LTC Harry Bates "Ret." Darby Jr., US Army obituary, Columbia, SC

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LTC Harry Bates "Ret." Darby Jr., US Army

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Rene Grady

January 15, 2026

Phil and Rene Grady are so very sorry to learn of Bates passing. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers .

Tom Miranda

December 11, 2025

I knew Bates during his formative years and through work, friendship and college. I always knew that he was going into the army when he was done with school. Everybody was fine with that. I never worried about him because Bates was always the one that we looked up to and knew that with him, everybody was safe. Great guy, well respected, loved him, and will be sorely missed. Angela was the greatest joy for Bates. Building a family was icing on the cake. In reading the obituary, I wanted to read what I didn´t know about his successful career. The accolades and honors that he received were of no surprise to me. But as a great man and father, husband, and was also always concerned about his family, and friends when needed. He may have been about 6´ tall on paper , but to me he was 10´tall. A true friend and a forever "brother".
Rest in peace Bates.

Sharon Hefner Esco

December 11, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray for God´s comfort for you all.

Shives Funeral Home - Trenholm Road Chapel

Posted events

December 8, 2025

Dec

14

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Shives Funeral Home

7600 Trenholm Road Extension, Columbia, SC 29223

Dec

15

Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

Shives Funeral Home

3600 Devine Street, Columbia, SC 29205

Dec

16

Graveside service

12:00 p.m.

Fort Jackson National Cemetery

4170 Percival Road, Columbia, SC 29229

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