Jack B. Behmer

Jack B. Behmer obituary, Urbandale, IA

Jack B. Behmer

Jack Behmer Obituary

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Jack B. Behmer, 91, of Urbandale, IA passed away Tuesday, December 26, 2023 at Bickford Cottage in Urbandale. A memorial service will be 11:00 a.m., Thursday, January 4, 2023 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory in Urbandale. A visitation will take place one hour prior to the service. Inurnment will be held at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery in Van Meter, IA. The family will host a reception from 2:30 – 4:30 on Thursday at the Elks Lodge #2752. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made out to St. Croix Hospice, Alzheimer's Association and the Wounded Warrior Project. Online condolences may be sent to www.caldwellparrish.com
Jack was born on June 26, 1932 to Fred and Fay (Beachy) Behmer in Red Oak, IA. Jack graduated from Red Oak High School in 1950. He enlisted in the United States Navy where he served for three years. Jack later on went to Iowa State University where he graduated with a Bachelor's degree in engineering. He married his best friend Katherine Wehrle on December 17, 1983 in Burlington, IA. Jack was employed at the DOT in Ames where he retired in 1996. Jack was a member of the Elks Lodge #2752, Local VFW and the Scorpions Shuffleboard Team. He enjoyed doing everything which includes gardening, golfing, playing shuffleboard and cheering on the Iowa State Cyclones.
He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Katherine Behmer, one step son, Steven Wilhelm of Shawnee, KS, one daughter-in-law, Nancy Behmer of Polk City, IA, four grandchildren, Kim, Daniel, Jennifer, Jonathan, and nine great-grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents, two sons, Mark Behmer, Brad Behmer, one daughter, Jane Behmer, three sisters, Lila, Janet and Shirley.
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February 1, 2024

Peggy's Daughters posted to the memorial.

January 10, 2024

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January 4, 2024

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Peggy's Daughters

February 1, 2024

It is with sadness that we hear of the loss of your wonderful family member. Our mother Peggy was Jack's next-door neighbor at Bickford. We got to talk to Jack and his wife Kay who are both very sweet & lovely people. May your memories bring you comfort and carry you through the days to come. God bless you all!

Natalie Faye Janeka-Behmer/Salinas

January 10, 2024

I am his first grandchild from his son Bradley Behmer, during summer time while in Iowa visiting he would always pick me up take me to McDonald´s for breakfast then take me to Walmart"Wally world he would call it...

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February 1, 2024

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January 10, 2024

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January 4, 2024

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