a two-year battle with cancer.
Born Ellen Christine Gray on January 11, 1955, in Burbank, CA, to Joe and Ann Gray, Ellie's love of nature began young, with her parents taking her and her older brothers, Mike and Kip, into the Sierra Nevada mountains or down to Baja California to go hiking, fishing, and camping. The nearby horse ranches captured Ellie's attention, and she became a hunter-jumper equestrian, bestowed with many ribbons.
Always the independent type, she left home after high school, moving to Mammoth Lakes, CA, where she ran a health food store. There, she married her first husband, Dennis "Sparky" Sanders, and had their first child, Nathaniel. They moved to the Española, NM area and had their daughter, Claire.
She was a true pioneer woman, raising goats and chickens, keeping horses, and feeding many families with her extensive vegetable gardens. Ellie's outdoor life also included mountain biking, hiking, and downhill skiing.
Later, she moved to Santa Fe and became a massage therapist. She met Michael Nunnally through his chiropractic office, and they married in 1998. Ellie and Michael spent the next 26 years working together in health care and traveling the world, with Maui and Europe as their favorite destinations.
Ellie loved being a grandparent; "Nana," as she was called, enjoyed sharing her love of cooking, gardening, sledding, and having fun with her grandchildren.
Ellie's memory lives on as a celebration of nature, devotion to family, and, most of all, as a generous, loving, and cheerful spirit.
She is survived by her husband, Michael Nunnally; her son, Nathaniel "Natch" Sanders; her daughter, Claire (Alec Longstreth) Sanders; her brother, Joseph "Kip" Gray; step-daughters Anand (Brendan) Duncan and Lacey (Jason) Schmeltzer; and grandchildren Owen, Aaron, Eeva, Suzanne, and Wendy.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to The Food Depot.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Santa Fe New Mexican on Sep. 27, 2024.

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Kevin & Judy Roach

March 12, 2025

We are heartbroken to learn of Ellies passing. Our deepest condolences to Michael and the family. Our memories of Ellie are filled with the sweetness of the years we shared in the Sierra. Her smile and kindness will remain in our memories and dear to our hearts forever.

Peter Goodwin

November 25, 2024

My condolences to Michael and her family.

Rose Darland

October 29, 2024

Ellie was a lovely and loving woman. Many a time on my visits to the office for an adjustment from Michael, she would wrap her big nurturing wings around me. The news of her passing sent a wave of sadness through me. Heaven has received an angel. Rest In Peace Ellie. We miss you.

Jed

September 28, 2024

always a sweet lady! condolences and good thoughts to the family.

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