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Gilbert Spencer Obituary

Gilbert J. Spencer
We are saddened to announce the passing of our husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend, Gilbert J. Spencer of Hamden. He passed away peacefully at home on January 16, 2025. Gilbert was born October 15, 1935, son of the late Raymond K. and Mildred Delsole Spencer.
A lifelong resident of Hamden, CT, he was a member of the Hamden Fire Department for 39 years, and retired in 1992 with the rank of Commander.
Gilbert was a life member and Historian of the Sleeping Giant Park Association, where he was the first ever Giant Master, and came to be known as "Mr. Sleeping Giant."
He was a lifelong member of Mount Carmel Congregational Church and took pride in the history behind the Spencer family pew.
He was a life member and former board member of many organizations, including the Hamden Land Trust, and West Rock Park Association. He was also a member of the Mount Carmel Volunteer Fire Association, and the Hamden Journey Club.
He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Helen Emmons Spencer, son, John (Susan) Spencer of North Haven, CT, daughter, Kathleen (Paul) May of Forest, VA, and 7 grandchildren, John, Kristen, Lauren, and Kevin Spencer, and Jessie, Jamie, and John May. Also survived by a sister, Roberta Warfield of Cheshire, nieces and nephews, and innumerable friends. The family wishes to thank the members of the Hamden Fire Department and his medical caregivers for their care and friendship in his final years.
A Graveside Service will be held Tuesday, January 21, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Centerville Cemetery, Washington Avenue, Hamden. All are invited at 12 noon to Mt. Carmel Congregation Church Parish House, 3284 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, following his burial for a Celebration of Gil's life. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Mount Carmel Congregational Church, 3284 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT 06518. To send Gil's family a condolence, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com

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Published by The New Haven Register on Jan. 18, 2025.

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Robert Schuetz and Marilyn Schuetz

January 22, 2025

Dear Helen Bob and I are very sorry about your husband. We never met him but we know how much you loved him. He is out of pain and resting in peace. We look forward to seeing you at Paradise soon. Sending love

Linda Beise

January 21, 2025

Dear Helen, I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Love and peace.

Jean Crisanti

January 19, 2025

Helen, my deepest sympathy to you and your family on your loss. We hope to see you soon.

Carole Burness Pleines

January 19, 2025

How sad. He was a very nice sweet person. God only takes the best. He was that. May you all have peace and love in your lives. I remember him well from the Mr Carmel Fire house. Rest well Gilby Carole and Dicky Pleines

Skip Dunham

January 19, 2025

Condolences to the Spencer family. A great guy. Fr Skip Dunham

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