Elmer Lewman

Elmer Lee Lewman, 65, of Deepwater, Missouri, passed away peacefully at home on February 26, 2025, surrounded by the family he loved so deeply. A Celebration of life will be held at 6:00 PM on Tuesday, March 4, 2025 with visitation from 5:00-6:00 PM prior to the service. Memorial contributions can be made to the Elmer Lewman Memorial Fund and may be left in care of the funeral home.
Born on March 10, 1959, in San Jose, California, Elmer spent nearly his entire life in Missouri, where he built a legacy of love, loyalty, and service to his family, friends, and community.
Elmer was raised by his mother, Donna Marie Hopkins, and his stepfather, Frank Parks, both of whom he held close to his heart until their passing. He was also preceded in death by his father, Floyd Lewman. Elmer was the devoted husband of Jackie Lewman, his unwavering partner and best friend. Their love was the kind that withstood the test of time-strong, steady, and filled with deep respect and affection.
His daughters, Lorie Lewman (Chris Schneck) of Lowry City, Missouri, and Tiffany Avis (Stephen Avis) of Clinton, Missouri, were his pride and joy. No matter how tough he seemed on the outside, they knew the truth-his heart belonged to them and their families. Elmer adored his grandchildren, Colt Reo, Presley Beasley, Austin Rhodes, Torie Rhodes, Ely, Evin, Lana, and Korbin Avis, as well as his seven great-grandchildren. They brought him endless joy, and he loved nothing more than being "Papa."
Family meant everything to Elmer, and that love extended to his siblings, Lisa Walker (Gabe), Terri Lawson (Brad), Johnny Lewman (Dorothy), Charles Lewellen (Joann) and Kevin Lewellen He cherished the bond he shared with them, always looking out for each other through life's ups and downs. He also leaves behind his 7 nephews the 8th preceded him in death and two nieces, each of whom knew that Uncle Elmer's love came with a mix of tough advice and good-hearted teasing.
His lifelong friends Kenny and Julie Poe of Kansas City were more than just friends-they were family. Their connection spanned generations, beginning with their parents before them, and Kenny was more like a brother than a friend. The two men stood by each other through everything, proving that true friendship is one of life's greatest treasures.
Elmer was a man of many passions, and he poured himself into everything he loved. He had a deep appreciation for classic cars, motorcycles, guns, and the great outdoors. But above all, he was a man who served. His years as a volunteer firefighter for the Deepwater Fire Department and his work with the city were more than just jobs-they were his way of giving back, of protecting the people and places he cared about. He believed in hard work, in showing up, and in standing by his word.
With a rough exterior and a slightly sarcastic sense of humor, Elmer had a way of making people laugh, even in the toughest moments. He didn't sugarcoat things, but beneath that tough shell was a heart as big as Missouri itself. His loyalty was unmatched, his love for his country was fierce, and his presence was one you never forgot.
Elmer will be remembered as a devoted husband, a proud father and grandfather, a loving brother, a true friend, and a man who loved his family, his community, and his country with every fiber of his being. His spirit will live on in the stories told, the lessons shared, and the love he left behind.
Those who knew Elmer are encouraged to raise a glass, share a laugh, and remember a man who, in his own way, made the world a better place.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Vansant-Mills Funeral Home in Clinton, Missouri.