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Johanna Blanding-Koskinen
September 11, 2024
He lifts us out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He sets our feet on solid ground and steadies us as we walk alongside. - Psalm 40:2 -
God wants to take us to take our sorrow and trade it in for His peace. When we seek God's purpose in the grief and pain, He opens our eyes to his mercy and grace in our lives. Nothing can separate us from the love of God, and we continue to lean on Him even now. Remembering you, cousin...
Garth Snide
September 11, 2024
We listened for your name today during the ceremony. We continue to Never Forget. God Bless Harry.
Mark Peterson
September 12, 2023
Always remembered...
Lori Ace (Ruprecht)
September 11, 2023
Harry, I still miss you. I made a promise to myself on that fateful day and I keep it to this day.
I will Never forget you!
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Trevor Hansen
September 11, 2023
When I learned of what happened to Harry, my heart sank and I sobbed. From that day, I've raised my kids to always be kind, to be loving and caring, to be ready to lend a helping hand, to provide even tough love if needed, and always smile, especially when times are rough, because they're contagious and even a smile helps lift a person up. It's how I remember Harry. He was this person. He was all of this and more. God Bless You Harry.❤
Garth Snide
September 3, 2021
20 years later, we said we would never forget Harry, and we haven´t. Thinking of you and we will listen when they read your name next week. Garth
Cindy Roe
September 2, 2021
Remembering Harry on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Maxine Levine
September 12, 2020
I heard them read your name yesterday and show your handsome face on the screen. I'm thinking of you, Debbie your children and family. May you all find comfort in you memories of Harry.
garth snide
September 11, 2020
Harry, I was thinking of you all day today. I miss you brother. God Bless my dear friend. Garth Snide
garth snide
December 28, 2019
Thinking of Harry and the entire Blanding family this time of year.
Eric
September 11, 2019
I took a photo a few years ago at the 9/11 memorial & Harry's name was in one of them. I decided to look him up today and I'm glad I did. Prayers and love to you family. Never Forgotten.
Maxine Levine
September 11, 2019
18 years later...May you rest in peace. You were taken way too soon.
Keith "Trevor" Hansen
September 11, 2019
Forever remembered, love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always.
Del Newberry
December 22, 2017
May we all honor Harry's life by living the way he did and setting an example of life lived with pride and integrity. Much love from Texas,
Keith "Trevor" Hansen
September 11, 2017
Harry and Alex Blanding were good friends of mine growing up in Middletown. Many nights we spent in my den playing video games, soccer, baseball and football at Bodman Park and hanging out with all our friends. Harry you never knew it but I always looked up to you because you were the person who taught me the meaning of tough love and you were a good friend to everyone, regardless of walks of life, race or color. My wife and I have taught my son and daughter to live the same way, and it started with my mom and dad and continued with you. We might have drifted apart as life sometimes does, but I never forgot you. It broke my heart when I learned of your passing, nearly a year after that dreadful day, and my family prayed for you and your family. Today and everyday I wear my 9/11 Memorial wrist band to remember you and to always remind me and my family to lead a positive life, to do random acts of kindness daily, and be strong in heart, in love and faith. Again my thoughts and prayers go out to your mom, dad, your brother and your family
April 29, 2016
I'm thinking about Harry more often than not lately. It's in laughter. What a brat! It was with good intention. He tried to set me up w/ one of his best friends. A former co-worker (who broke up w/ his girlfriend days prior) Yea = not a good idea, Harry.
September 12, 2015
Such great memories of a wonderful family. I knew them because we went to the same church in Brodheadsville. Remembering Harry always and pray that his family is doing great.
Bev Streck
Harry Blanding Jr.
September 11, 2015
2Peter3:18
Johanna Blanding-Koskinen
September 11, 2015
We know that it is not unusual for God to use the imperfect and inadequate moments of this world to His honor and praise. Those of us who believe on Him, are fortunate in that He gives us in our grief, the room to question him during times like this. And if we allow him, he fills us with a peace that passes all understanding.
It's that peace we want to embrace, because it helps us to draw closer,and we find comfort in his wisdom; we remember the blessed assurance of a love so great, so deep, that he gave his only begotten son, Jesus, the Christ, Our Savior, so that those who choose to believe on Him, would have life everlasting.
And so, we press on, and we continue to grow in the grace and the knowledge of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
And we give to him all the glory, then, now and forevermore. 2Peter3:18.
With much love and prayer, Johanna Blanding-Koskinen
September 11, 2015
To Debbie, your children, and Harry's family: Harry will always be remembered. I hope you find comfort in his memory. I worked with Harry and Debbie before they were married at Allianz Insurance. I always saw how they were drawn to each other. May God Bless you all.
Maxine Levine
Diane Rossi
September 12, 2014
Thinking of Harry always puts a smile on my face. His smile would light up the room! God Bless him and his beautiful family <3
Katie Dupen
September 11, 2014
Dear family of Harry Blanding Jr.,
Every year on Sept. 11, I say a prayer for all of you. I was given a bracelet with Harry's name on it shortly after the attacks of 9/11. At a time when I wanted so desperately to help, and I didn't know what I could do, I prayed.
God Bless all of you,
Katie Dupen
Larry Annunziata
September 11, 2014
You are missed Harry Blanding... Love ya brother..
September 11, 2014
hello i am wearing your name in remembrance of you tragedy in 9/11 God rest your soul.
Kenya Matthews
June 4, 2014
To the Wife and children - may you have peace and comfort...He Loves you a misses you very much!!!
To his twin brother - Harry is never far from you... believe that!!!
May God bless you ALL and keep you in his perfect peace. Amen
Larry Annunziata
September 13, 2013
Love ya brother... miss you and think of you often...
September 12, 2013
Thinking of Harry and wife and kids in church and how blessed and happy they always were. Good memories. Bev Streck
September 11, 2013
Debbie and family, I wanted you to know that I was thinking of Harry today on the 12th anniversary of 9/11. He was a great friend and I miss him, as does all of us who talk about him during this time of year. I have kept to this day my old 1WTC security clearance card in my wallet in memory of Harry. God bless, Garth Snide
mark peterson
September 11, 2013
Hey Debbie and family...I was thinking of Harry today...I remember that big white smile and his great laugh... Bless you all....
Barbara Boam
June 12, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #201) on 3/21/13 as a dedication to your life
Angel Torres
September 16, 2012
Hey Harry,
I am always thinking about you, especially around 9/11. I just wanted to say I love ya and I still appreciate the valuable things you taught me when I was a kid.
Jeremy Blanding
September 11, 2012
Well it's been 11 years since you left us and I just wanted to say I miss you and love you also mom saids I get my love for sports from You thanks for that Love you Dad.
Diane Rossi
September 11, 2012
Dearest Debbie, We are thinking of you and your beautiful children today and remembering the wonderful husband and father that Harry was. His light still shines bright in our hearts! What a wonderful man! Love Always, The Rossi Family XXOO
Maxine Levine
September 11, 2012
Debbie, I think of Harry every year on this date, and often throughout the year. I know he is smiling down on you and your children. I wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.
Beverly Streck
September 10, 2012
Our family remembers seeing Harry and his wife and children together at Plesant Valley Presbyterian Church to worship. They were such a lovely, dedicated family. We remember them fondly on this anniversary.
Bev Streck
The Hayfords
September 10, 2012
Memories are one gift from God that cannot be destroyed. I pray the memories for Harry's family are sweet and good.
Jeanette Delgado-Goe
September 9, 2012
We did not personally meet Harry but my husband and I worked with his mother for several years. She always spoke so proudly of her family. We just wanted to say that we will continue to pray for the Blanding family.
Esther Jackson-Blanding
July 29, 2012
Harry, today is your birthday and even though you are not with us among the land of the living I wanted to wish you a happy birthday. You are truly miss and you will never be forgotten. If love could have kept you, you would certainly be here because you are loved by so many. As I look at Darius, I see alot of you in him. I wish you were here to be that sounded board that you always gave to your brother. Forever in our hearts.
January 28, 2012
To The Family,
I did not know Mr. Blanding, however I would like to extend a sincere message of condolences to you. I'm so sorry for your loss on the terible day of 9/11.
Sincerely,
Mt. Terry of NC
Shirley Blanding Madison
September 17, 2011
To my dear cousins Harry, Dorothy,& Alex.
Whenever there is an occasion to speak of 911, I always speak robustly about my Cousin Harry, Jr. and the life he lived and the contributions he made to family,friends and the community. He lives on in our minds and certainly in our hearts. Love, Cousin Shirley Blanding Madison & Family.
Mark Rossi
September 11, 2011
The Blanding Family was named aloud during prayers at services this morning. God Bless you all!
Alex Blanding
September 11, 2011
to my brother my friend my mentor I miss you and think about you every day may your spirit live on not only in me but also in your children and mine. I love you very much
Jodi Deuhr
September 11, 2011
Today our church, Eastside Lutheran in Sioux Falls, South Dakota handed out remembrance tags with the names of the victims from 09/11. I received a tag with Harry's name. A special prayer was said for you and your family. May God's peace comfort you. Jodi Deuhr, Sioux Falls South Dakota
Frank
September 11, 2011
The smile. Thinking of you today old friend.
Eric, Ann Marie and John
September 11, 2011
To our friend Harry,
We treasured the time we spent with you and your family. You are still in our thoughts and prayers. You will never be forgotton. Rest in peace our friend.
Katie Dupen
September 10, 2011
Dear Blanding family,
9 years ago my husband's company handed out remembrance bracelets for the victims of 9/11. He was given a bracelet with Harry's name on it. I just wanted you to know that every year I say a prayer for all of you, and I am so sorry for your loss. Even though I have never met any of you, I know in my heart that you are a wonderful family. I will continue to pray for you.
Katie Dupen, Georgetown Texas
Alan Olsen
September 10, 2011
Today, I participated in the Las Vegas, NV "911 Remembrance" run/walk event, in memory of Harry - I will never forget the meaning of 911 and God bleass Harry and his family.
Rob Irving
September 6, 2011
I played footbal with harry and could note of known a better man that cared for his family like Harry did. He was an inspiration to many and I am a better man and father for knowing him. He is still loved and missed by many and I will never forget him.
Debbie Blanding
July 29, 2011
Happy Birthday Harry. I loved you since the day I met you and I will never stop loving you. I miss you everyday. You were the best man I ever knew.
Pamela Rasul
May 8, 2011
I met Harry while we both worked for Chubb Insurance. Harry was a wonderful person, his smile would brighten your day no matter what you were going through and I looked forward to seeing him. We all gave Harry and Debbie a baby shower at work while Debbie was expecting and they were elated. I think of Harry often and he will be missed forever. His wife and daughters remain in my prayers.
Lori Ruprecht Ace
April 21, 2011
Hayley
Your Father LOVED you with all his heart and soul. You were truly his fairy tale Princess and he was so very, very proud to have made you with your Mom. Of course he told me your external beauty came from your Mom. Having known them both your internal beauty Comes from both.
I too lost my Father, although not as young as you were that tragic day. I can tell you, from my own experience.. My Daddy was with me when I was walking down the aisle on my wedding day.
Have faith. he watches over you and protects you.
Love,
Lori 570.236.0425
Hayley Blanding
April 20, 2011
I got to thinking a couple weeks ago about my father and when I will see him again, if ever. The thought brought me to tears. I'm not sure why but for some reason, I have been denying that I will only see my father in the afterlife. In the way back of my mind, I thought he would come back. Well now I've realized it and it has been really hard for me. Tears come in my eyes as I think how I won't have anybody to walk me down the aisle at my wedding or have the special father-daughter dance. You won't be at my high school graduation or be there when I achieve my dream of being on the stage. My children will never know their grandfather and when I come home for the holidays, the only parent I will be greeting is my mother. People who recieve the luck of having a father don't get it and I understand. They've had a somebody there for them all their lives. Everybody else in my kindergarten class were making their fathers day gifts to actually give to their dad, while mine was going to be in a glass display case. I know he has seen it because my father has always been a man who's been there for people. He's been down here and he's watching over us. Now that I think about it, who knows...maybe he will be walking me down the aisle at my wedding.
Daddy, I don't know if you're reading this, but I just want you to know that I love you. I will pass on your memory to all who will listen and always remember you.
You are truly my hero.
L J Annunziata
September 20, 2010
Larry Annunziata and Steve Gelormino sitting here and watching Monday Night Football... we lived with Harry in West Orange... we were reminiscing and thinking about Harry... one of the most beautiful people I ever met... never saw a more beautiful smile on a man... always happy no matter how life tried to drag him down... kid worked harder than anybody I ever knew... We love you Harry, one day, I could only hope to see you in that better place...
Larry Annunziata
Steve Gelormino
September 11, 2010
Still think about you Harry; one of the nicest people I ever met.
I will never forget.
Barbara & Mark
September 11, 2010
Although I have never had the pleasure of meeting Harry, I have had the pleasure of meeting his family. On the anniversary of this tragic date, I would like to express my sincere sympathies to Debbie and the children. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband and father.
Kathy Archer Prinz
September 11, 2010
Harry, I think of you on this day. I recently went to a reunion at WPC (or should I say WPUNJ now that they have University status) and saw that Billy Pat's Pub is no longer there. It's a shame because we have so many fond memories since so many of our nights in college were spent in that place.
I thank you for all you taught me and how special and smart you made me feel when we studied together.
I hope your family knows what a special person you are and how honored I am to have had you in my life.
Thinking of you on this day and always,
Kathy
Lori Ruprecht-Ace
September 11, 2010
Well Harry, It's been 9 years and I still think of you a lot. I saw that Hayley has left notes for you to read in heaven on another site. I miss you my friend...Lori and boys
Orvin Wills
September 10, 2010
Thanks for being my friend Harry.
We now embark upon another anniversary of the 911 event. David was the person who gave me the news. I will never forget the times myself David and you hung out after work in the city. I still look at pictures of myself David and the folks at General Accident back in the day.
I miss buddy,
Orvin Wills
Dave Carney
September 10, 2010
Thanks Harry
It was with great sadness that I learned of your passing on 9/11 in the World Trade Center in June of 2009. I have thought often of capturing my thoughts and there is no better time than on that awful anniversary.
I hope these words will shed some light to others as to your wisdom at an early age. Harry and I met in high school and often hung with a group of about 5 to 10 guys. I will always remember Harry’s quick smile and infectious hearty laugh. I thoroughly enjoyed all the time we spent together but none more so than the time playing basketball. I envied your quickness and ball handling and loved when we shared the backcourt duties in the many pickup games we played.. This was during the heyday of Magic Johnson. We called you “Magic glasses” due to your slick and smooth play.
We lost track after HS and it was not until Walter let me know this past June you were in the WTC on that tragic day. That let me think back on the importance of our friendship to me.
You and Walter thought me, a middle class white kid not to judge others on the basis of the color of ones skin. The fact we were of different races had little bearing on our friendship. You and Walter lived Martin Luther King’s message and imparted it on me. I am sure you lived those lessons everyday and imparted them on your kids. From what I have read about you and your family it looked like you have a wonderful wife and daughters. I am so sorry you were taken from them but am so thankful for the time we had.
God Bless you Harry.
Dave Carney
July 29, 2010
Much Love to My Big Brother today is his birthday and he is truly missed but thought of and spoken of often in my home love forever
Alex
George McKulla
February 9, 2010
Harry,
I have many fond memories of our childhood, your family down on Crestview and us on Danemar. And how we both ended up on the bench in varsity soccer, hoping in vain that Middletown South would get enough of a lead to get us some game time. Still, you had an infectious grin and great laugh that made everything seem worthwhile. I was working in NYC then, too. I even tried to donate blood to help, but the lines were around the block. I wish I could have done more, but will forever be endeared to all of you who unknowingly sacrificed so much so that the rest of us could learn how to live safer from terrorism. The world definitely changed that day, worse for our loss, but better for what we learned: live well, stay close to family and friends, and remember to laugh, even if you're on the bench. Keep 'em smiling Harry!
harlan cosby
December 19, 2009
our lord blessed us with knowing harry,with the laughs,the grin,and as a great friend. he's never forgotten and always missed.
Kathy Archer Prinz
September 12, 2009
Harry- so many memories of you @ college. The many times you spent with my family, I will never forget. All the pictures in the pub, football games and just going out, will always be reminders of how special you were and how you made everyone around you smile. I know that you are living on through your children and you are looking down on them as they grow. I will never forget you. Especially when the song Gloria comes on..... Thank you for letting me have the honor of calling you my friend and may you and your family know how special you were to me and my family, Love ya!!!
Beth (Fenlon) Oreo
September 11, 2009
I was friends with Harry at WPC and we shared so many good times. He was one of a kind. Although we lost touch after college I will always remember him. We have never met, Debbie, but I keep you and your children in my prayers still and always will.
August 28, 2009
Big Cheezy grin that's defitnely true this man was just the best person that I knew and he's truly truly missed for all those who still think of him I thank you because I think about him everyday of my life and I see him all the time in my 2 kids because he is there uncle he will always be loved by me for the rest of my life and GOD BLESS him and all those who have memories of him his little bro
Alex Blanding Carson California
Gaylynn Del Vecchio
May 21, 2009
I'll always miss Harry, and he still sneaks up in my mind w/ laughter years later.
Hey Harry? Swipe the smile off of your face. Fortunately, if you knew him, you know that would never happen and only get worse; big cheezy grin.
Ah, too much to comment. I loved that guy.
For those that knew Harry? You know where I lack words, but mean so much more.
Maxine Levine
May 8, 2009
I worked with Harry and Debbie at Allianz in 1990. It was so obvious to me that they were madly in love with one another. Sometimes we all went out for drinks after work and had so many laughs. Harry would light up whenever Debbie was around him. I had the pleasure of working with him again at Chubb and met his adorable children. I had lunch today with Dave Clark, who also worked with us at Allianz. We spoke of Harry and Debbie and of their love for one another. I'm so glad I had the pleasure of knowing Harry. May Debbie and their children find comfort in knowing what a wonderful person he was.
Doug Abraham
April 19, 2008
A Reminiscence
YES, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
But I may pass the old church door,
And pace the floor that covers thee.
May stand upon the cold, damp stone,
And think that, frozen, lies below
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.
Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to think that thou hast been;
To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.
By Anne Bronte
The Poetry Foundation
Kathy (Archer)Prinz
September 13, 2007
Harry I couldn't bear to write in your book on Sept 11th for it was too difficult to put into words what I was feeling. Families who didn't lose anyone on Sept 11th think of everyone who's lost someone only one day a year. Harry deserves more. He may be in heaven, but his smile, his laugh, and his happiness are thought of on many occasions. I hope all is well with his family and friends and may everyone have as many blessings as the tears that we shed for Harry. I know I cried all day Sept 11th especially since I let so much time go by without talking to him and hearing about his family. It's 20 years since we graduated college and yet it seems like only yesterday since we last laughed together. I'll continue to think of you with each beer I drink with my Billy Pat's Pub mug. God Bless everyone who had the opportunity to be a part of Harry's life and may we always remember Harry, not just on Sept 11th.
Donna Ostrowski
September 12, 2007
On Sept 11th i thought of you today and your family and remembered your smile and your laugh. You may be in Heaven now but will never be far away from all of our hearts. You are very much loved and missed by so many!!
Donna
Michael Barklage
September 11, 2007
Harry, your at a place where you have PEACE. I pray that your family is doing fine. I think of you and the lives that you have brought a smile too. God bless
Mark W. Rossi
September 11, 2007
Listening for Harry's name to be read this morning on the radio yet could not find the readings on any NY station. I landed on 101.1 playing "Everybody Get Together" right at the chorus with The Dave Clark Five singing, "Come on you people now, Smile on your brother Everybody get together, Try to love one another right now". Thank you Harry for always greeting us with your smile and warm love in your heart. We will never forget!
paula phillips
September 11, 2007
In remembrance
Jo Seale
May 8, 2007
My husband and I met Harry on the Martz bus lines many years ago. Harry's smile is what made me notice him. He was a wonderful person and this loss has truly been hard to accept. We commuted for many years and had many good times. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Harry's wife and their 3 children. You had an angel in your life and he is forever looking down and protecting you all.
Regards,
Eric & Jo Seale
april vargas (formally castor)
December 26, 2006
Harry had the most beautiful smile-and always so pleasant and sweet! I will never forget how friendly and and warm he was. I met so many people in my life, and Harry is one I will never forget-he was special! My name is April, and I was a friend of his at WPC! Bless him and his family.
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kathy (Archer) Prinz
October 4, 2006
Harry and I went to college together along with my brother Billy where they were in many classes together. Because we commuted to school Harry came home with us many times. Harry became one of my closest friends and part of my family while in college not just because of our evenings in the pub, but because of the many times he spent with my family instead of going home to his. Graduation day at William Paterson was spent at my house where my family was just as proud of Harry as they were of my brother and me. I have many fond memories of this special person who I wish I was able to see get married and start a family. Words cannot express how I still feel about losing Harry even five years later. He was truly a special person and my prayers and thoughts are with his family.
Kathy
Donna+Marie Ostrowski
September 11, 2006
I worked with Harry and Debbie at Allianz Insurance in Jersey City, NJ and this morning was the first time i learned of Harry's loss. I was watching the tv and when i saw Harry's photo and heard his name i was numb. I remembered how many laughs we had as we sat across from each other and i miss his smile. We would always run company races and Harry would always run by me saying catch me if you can. He adopted a cat named Hugo from me that used to climb his curtains. I miss those stories we shared. I lost contact with most Allianz co workers but i always wondered if Debbie and Harry would marry and so hear i read of their true love and marriage on the same day i learned of Harry's death. Debbie and Family i am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and all day long i thought about Harry and i send my condolences to you and please know i will never forget Harry and his smile. God Bless you and know that Harry touched my life very much and although i lost touch with Debbie and Harry i never stopped thinking of them. To Harry's kids, your dad was great (and so is your mom) please know how much Harry meant to everyone even just for a short time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers forever!!
Michael Barklage
September 11, 2006
Harry,
It's five years ago today that this terrible act happened. You have been in my prayers for so long. It hurts deep down in my soul to think what happened. I hope yopur family is doing as well as they can be. "we miss you harry",
Michael Barklage
"class of 81"
Mary Jo Eckholm
September 11, 2006
I was fortunate enough to meet Harry when he came to St. Paul Companies for training on our new claims system. There weren't enough computers available, so I shared one with him for the week. Though I didn't know him well, I was crushed when we were told that he was at work in the World Trade Center on September 11. To his family, I'd like to say that he has never been out of my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember his smile, twinkling eyes, infectious laugh and genuine manner. You were one of a kind, Harry!
September 11, 2006
The world lost a gentle soul when you died. May you forever rest in peace.
An Old Friend
September 11, 2006
Debbie and kids,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mark Peterson
September 10, 2006
Harry was the coolest. He was in my physics class in high school. I'll always remember his laugh and his smile. I met Debbie and Harry at a friends wedding in Lincroft. I already knew Harry from the class of 81' We always meant to get together after that but life got in the way. My prayers go out to his family. He won't be forgotten....
Jack Brown
September 7, 2006
Harry and I became friends starting in 1980 at Middletown HS South. We shared a lot of good times playing football, going to the Jersey shore, hanging out with Walter and Mark P. in Lincroft, Mark R. in Montclair and Larry in West Orange. We through the best parties when were roommates after college. His smile and laugh always made you laugh.
Then 8 years went by when we didn't see each other. We both started to have families. In 2001 I made a concerted effort to reach out to people I cared about. I had Harry, Debbie and their kids over our house for a Labor Day Barbecue. Our families got to meet each other for the first time and we got to re-connect. I feel blessed to have the gift of being with Harry that one last time. Nine days later was September 11th.
I want to do something for Harry and his family. One of the things I do is provide life coaching and direction to youth. Debbie - can I be there for your kids by coaching them over the phone?
Mark Rossi
September 6, 2006
Five years ago I saw Harry and his beautiful family at a Labor Day BBQ on Greenwood lake at the home of his high school buddy Jack Brown. I met Harry when he used to visit Jack, also my college roomate at MSC(now MSU). Harry went to WPU just up the road. I was just reading how genuine Steve Irwin was who acted from love always. I thought of Harry. He too was of that ilk. The Rossi family remembers and will pray for Harry and family this five year aniversary as we do each year.
Garth Snide
September 6, 2006
I worked with Harry at Ward N.A. in the New Jersey office prior to his joining Aon. Harry was such a caring, sincere man; I remember the many times we had lunch together with another employee, Ken Hicks, also of Aon and the fun times we would have after work grabbing a beer or two together. My thoughts are always with Harry during this time of the year; what a great person he was.
Beverly Streck
September 6, 2006
Remembering Harry and his beautiful wife and children in church and thinking what a perfect family they were. Will always picture him as a great family man with a picture perfect family. We were members of the same church, Pleasant Valley Presbyterian.
Although, our family moved to another church we think of his wife and children and pray that they all are doing fine.
Bev Streck
Sciota, PA
Bev Streck
John Cairns
September 5, 2006
I remember Harry catching the winning extra point of our flag football championship game. The ear to ear grin on his face, football in hand, arms outstretched in the air, is the way I'll always remember Harry - as a winner. Harry, I miss playing football with you, thanks for treating me like your brother. God bless you, Debbie and your children, always. You are not forgotten. Your friend and center, John Cairns
pat higgins
September 5, 2006
I met Harry and his wife Debbie when they first moved to PA and built their home. We have been friends ever since. Myself and my husband built the same house as Harry and Debbie, and my husband Don and Harry rode the Martz bus together some of the time.
Harry was just the nicest person you could meet. Always there to help if needed and always words of encouragement.
Harry all the Higgins Family miss you!!! God Bless
Pat and Don Higgins
Christine McKeown (Silva)
September 3, 2006
I knew Harry in high school.(Middletown South '81) His smile will always remembered. Little did I know that he and his family lived not too far from me. I was sadden to hear about the lose of Harry. My prayers go out to all his family and friends, especially his wife and children.
Vickie
August 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
P Tabbernor
August 24, 2006
In memory....
Angel miles
July 21, 2006
I am very sorry to hear about Mr. Blanding;though i've never met him I still feel a connection to him through our ancestors because I also am apart of the Blanding family tree.My grandmother was the late Katherine blanding who married Franklin H. Miles and birth My mother.
Thomas Bonfiglio
June 20, 2006
Harry Blanding was truly a one of a kind individual. An amazing father, a great husband, and an excellent neighbor. I knew Harry more of the latter than anything else, and was constantly impressed at his compassion and love for everyone. I think about Harry a lot and truly miss him. Now that I'm interning at AON in NYC, it hits close to home in a different way. I know that Harry is looking over his wonderful family and friends.
God Bless
Thomas Bonfiglio
Jason Myers
February 5, 2006
Harry Blanding wasn't just my cousin by relation but his parents are my godparents. Every time I go home and see his picture, I always see a little bit of him in myself. You'll never be forgotten Harry, I'll make sure of that.
Brian Wood
July 10, 2004
Throughout our lives we come in contact with thousands of people. Among the massive numbers there are sometimes a handful of people that are considered friends and that have a great impact on our lives. Harry was a someone who had a huge impact on my life and will never be forgotten. A reliable, loyal friend who enjoyed life to the fullest and always fought for the underdog. Never one to shy away from helping other people. I was shocked to hear about Harry as I haven't been in touch with him for several years since the days at WPC. Harry is a good man and will continue to look over his family as he sits beside the lord. God bless you and your family. You are missed everyday and I thank God for the times that we had and the friendship that I'll never forget.
Brian Wood
John Finnerty
March 23, 2004
My name is John Finnerty. I met Harry through his wife Debbie. Debbie & I worked together for 5 years. I had the pleasure of having Harry at my wedding in 1999. His wife & 3 children are beautiful. I was only at Harry's house while he was there 1 time. But it was a very memorable event. Harry & Debbie's dog, BJ, had, shall I say, a gas problem. We had some great laughs. Lord knows my wife and I truly miss and love Harry. I was at work when I found out that Harry was in the South Tower. I found out on 9/14. How I cried! We miss you and love you Harry!
Love,
John, Laura, Caitlyn & Tommy Finnerty
Rasheedah Morris
September 11, 2003
To the Blanding Family:
I met Harry when I started interning at Chubb in May of 2000 and instantly we connected. He was very supportive and full of smiles. I think about you guys all the time. I pray that the lord help you through all your grief. God Bless and stay strong!
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