Frank Nebus

Frank Nebus obituary, Parlin, NJ

Frank Nebus

Frank Nebus Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home on Feb. 1, 2026.
Francis "Frank" Nebus, age 57 of Parlin, passed away peacefully at his home, surrounded by his loving family. Born and raised in South Amboy and made his home in Parlin. Frank worked for over 29 years with Home Depot and then found a new career as a material coordinator as a subcontractor for Phillips 66 Oil Refinery for several years. He was an avid bowler and fisher as well as member of the Berkley Striper Fishing Club. Frank loved quoting movies and singing. His greatest joy was dressing up as Santa Claus with his wife Kerry as Mrs. Claus for many charity organizations including Toys for Tots and the Santa Train.

He is predeceased by his parents Raymond and Anne Marie Nebus and his brother Raymond.

Surviving is his beloved wife Kerry and his loving daughters Chelsea Nebus, Kristin Mahoney and Rebecca Mahoney. He had two grandchildren Mason and Colin Nunez who he cherished. He is also survived by his siblings Marylou Flannery, Anne Bloodgood, and Robert Nebus, his fur babies Jinx, Dexter and Kemo and a number of other relatives and friends who will miss him dearly.

A memorial viewing will take place on Saturday, February 7, 2026 at Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin from 11:00am to 4:00pm. A prayer service will take place at 2:00pm at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations in Frank's name be made to the Colorectal Cancer Alliance "Blue Hope"

https://colorectalcancer.org/?form=donate&utm_source=email&utm_m edium=footerbutton&utm_campaign=2026JanuaryNewsletterFooter

Complete funeral details, directions, and letters of condolence to the family may be found by visiting www.spezzifuneralhome.com.

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