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Gail Schuler Obituary

Gail M. Schuler
September 7, 1937 - June 5, 2025
Gail Margaret Schuler, 87, beloved wife of the late John "Jack" Schuler, passed away peacefully on June 5, 2025, at MidState Medical Center, surrounded by her loving children and grandchildren.
Gail is lovingly remembered by her sons, Paul Schuler of Highlands Ranch, CO, David Schuler and his wife Arline of Ashland, MA, and Mark Schuler of Hamden. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Grace, Jacob (Tati), Liam, and Adam Schuler; her brother, John (Jan) Lindsay; her niece, Anne (Dan) Laffin, and nephew, Jack (Kevin) Lindsay.
Born in New Haven, on September 7, 1937, Gail was the daughter of the late John and Margaret Barry Lindsay. A lifelong resident of Hamden, she and Jack built a beautiful life together, raising their family in the community they cherished.
Gail graduated from Albertus Magnus College in 1959 and began her career as an elementary school teacher in Hamden. After the birth of her first son, Paul, she embraced motherhood with her whole heart, devoting herself to raising her children with love, humor, and boundless energy. Later in life, she returned to school and earned a master's degree in special education from Southern Connecticut State University. Her compassion and dedication led her to work in group homes throughout the Greater New Haven area, where she provided a supportive and nurturing environment for residents with special needs.
Gail had a radiant sense of humor and zest for life that could light up any room. Her faith was a guiding force throughout her life. She and Jack were founding members of St. Joan of Arc Church in Hamden, where Gail was a devoted parishioner and a cherished member of the choir for decades. Her love of music, especially singing and playing the piano, was a gift she shared generously.
She found joy in painting, the beauty of nature, and especially the beach-her favorite place to relax and reflect. Above all, Gail treasured her family. She adored her children and grandchildren and shared a deep, enduring love with Jack, her husband of 57 years.
Friends are invited to celebrate Gail's life during her Memorial Mass at St. Paul VI Parish in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 2819 Whitney Ave., Hamden, on Thursday, June 12th, at 11:30 a.m. Interment will follow at All Saints Cemetery, North Haven. BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden, in care of arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association at www.heart.org . To send a condolence to the family, please visit www.beecherandbennett.com .

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Published by The New Haven Register on Jun. 8, 2025.

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Grace Schuler

June 11, 2025

My favorite picture of my grandparents

Grace Schuler

June 11, 2025

My grandmother was someone who was never afraid to speak her mind, and had a fiery sense of humor. She never failed to make me laugh, and always made me feel seen being the only granddaughter. I have a fond memory of us sitting on the beach together when I was in high school talking about life, school, faith, friends, all of it. I can´t remember specifics, but the feeling of calmness and gratitude I felt sitting there on the beach with her will always stay with me. I even went on to work with special needs kids just like her, and continue to write just like my grandfather. I think it´s safe to say my love of singing may have come from her as well. I love her and will miss her very much, but our shared interests and hobbies will help me feel connected to both of my grandparents for the rest of my life. May they both rest in peace together. Love always, Gracie Schuler

Agnes Beckert

June 10, 2025

Gail was an enthusiastic, loyal, and devoted parishioner at St Joan of Arc and a bright spot in our church choir. Her devotion to her faith and family is a model for all. Rest in Peace my friend.

American Heart Association

June 10, 2025

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

American Heart Association

June 10, 2025

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Dorothy McLoughlin Roberts

June 9, 2025

We had many wonderful fun times together over the years through college and family life.
Even though I moved to Florida when my husband was transferred by Pratt -Whitney we kept in touch and shared our lives. I will miss Gail for her fun loving attitude and sharing her time and and family with me over all those years. God Bless Gail !

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