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Bob Santuci
March 25, 2025
Erik: I am sure you're enjoying your Heavenly family.
Robert Santuci
March 26, 2024
Erik: I know you and your dad are enjoying your time together. And you're with your Uncle Terry and Gran and Grandpa Hess. Give your dad a hug from me.
Crystal Barone
March 25, 2024
HAPPY HEAVENLY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU ERIK..I KNOW YOU ARE WITH YOUR POPS AND BROTHER, WHICH MAKES THIS DAY MORE SURREAL...YOU ARE ALL MISSED SO MUCH...BUT THIS YR YOU CAN SAY TO YOUR POPS YOURSELF...I LOVE YOU MAN!!!GIVE THEM HUGS AND KISSES FOR ME OK...
March 25, 2023
You know, you're Pops did this every year for you. This time, it's different, both him and Damien are up there with you. I can only imagine the conversations you all are having right now and him trying to keep you boys in line. I sure hope you all are having the time of your lives. To be in the presence of our Lord has got to be the most incredible experience ever. May you all rest easy and watch over your families. Love you all!
Robert Santuci
March 25, 2023
Erik: I am sure you didn't expect your brother and dad with you so soon, but I'm sure you're all happy to be reunited. If your dad doesn't realize it, we all miss him terribly and he's left a big hole in our hearts. Tell him "Bobby" says so.
CRYSTAL BARONE
March 25, 2023
Well Erik this Year it is 18 yrs since you were called home. This yr also your dad wont be writing on your wall, for he has joined you. So I will do it for him. He Missed you so and talked about you often, Damien is also there with you. 2022 was the saddest Yr for me , But I am sure you welcomed them both. Keep and eye on your mom and your brother Justin, they are suffering so. Give Damien and your Dad a hug for me and let them know that I miss them so. And I Love you to man!
Jim Hess
June 9, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday my Son... 46 years ago you came into our lives, kicking & screaming.. Hard to even imagine another year has come & gone without you here with us .. Watch over your Family until we join you..I Love Ya Man .... "Pops"
Robin Santuci
March 26, 2022
Wonderful tributes to Erik. He was/is well-loved. God bless you all!
Jim Hess
March 25, 2022
March 25, 2005, it was "Good Friday" during Lent .. we were getting ready to Celebrate an early Easter that weekend, little did we know that God was going to call your name to join Him at His House.. It's been 17 years since that Day... I have a hard time wrapping my head around that fact .. This year you are joined by your brother Damien who went to see you 1/3/2022.. in Life, Brothers & "Partners in Crime"and now together again, Brothers Forever in Heaven.. So, to my Sons I say, Save me a seat at the Table, I'll see you both when I get there .. " I Love ya Men" Peace & Love, " Pops"
James Hess
March 25, 2021
Its been 16 years since God called you Home... I remember every moment, of yjos day like it was this morning... Keep a watchful eye over all of us down here, as we still need you... Love and Miss You more than words can say or express... " I Love Ya Man"... "Pops"
Antonia Stabler
March 25, 2021
Still remember.always in my thoughts and prayers.
Crystal Barone
June 11, 2020
Happy happy birthday Erik celebrate for ur family would love that
James Hess
June 10, 2020
Happy Heavenly Birthday Erik ...44 years ago, you made your Mom and I the Happiest parents on the planet.. I'm sure that you are celebrating with our Family and Friends up there...Until we can all be together again, always remember, " I love ya man "... "Pops "
Robert Santuci
March 25, 2020
Erik, sorry I never got the chance to meet you but I know you're keeping a watch over your old man and for that I am grateful.
James Hess
March 25, 2020
My Dear Son Erik, Impossible to believe that it has been 15 years since God called you Home..as yet another year pass's it doesn't get any easier to accept the fact that you are gone from us..Please keep a watchful eye on your Family & Friends you left behind until we are all together once again...Give everybody up there with you a Big Hug and Kiss for me, keep the Party going until I get there...Always Remember, "I Love Ya Man", "Pops"
Matt Krechel
November 7, 2019
What's up with Erik hard to believe it's been so long since you've past away. You were always there most thoughtful and giving person I'd ever known. A great friend even when times had gotten pretty ruff. I still think on you all the time and you're forever in my prayers. Until we meet again old friend, God Bless!
Jim Hess
June 9, 2019
Remembering a day when God Blessed me with my first baby boy June 9, 1976...Erik Michael Hess arrived kicking and screaming and made his parents the happiest on the planet...Happy Birthday in Heaven Erik..Keep watch over your Family & Friends until we all meet again... " I Love Ya Man", "Pops"
Toni Stabler
March 26, 2019
Yet again another year without you. Shawn speaks of you often and I see your Grandma every Thursday. Watch over your brother please. Hope you are happy where you are.
Robert Santuci
March 25, 2019
Erik - I wish I'd had the pleasure of meeting you. I know you are missed terribly, especially by your dad who I love as a brother. Keep a watch over your dad and mom and family so they may keep your memory alive.
James Hess
March 25, 2019
My Son, as yet another year passes, hard to believe 14 years have passed.. the heartache doesn't get any easier, the memories don't fade, the Love only gets stronger..I miss you more then mere words can say...The only thing that makes each day any easier, is the fact that we will all be together again someday, Until that time time arrives, watch over all of us, Family & Friends and always remember " I Love ya Man".. "Pops"
Jim Hess
March 25, 2017
A dozen years have gone by since you left us .. it feels like yesterday, same shock, overwhelming sadness..Not a day has passed that you are not loved and missed by many..Keep a watchful eye on all of us left down here...Until we meet again, "I Love Ya Man".."Pops"
March 20, 2017
Here we are again. another year goes by and still we remember. Always.
Toni Cole
June 10, 2016
Happy Birthday Erik!
June 9, 2016
Wishing you a Happy 40th Birthday in Heaven my son..Gone from our lives, but you are locked in our hearts and minds forever..you are loved & missed daily..Always remember, "I love ya man".."Pops"
Heidi Jamieson
March 25, 2016
thinking of you always !!!! Miss you so much !!! Xoxo
Jim Hess
March 25, 2016
Hello my Son...another year has passed..its Good Friday March 25th 2016..My mind cannot wrap around the fact that you left us 11 years ago, right around this time. its 8am, I'm sitting alone with so many memories flooding my brain..There's not a day that has passed that you are not thought of, loved and missed..Watch over your family and friends from your heavenly home.. I Love ya Man.. "Pops"
Jim Hess
June 9, 2015
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it's the memories of you that are the most precious.
By Lamaretta Simmons
Jim Hess
June 9, 2015
Wishing you a Happy 39th Birthday in Heaven Erik ! Gone from our sight, but will live forever in our hearts and minds.."I love ya man" missing you always, "Pops"
Anthony Collett
March 26, 2015
Miss you brother
Think about you all the time.
Heidi Jamieson
March 25, 2015
I can't believe its been 10 years already !!! Still miss you everyday !!! Xoxo
March 25, 2015
Can't believe it has been 10 years. Missed and Loved Always!
March 25, 2015
MARCH 25, 2005..Good Friday, God called you to his side, to be with family and friends who have gone before you..You left family and many friends, with tears, broken hearts and unanswered questions. Our family continues to grow, but not a day goes by that you are not missed, talked about and loved..Until we meet again my son, "I love ya man" "Pops"
Matt Krechel
March 12, 2015
It's been so very long my friend Erik, funny I'll still see your face in someone else walking in store or driving down the street. Still miss the good times hanging out. My Dad is up there with you now so I've hope you guys have ran into one another. Good bless Bro.
Heidi Jamieson
November 14, 2014
I thought of you today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday and the day before that too
I think of you in silence, I often speak your name
All I have are memories and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is a keepsake from which I'll never part.
God has you in his arms, I have you in my heart.
Xoxoxo missing you!!! ??

Erik Hess
November 14, 2014
shawn stabler
November 13, 2014
Still miss you buddy and always will.
Heidi Jamieson
June 10, 2014
I'm always a little late "HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANDSOME" love and miss you everyday !! Xoxo
Love , Heidi
June 9, 2014
Happy 38th Birthday Erik...miss you daily, never to be forgotten or the hole in my heart healed.."Love ya Man"-- "Pops"
May 28, 2014
Forever in our hearts!
March 28, 2014
Eric,been awhile.hope you are having fun up there.please watch over your family and friends,and a special kick in the the pants for Shawn for me.keep your wings clean.love ya.toni
Jim Hess
March 25, 2014
Thank you Toni Cole for keeping this book on line ...it has given me solace and some contentment over all these years Erik has been gone from us...Peace & Love, Jim
Jim Hess
March 25, 2014
March 25,2005..a date that will live forever in my mind and broken heart..9yrs has passed, and our family still continues to love and miss you every day..September will bring another Hess into our world, look down from Heaven and keep watch over all of us and always remember "I love ya man", Missed daily and loved forever, "Pops"
Jim Hess
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas Erik..! Its hard to think that this is the 9th Christmas without you here with us.Memories flood my mind of all the Holidays that we did share...we have your namesake, your brothers son, here at the house, for his first Christmas..Watch over him and all of us until we all meet again, you are loved and missed every day..always remember, "I love ya man".. "Pops"
Heidi Jamieson
June 10, 2013
Happy birthday!!! ! Xoxo miss you !!!
Jim Hess
June 9, 2013
Wishing you a Happy 37th Birthday in Heaven Erik..there's not a day that goes by that you aren't loved and missed by all of us ..until the day we meet again, always remember "I love ya man".."Pops"
toni cole
April 16, 2013
to light your way.
April 16, 2013
hey eric.hope the sun is shining on you wherever you are.always in my thoughts and prayers.antonia

Erik would like you to meet your nephew Erik born 2/11/2013...named so proudly after his Uncle..Forever Missed
March 25, 2013
March 25, 2013
March 25,2005,Good Friday,God lost his son and brought mine to him..8yrs have passed, and the pain hasn't eased or my heart healed..Sadly missed,Forever loved and Never Forgotten.."I love ya man" "Pops"
Jim Hess
December 25, 2012
Another year pass's, another Christmas without you my son..I wish you a very Merry Christmas in heaven, watch over all of us, soon a new addition to the Hess family will arrive, Damien & Alesia's son, and he will bear your name..Always remember " I love ya man".."Pops"
Heidi Jamieson
March 26, 2012
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again.
~Author Unknown~ love you always
March 25, 2012
At 7:21am, Good Friday March 25,2005 my world stopped..its hard to believe its been 7 years since God called my son home..Sadly missed, forever loved, never forgotten..."I love ya man", Pops
Jim Hess
December 25, 2011
Yet another Christmas arrives, my heart still aches for you my son...your brothers were here and you have a new niece to watch over..Take care of your Aunt Peggie up there and all the other family members, until we meet again, always remember "I love ya man"... Sadly missed & never forgotten.."Pops"
June 11, 2011
Happy Bday E
Jim Hess
June 9, 2011
Stopping by to wish you a Happy Birthday Erik..very hard to believe its been 35 years since you came into the world kicking and screaming..Today, as in all the days since you left, you are missed and loved beyond measure.." I Love ya man"...Pops
Jim Hess
March 25, 2011
Hard to believe that it has been 6 years since God called you home..not a day has gone by without missing you, wanting to hear your laughter or the sound of your voice..Always remember my son, "I love ya man"..
Shanyn Dillender-Lee
March 25, 2011
Another year has gone by, 6 years. Its crazy! I still think of you all the time and miss and love you so much. You will forever be in our hearts. You are our Angel watching over us! Forever missed and loved!!!
Heidi Jamieson
January 30, 2011
Miss you so much!!! Xoxo
August 30, 2010
missing you everyday!!!!!! <3<3
June 10, 2010
Happy Bday E
June 10, 2010
Wishing you a Happy Birthday, sorry late. Things have been crazy past 2 1/2 weeks. Miss you and Love you always!!
June 8, 2010
34 years ago today you came into the world and made it a better place for all of us..you touched so many lives with your smile & wit..Wishing you a Happy Birthday Erik.."I Love ya Man".."Pops"
March 25, 2010
5 years ago today God called you home to be with him..I miss and love ya man.."Pops"
March 25, 2010
5 years ago today my world came crumbling down. Things have changed in my life and I have moved on but I will NEVER EVER forget those 8 1/2 years we shared together. I can remember then like they were yesterday. You are missed very deeply but I know you are looking down on us all keeping us safe. Love Always!!!!
December 25, 2009
MERRY CHRISTMAS ERIK..! you are forever loved and missed every day..always remember "I love ya man"...Pops...
heidi jamieson
October 15, 2009
just had the greatest memory of you! about 18 years ago andrea & i left hennepin center in my dads blazer. we had a very private conversation, witch we thought was just between us. you had a ear full for about 20 min before i hit that pot hole and we realised it wasnt just the 2 of us!im glad we never dropped you off on hertal like we said we would! thanks for keepin it between the 3 of us! love you always, heidi
June 21, 2009
G'morning my son, Thinking back 33 years ago when I celebrated my first Fathers Day because of you..wishing you were here today.."I love ya Man", Pops
Rich
June 10, 2009
Happy BDay Erik
Shanyn Dillender
June 9, 2009
Erik,
Wishing you a Happy Birthday! Love you always and miss you more than ever!!
Love,
Shanyn
Jim Hess
June 9, 2009
Dear Erik, Just stopping by to wish you a Happy "33rd" Birthday..theres not a day that goes by that you aren't thought of, missed & loved...Always remember, "I love ya man", "Pops"
Rich
March 30, 2009
Always thinking of you....sorry a little late but keep up the good work watching over all of us
Matthew Krechel
March 25, 2009
Whats up E think about you all the time man miss you always think about back in the day and all the time we spent kickin it and still cant believe your gone much love dog
LIL MATT
Shanyn Dillender
March 25, 2009
I don't even know where to begin. All I know is that I miss you so much! Still to this day, 4 years later, I don't understand why it had to be this way. Why did God call you to be with him so early, it's not fair! This might be strange to some but I don't care, I still have your last bottle of cologne, your last cigarette, your bathrobe, your slippers and I still wear your favorite sweatshirt. All of these things and there is more that I have are like a security blanket, I will NEVER get rid of them. I would give anything to just hear your voice again or see you. It's so hard right now and it hurts so bad. Continue to watch over us all. Love you and miss you always! Shanyn
Jim Hess
March 25, 2009
Erik..it has been four years since God called you home..It was by far the saddest day of my life, forced by circumstances beyond my control to say goodbye to my son..never to hear your voice, the sound your laughter or feel your hugs...you are missed and loved today and will be for all the tomorrows yet to come..Always remember "I love ya man"..Pops
Jim Hess
March 25, 2009
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Shanyn Dillender
March 23, 2009
Having a hard time concentrating, thinking about the day that changed my life and others forever. It's like a broken record, it just plays over and over. Love always!
Shanyn Dillender
February 25, 2009
Its getting closer and closer to the day that none of us will ever forget and will live with us all forever. Miss you always and love you forever. You will always be my soul mate and best friend!
Shanyn Dillender
February 3, 2009
Miss you and love you always!!!
Jim Hess
December 25, 2008
To my son Erik, as yet another Christmas arrives, as our family and friends get together and enjoy each others company, we will speak of all the holidays spent together, all the fun and laughter shared. All precoius memories we all have as gifts from you.. I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas as you spend it with the one for whom the season is celebrated..Peace & Love, "Pops"
heidi jamieson
December 18, 2008
HAPPY HOLIDAYS HESS FAMILY!
Heather
December 7, 2008
Hi Erik, was just thinking about you again and jeff so had to stop by..miss you!
December 5, 2008
Hi sweetie just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers today and always!I will always love you!
MATTHEW KRECHEL
October 14, 2008
yo this your boy lil matt from the lou miss you dog everyday i think about ya much love homey
heather LONG
September 11, 2008
Hi erik! had to stop by and tell ya i was thinking of you! Miss you xoxoxoxox
HEIDI JAMIESON
August 26, 2008
ERIK
MISS U SO MUCH!!
Shanyn Dillender
August 25, 2008
Hi sweetie! I miss you so much. Thinking about you a lot lately and today would have been 12 yrs. Can you believe it!? Love you always and forever. Keep lookin over me, I know you are.
Shanyn
June 10, 2008
Happy Birthday! Keep looking out for us all.
Andrea
June 9, 2008
Happy Birthday Erik!I'm Still thinking of you all the time!Miss you!
Shanyn Dillender
June 9, 2008
Happy Birthday sweetie! I miss you more than anything in this world! You are my Guardian Angel, please continue to watch over us all! Love you always & forever, Shanyn
Jim Hess
June 9, 2008
Happy Birthday Erik !Its hard to believe that 32 years ago this day you made your entrance into our world.You touched so many lives while here with us. Your smile and sense of humor will always be a memory treasured by all. Always Remember, "I love ya man" ! Peace & Love, "Pops"
Shanyn Dillender
June 2, 2008
Miss you more than anything in the world!!! Love you always!!! Shanyn
Shanyn
April 28, 2008
Thinking of you alot - miss you more than anything in this world!! Love you always, Shanyn
April 9, 2008
WOW! 3 YEARS ERIK~ COUPLE WEEKS OFF. IM SORRY.I MISS YOU! THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS~ CONTINUE TO WATCH US. XOXOXOXOX'S
Love, Heather
Shanyn
March 28, 2008
Sitting here at work thinkin bout ya. I keep having the craziest dreams and they wake me up, my heart just races. I really think you are with me, I can feel it when it happens. It's so undescribable, it's so real.
Love You Always!
Shanyn
Richard Merrill
March 26, 2008
Sorry this is a day late. We all miss you very much. Keep looking over us all.
Love Rich
Jim Hess
March 25, 2008
My Dear Son, Three years ago today, God called you home..I miss you more then words can explain. We will never understand the reasons why, just take some solace in the fact that you are in a better place, happy and without any earthly limits or the pain that goes with them.Look down on all that loved you and put your arms around all of us. Your smile and memories of the good times will get us through the tough times. Always remember, until we meet again, "I love ya Man"..."Pops"
Shanyn
March 25, 2008
Three years ago today, you left us for a better place. Three years ago today, my soulmate, my love, my bestfriend passed on. Why? I still don't think its fair and have so many questions that will forever be unanswered along with knowing there will never be closure. I have pictures that I still carry with me in my purse and show everyone. I say "This is my Erik". The one is of us on Laguna Beach visiting Aunt Sandy and Uncle J and the other is of you at our old apartment and your sitting on the couch with the biggest smile on your face eating a PB & J sandwich. I will always remember you with that cute smile. I will never, ever forget you! Each year I relive the last couple of weeks and I know they weren't the best but I can't help it, its hard. I still remember all the good times, I promise! I know that you are watching down on me, your family and friends keeping us safe and we love you for that. No one will ever replace you in my heart. You will always have that special place.
I love you always and forever!
Shanyn
Your forever freind and supporter, Chrissy
March 12, 2008
Shanyn- I know that the words that you read on these post bring you back to a place that you so desperatly need to move past, but I want you to know that as a friend that has been through something just as horrible I promise that one day you will move on. I am not saying that it will get "easier" but it will be more managable. We have had many conversations on how you have to move on but never forget and it is SOOOO true. Be true to yourself, stop rejecting any happiness thinking that you don't deserve it, because sweetie YOU DO DESERVE IT. Know that my arms are always open for that needed hug. My ears are always open for that needed talk. My heart is always open and willing to cry with you. So often we forget what is most important after we lose someone... it is US girl. He is forever happy and safe where he is... you have to make that happy and safe place for yourself. I love you and remember... God did and does have a plan although we may never understand it... there is a reason. Focus on what positive has happened within yourself because of the painful things you have endured. LOVE YOU!
ANDREA
February 28, 2008
JUST PASSING THROUGH AND I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I'M THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS!!KEEP LOOKING DOWN ON EVERYONE!
HEIDI JAMIESON
February 7, 2008
MISS YOU SO MUCH
Buffalo News
Posted an obituary
March 30, 2005
Erik Hess Obituary
March 25, 2005, in St. Louis, MO, formerly of Buffalo, NY; fiancee of Shanyn Dillender; son of James Hess and Mary (nee Simcoe) Strong; brother of Damien and Justin Hess; grandson of Lucy and the late Robert Simcoe, the late Edwin and Rosemary... Read Erik Hess's Obituary
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