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James Barclay Obituary

James A. Barclay, of Mendon/Honeoye Falls, N.Y., formerly of Waynesburg, died Friday, February 3, 2023.

He is survived by his loving wife, Patricia, of 63 years.

James was predeceased by his parents, Edmund and Margaret Barclay; his brothers, Clarence and Harold; sisters, Martha Pettit (Howard) and Sarah Lightner (Victor). He is also survived by his sister, Marian (Keith) Kughn of Waynesburg; brothers, John (Weedena) of Henderson, Colo. and David (Sylvane) of Huber Heights, Ohio; many nieces and nephews, and very special friends.

Jim served in the United States Army. He attended Rochester Institute of Technology, where he received a degree in industrial engineering. While at RIT he was inducted into the RIT Sports Hall of Fame for wrestling. He taught at RIT Evening School for 15 years. Jim retired from Mixing Equipment Co. (Lightnin) after 27 years. He also worked 13 years at Taylor Instrument Co.

He was a member of Rochester Industrial and Manufacturing Engineers Society (RIMES) and Society of Manufacturing Engineers (SME).

Jim loved to golf, play cards, read and wood working.

Friends called from 3 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, February 8, in Merton H. Kays Funeral Home, Inc., 59 Monroe Street, Honeoye Falls, N.Y. A Mass of Christian Burial was held at 11 a.m. Thursday, February 9, in St. Catherine of Siena, 26 Mendon Ionia Road, Mendon, N.Y., followed by burial in Mendon Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to RIT Men's Wrestling, University Advancement, P.O. Box 92765, Rochester, NY 14692-8865.

To leave a condolence for the family, visit www.mertonkaysfuneralhome.com.





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Published by Observer-Reporter from Feb. 11 to Feb. 12, 2023.

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Cheryl Degenhardt

February 4, 2023

My favorite memories of Jim are from the many lovely Christmas Eves we shared with him and his family. Jim was a wonderful host and always made sure everyone had their beverage of choice. He was a great conversationalist and also managed to remain calm and steady no matter what was going on around him. One year my young son pushed a button on the wall near the door that turned out to be a police summoning alarm. Jim handled the situation without any drama in order to avoid upsetting my son in any way. For many years after that we all enjoyed remembering the night of the alarm, and I especially loved hearing Jim´s fabulous chuckle each time the story was told.
My heart goes out to Pat. I know she will miss her best friend, Jim, more than most people can imagine. Peace to all who knew and loved Jim. He will be greatly missed.

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