Helene Annette Theodoras, MAJ USAF RET, Vietnam Era Veteran, died in Flagstaff, AZ on July 31, 2022. She was born in Dayton, OH on December 1, 1935 to Basil William Theodoras and Camille Poffenberger. A talented Alto Saxaphone player in high school, Helene (Ted-E) got $10.00 every Saturday night performing in a women's dance band. While in college she worked as Girls' Recreation Director at Shawen Acres in Dayton. After receiving her B.S. in Education in Biology and Physical Education, at University of Dayton in 1957, she became according to her base commanders a "top notch" Administrative Officer serving September 1957 through March 1960 Air Force Active Duty at Lackland, McGuire, Travis and Hickam (Hawaii her favorite Air Force Base). She then joined the reserves honorably discharged as a Major, USAFR on July 29, 1974. During the sixties, she was Child Care supervisor at the Children's Home and Aid Society in Chicago, IL. As her parents' health declined, she resigned to return to Dayton, OH to care for her parents at the same time working as Child Care Supervisor at Shawen Acres in Dayton, OH. Needing a break, Helene visited friends in Flagstaff, AZ ultimately staying here. In 1973-1978 she was an AZ State Hospital Community Liaison serving as behavioral health counseling specialist. Based in Flagstaff her job consisted of traveling twelve AZ counties working with judges to inform them of the mental health law. One of these judges was Sandra Day O'Connor, recently appointed Judge, Superior Court, Maricopa County who asked Helene to help her interpret this law. In 1978 the Flagstaff position was abolished. From 1979-1983 Helene worked at W.L. Gore as a medical researcher building prototype flex heart valves and training new workers. In 1984 Helene retired to build her home, an earth shelter. Retirement kept her busy. Friends enjoyed her stories and various puns. She was a skilled markswoman. Mechanically inclined she engraved with her Dremel tool flagstone tombstones for her deceased pets. She also kept her Pleasure Way R.V. in shape traveling Canada and the USA including Alaska where she co-piloted a plane over the Arctic Circle. RV friends touted her organizational and persuasive abilities to caravan 75 Pleasure Way R.V.s 13 miles from the Carlsbad KOA to the outdoor theater in Carlsbad, NM. Later newspaper reporters told of possible UFO's from Roswell being transported! Helene also volunteered as a certified nursing assistant (CNA) for Northland Hospice in Flagstaff, AZ. During this time Helene, a cancer survivor, counselled many women in cancer support groups often sharing Edward Cayce's thoughts about reincarnation and even "adopting six children." She was most proud of becoming a charter member of the Grand Canyon Chapter of the Military Officers Association of America (MOAA).
Surviving family members are brother, Basil (Suzanna) Theodoras and their families; deceased sister, D.O. Mary Saul's children and their families and Priscilla Trowbridge, loving partner and soulmate.
Thanks to the Hospice crew, various caregivers especially Vera Matzkanin and many friends.
There will be a private military burial graveside service. Invitation only.
Memorial contributions may be made to the following:
1. Northern Arizona Alzheimer's and Dementia Alliance (NAZADA).
Credit card donations may be made directly on their website at www.nazada.org, "Ways to Give".
Checks may be made to: NAZADA c/o Susan Butler, CPA, 1600 W. University Ave Suite 209 Flagstaff, AZ 86001
2. Northern Arizona Hospice 1501 S. Yale St., Suite 201, Flagstaff, AZ 86001
3. Grand Canyon Chapter MOAA Scholarship and Veterans Fund, PO Box 3401 Flagstaff, AZ 86003 (The S & V Fund is a 501(c)(3) Charitable Organization)
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Greg Chryssikos
November 21, 2022
So sad to belatedly learn of dearest Helene's Passing.
I will forever keep ckose to my heart those distant Flagstaff days of our friendship back in 1980/1981.
Susan L Walkup
August 9, 2022
She brought happiness everywhere she went. Rest in peace.
Martha Kimball
August 9, 2022
Helene was a wonderful person and lovely friend. She was a very special, valued friend to my mother...and then to me. It was always a pleasure to see Helene. My sincere condolences to Pricilla, friends and family.
Veronica Barela
August 8, 2022
So sad to hear of Helene's passing. She was a truly a remarkable woman.
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