Gerald E. "Jerry" Cox

Gerald E. "Jerry" Cox obituary, Deep River, CT

Gerald E. "Jerry" Cox

Gerald Cox Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill on Mar. 13, 2026.
6/3/1937 – 1/17/2026

Gerald(Jerry) E. Cox, 88, of Deep River, Connecticut, passed away on January 17, 2026, surrounded by his loving family. Known for his warm smile and captivating laughter, Jerry touched the lives of everyone he encountered.

Born on June 3, 1937, Jerry spent his childhood swimming across Deep River Landing, his love for the water evident from a young age. After graduating from Valley Regional High School in 1955, he bravely served in the National Guard from 1958 to 1961.

But Jerry's real masterpiece was his family. For 64 beautiful years, he and his beloved wife Kathleen created a legacy of laughter and love. His three daughters knew they could count on Dad's infectious laugh and his famous solution to any problem: "I'll just Jerry rig it, don't worry!"

Jerry worked at Pratt Read for many years making friendships Along the way. He then started at Pye and Hogan in 1991, which transitioned into AeroCision in 2009, where he dedicated many years before retiring in February of 2017.

A devoted family man, Jerry cherished spending time with his children and grandchildren, taking them for rides in his beloved Cadillac to Johnny Ads, mini-golf, and cruising down the causeway. He found joy in watching his children and grandchildren enjoy the water as much as he did, especially at their family pool just don't forget your "gargles"

Jerry had a passion for music and could often be found singing very boisterously, playing the piano and playing his harmonica, bringing smiles to all who listened. His sense of humor was legendary, and his ability to make people laugh was a gift that he shared generously.

Jerry is survived by his beloved wife Kathleen Cox, his three children Tammi and Dave Miller , Sheri Cox-Duguay, and Jodi Parker, his seven grandchildren David and Meagan Miller, Dale, Dalton, and Kiley Duguay, and Logan and Ava Parker, as well as his two great-granddaughters Aliyah Miller and Hazel Duguay.

He was fondly referred to as "Pop" by all those closest.

In the hearts of those who knew him, Pop's memory will live on through the laughter he inspired and the love he gave so freely. Rest in peace, Pop. You will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who were lucky enough to know you.

A celebration of Jerry's extraordinary life will be held on February 14th at Clark Memorial Field Banquet Hall, Old Saybrook from 11am till 3pm-because even in farewell, he's spreading love on Valentine's Day

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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