Harry Lonny May

Harry Lonny May obituary, Asheboro, NC

Harry Lonny May

Harry May Obituary

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Harry Lonny May, age 78, of Asheboro passed away peacefully at his home February 1, 2026 surrounded by his loved ones. He was born July 10, 1947 in Millry, Alabama the son of the late Oscar L. May and Addie Lee Clark May. He is also preceded in death by his sister, Elmer Jean McRae; and brother, D'Wayne May.

Lonny served with distinction in the United States Army during the Vietnam War, he rose to the rank of Staff Sergeant and earned the respect of his peers as a U.S. Army Ranger and member of the Special Forces. His courageous service was recognized with the awarding of the Bronze Star and two Purple Hearts, reflecting his valor and commitment amidst the trials of war. After his military service, Lonny embraced a path guided by his deep conviction as a conscientious objector, which led him to devote over fifty years of his life to ministry with the Jehovah's Witnesses. His steadfast adherence to his principles served as a cornerstone of his character and inspired those around him. In his professional life, Lonny embarked on a career with the United States Postal Service, where he worked diligently as a carrier until his retirement. Through all of life's endeavors, his devotion to his family remained paramount, and his presence will be profoundly missed by those who knew him.

Left to cherish his memory are his wife, Tammy LaBruyere; children, Butch Wetzel (Wendy Wetzel) and Sharon Thompson; grandchildren, Julie Wetzel and Hailey Guthrie (Dr. John Guthrie); great grandchild, Josie Guthrie; brothers, Jerrell May, Billy May, Dale May and Lewis Douglas May; and numerous other beloved family and friends.

The family will hold a private service at a later date.
Midstate Cremation & Funeral Service - Asheboro

304 Lanier Ave, Asheboro, NC 27203

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