Evelyn "Evie" Margaret Stanley

Evelyn "Evie" Margaret Stanley obituary, Au Sable Forks, NY

Evelyn "Evie" Margaret Stanley

Evelyn "Evie" Stanley Obituary

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Evelyn "Evie" Stanley passed away peacefully on September 21, 2025, at Meadowbrook Healthcare in Plattsburgh. She was born in Jay, NY on August 5, 1941, to Edward Stanley and Martha Haywood. While she never married, Evie shared many cherished years with her dear companion, Desmond Rushia. Together, they traveled extensively throughout the country, embracing life's adventures with open hearts. Myrtle Beach and Ocean City, NJ, stood out as their favorite destinations, places vibrant with memories and laughter.

Evie was a devoted sister, spending winters in Arizona while Shirley continued her teaching career. Their time together in the desert sun was a testament to the warmth and closeness they shared as siblings.

Evie was a proud Rotarian in Au Sable Forks, where her compassion enriched many lives. She was instrumental in the stewardship of Fairview Cemetery, serving faithfully for years on the Board of Directors and ensuring its legacy endured for generations to come.

Professionally, Evie retired from Key Bank, where she reached the position of Vice President. Her leadership, integrity, and dedication were deeply respected by colleagues and clients alike.

Evie's faith was strong and uncompromising throughout even the most difficult times. She was a member of St. James Episcopal Church her entire life and served in various roles offering her time and talents in any way she could.

She was preceded in death by Desmond Rushia, her sister Shirley Stanley in 2023, and her parents.

She is survived by her extended family members, Jane (Tom) Thwaits, Peggy (Marvin) Bombard, Chuck (Kathy) Haywood, Sr., Bob (Sue) Haywood, and Judy (Tim) Hart.

A Memorial Service to honor Evie's life will be held on Saturday, September 27, 2025, at 1:00 p.m. at St. James Episcopal Church in Au Sable Forks with interment to follow at Fairview Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Evie's name to a charity of choice or to St. James Episcopal Church in Au Sable Forks.

Services were entrusted to Heidrick-Zaumetzer Funeral Home, 3 College St., PO Box 127, Au Sable Forks, NY 12912.

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