Fred Kaneau Willing Jr.

In Loving Memory of
Frederick Kaneau Willing Jr.
October 2, 1960 – August 24, 2025
Waianae, Hawai i
Obituary
It is with deep sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Fred K. Willing Jr., who left us unexpectedly on August 24, 2025, at the age of 64.
Born on October 2, 1960, in Hawai i, Fred was the beloved son of May Leimomi and Frederick K. Willing Sr. He was a resilient father, cherished brother, and treasured friend to many.
Fred worked with pride and dedication as a refuse worker, serving his community with humility, strength, and a strong work ethic. He was respected for his reliability and known for always showing up with a smile.
A man of many talents, Fred was a gifted musician who could play several instruments, but it was the drums that truly captured his soul. He played from the heart, and his rhythms reflected the energy, joy, and love he carried within.
Fred was truly the life of the party - not just because he showed up, but because he kept it going well into the night (and sometimes into the next morning). If there was music, Fred danced - especially if someone played Mustang Sally. That was his cue, and once it came on, you knew the night was far from over.
But Fred didn't need a band - he was the band. He'd drum on tables with his bare hands, or grab whatever was nearby - plastic spoons, forks, cans, bottles - and turn them into percussion instruments. If it made noise, Fred could play it.
That same energy carried into everyday life. Fred had a way of making even the most ordinary moments feel fun, light, and worth celebrating. A true Steelers fanatic, we remember the way he lived with passion. Whether he was yelling at the top of his lungs during a game, running errands, fixing something around the house, cooking Ono food for the family, or just stopping by for a visit, he always brought good vibes, laughter, and warmth into our lives.
Fred found peace and happiness at the beach, and he deeply valued time spent with loved ones. He loved being with his family and cherished the bond he shared with his friends. Whether it was music, laughter, or relaxing moments by the ocean, Fred made every moment meaningful.
Fred is survived by his wife:
Kiyomi Willing
And by his loving children:
Miracle (Micah) Leao, Ipo (Late Terence) Kala, Ali imalu (Donnalyn) Kahalekai-Willing, Kanoeanuhea Kahalekai-Willing, Tehani Kahalekai-Willing, Nani (Francis) Tautua a, and Hoku Kaeo
And by his dear siblings:
Amelia Willing, Carl (Debra) Willing, William (Cheryl) Willing, Alberta Willing, and Eleanor Willing
And by his 15 precious grandkids.
And by his many nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, May Leimomi and Frederick K. Willing Sr. and his siblings, Darlene and Doreen Willing.
Celebration of Life
Saturday, October 18, 2025
9:00 AM – 1:00 PM
Service begins at 11:00 AM
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Makakilo Hawaii Stake
92-900 Makakilo Dr.
Kapolei, HI 96707
We kindly request that there be no smoking, vaping, or consumption of alcohol on the premises during the service. We appreciate your understanding and cooperation.
Olelo No eau
"Make no ke kalo a ola i ka palili."
When the taro dies, the shoots live.
Even in his passing, Fred's spirit continues-through his children, his family, his music, and the love he shared. His legacy lives on.
Forever in Our Hearts
Fred was taken from us too soon, but the beat of his drum, his laughter, and his unconditional love will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.