Ilene Carol Kaplan

1945 - 2022

Ilene Carol Kaplan obituary, 1945-2022

Ilene Carol Kaplan

1945 - 2022

BORN

1945

DIED

2022

Ilene Kaplan Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 19, 2022.
Ilene Carol Kaplan (nee Schwartz)

January 1, 1945 - September 15, 2022

Beloved and cherished wife of Steve (ret.CPD), proud, loving, and devoted mother of Jeff Mappa (ret. Lt.CPD) and Eric Kaplan. Dearest daughter of the late Sidney and Lois Schwartz (the late Sam) Newman, dear daughter-in-law of the late Morris and the late Dean Kaplan. Dearest sister of the late Earl (Bonnie) Schwartz. Former sister-in-law and dear friend of the late Charlene Mappa. Fond sister-in-law of the late Dana (Silvio) Camodeca and the late Karla Mink. Loving Aunt of Richard (Jeanette) and David (Julie) Schwartz, Debbie Tomlin (Paul), and David Mink.

Ilene has left many special friends who she considered her family including Lori and Sadelle Brenner, Barbara Gill, Paula (Denny) Kupperman, Sandra Liebling and many more who were so dear to her heart. We know she is now laughing it up with departed lifelong friends Andrea Oliff and Anita Gold whom she dearly missed.

Our Mom was full of life and love. She always made sure everyone was taken care of and was a never-ending source of compassion, strength, and warmth that we relied on to guide us throughout her life. Her friendship, her caring nature, and her selflessness lives on in all those lucky enough to have known her.

We will miss her love, her laugh, and her amazing cooking, but most of all we will miss the most important person in our lives that we were so very lucky to call our Mom.

We know Elvis was waiting to serenade you and you are rejoicing with all those who left before you. We love you Mom and we will meet again some sunny day.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Alzheimer's Foundation or American Heart Assn.


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July 13, 2024

Kelly Noonan posted to the memorial.

January 27, 2024

Richard Harris Freer (aka Rachamim .) posted to the memorial.

September 21, 2022

david schwartz posted to the memorial.

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Kelly Noonan

July 13, 2024

I am an old friend of Ilene. I dated her son Eric for almost 10 years. And through that time, I got to know her very well. I absolutely loved Ilene. She was so sweet, kind, generous, and always made me feel like part of the family. I can´t believe I just found out this news right now! I am so sad and my thoughts and prayers go out to her family. I think Ilene is one of the most beautiful women I´ve ever known -Inside and out. Will always remember her and keep the special place in my heart for her

Richard Harris Freer (aka Rachamim .)

January 27, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

She graced the halls and classrooms of SULLIVAN HIGH SCHOOL
with beauty of an angel!

Will post yearbook photos.

She was a Lover Of Zion.

david schwartz

September 21, 2022

Aunt Ilene my heart breaks that you are no longer with us but i promise you'll always be in my heart.

im happy though that you are no longer in pain and will be reunited with lois and sid and my dad. say hi for me.

Uncle Steve was lucky to have you and words cant describe how appreciative i am that you had him as he loved you and made sure you were taking care of. You picked a great guy.

i love you Aunt Ilene!!

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July 13, 2024

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January 27, 2024

Richard Harris Freer (aka Rachamim .) posted to the memorial.

September 21, 2022

david schwartz posted to the memorial.