IRA VANCE

IRA VANCE obituary, Virginia, VA

IRA VANCE

IRA VANCE Obituary

Published by Bennett & Barden Funeral Home and Cremation Services Inc. on Aug. 27, 2013.
VANCE, Ira Thomas Jr. "Tom," 80, affectionately known to his grandchildren as "Pop Pop," of Powhatan, formerly of Henrico, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family on August 22, 2013 after a brief battle with cancer. Tom was born in Clifton Forge on April 19, 1933 to the late Ira T. Vance Sr. and Nannye Putnam (Peggy) Vance. He leaves to cherish his loving memory his wife of 54 years, Olga Kandis Vance; a son, John Thomas (Jay) Vance and his wife, Lara, of Chantilly; a daughter, Diana Vance Barden and her husband, Ron, of Henrico; a sister, Dreama Clifford of Clifton Forge; a sister-in-law, Virginia P. Elmendorf of Glenshaw, Pa.; seven grandchildren, Maddie Vance, Vance Barden, Tommy Vance, Brett Barden, Reid Barden, TJ Vance and Macie Vance, for which he had a nickname for each; three stepgrandsons, Kyle, Zak and Justyn Rhodes; as well as several cousins, nieces and nephews and an abundance of friends. He was preceded in death by his sister-in-law, Marie Parthenis (Aunt "Ree"). Tom met Olga in middle school, where they dated for over 10 years before marrying in 1959. After graduating from Clifton Forge High School, he pursued his love of baseball and played for UVA and Glenville State. He left college to serve as a Specialist Fourth Class in Korea, where he received the Good Conduct Medal. When he returned a proud veteran, he continued playing baseball and football for Bridgewater College where he obtained his B.A. in physical education with a minor in history. Beginning in the summer before graduation, he played semi-pro baseball for the New Market Rebels. Having worked in Grottoes and Richmond, Tom retired from Reynolds Metals Company as a product manager in the Plastics Division after 33 years of service. His love of children and sports took him to Tuckahoe Little League, where he was "the best coach ever," manager and past president of Tuckahoe Sports. Tom was an avid sports fan and especially enjoyed baseball, golf, hunting and fishing. He was an animal lover and always had a dog by his side. Several dogs will see their master once again including, Toto, Laddie, Whiskey, Myvrie and Dutchess. His latest addition, Rockbridge, will continue to be loved by Olga and all of the neighbors and friends. He was a member of the Civil War Roundtable of Powhatan. He was a member of the Powhatan United Methodist Church, 2253 Rosson Rd., where a memorial service will be held on Saturday, September 7, 2013 at 2 p.m., officiated by Pastor John Hemming. There will be a private spreading of his ashes at their mountain cabin. The family will receive friends at Bennett & Barden Funeral Home, 3215 Anderson Hwy., Powhatan, on Friday, September 6, 2013 from 5 to 8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial gifts be made to cancer research, the Powhatan United Methodist Church or the charity of your choice. Special thanks to all of his friends, both young and old, the Powhatan Rescue Squad, and the nurses on 5 West, physicians, staff and Hospice staff at St. Mary's Hospital who have stood with the family through this past week. Online condolences may be made at bennettbardenfh.com.

This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Kim Steinhoff

September 6, 2013

Diana, Jay and Mrs. Vance - you are in our hearts and prayers. I love the picture of Mr. Vance, it makes me smile. I will always feel like part of your family and am blessed to have spent so many years in your home. I hope you can find comfort in the many lives he touched!

Dan Gutzmer

August 30, 2013

I will always remember Mr. Vance as a coach/father with a strong/quiet presence and a twinkle in his eye. My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Vance, Jay and Diana.

Jennifer David-Hincks

August 28, 2013

Diana and family...you are in my thoughts and prayers. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Fred Facka

August 27, 2013

Tom influenced many young men as a baseball coach at Tuckahoe Little League. The two summers he coached me as a young boy at 11 and 12 years of age will were formative in the values of hard work and competition, as well as having a quiet confidence. God Bless Diana, Jay and Olga and their families.

NANCY ELEY

August 27, 2013

I remember the Vance's so well - 'lived on Bath St., 3 houses from my grandparents, the Brown's. As a child, I roller skated up and down the street in front of their house, up and down the driveways, as well. The 'senior' Mr. Vance has the nicest garden across the alley, alongside the Spatig family - oh, the memories. I can see the Vance's right now. I did not know Mike Clifford's Mom was in Clifton Forge now. Remembering when they came to visit, I believe from Baltimore. So sorry for your loss. I was Nancy Nelson, sister of Craig and we lived right around the corner on 3rd street. Back in the day, that was the nicest neighborhood!!!

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