James Wright Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Big Bear Mortuary & Cemetery on Jan. 20, 2026.
James "Jim" Wright, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and faithful servant of God, entered into eternal rest after a life marked by humility, brilliance, and steadfast love for his family and the Catholic faith. He was born on November 16, 1946, in El Sereno, California, to Rosella Larson Wright and Frederick "Bud" Wright, the youngest of six children, Jean, Fred, Laura, Mary, Thom, and stepbrother Frank.
Jim is survived by Gayle-his devoted wife of nearly 58 years-his four children, nine cherished grandchildren, and adopted granddaughter, nieces, nephews, grand-nieces and nephews, as well as 26 godchildren. His legacy is one of faith, sacrificial love, brilliant service to his country, and the gentle joy he brought to every heart he touched.
He was a poet, an artist, musician, carpenter, engineer, and a contemplative soul. He was gentle and kind, yet fiercely loyal to his family and faith, and loved a good joke. When giving professional briefings at the Pentagon, he would command the attention of generals and admirals; yet at home, he embraced a childlike spirit, getting down on the floor to play with the children, and even composing personalized songs that they adored.
Jim began his aerospace career in 1967 at North American Aviation-the same company where his father once worked. He later served through its transitions to Rockwell International and eventually Boeing. Over 40 years, he rose through roles in Thermal Dynamics, Missile Defense Systems, and advanced engineering programs, ultimately becoming a respected director. Known for his integrity, he repeatedly declined promotions to vice president to prioritize his family. He carried a high-level security clearance and was esteemed as a wise, gentle, and exceptionally kind leader-one who advocated for his team, even passing on his own raises so others could receive theirs.
A gifted engineer and inventor, Jim contributed to many of the nation's most iconic and consequential aerospace and defense projects. At age 22, he came up with the solution that brought the astronauts back safely from the Apollo 13 mission. He worked on the Space Shuttle missions, Skylab, and the Strategic Defense Initiative ("Star Wars"). When SDI was discontinued, Jim responded with ingenuity, helping to design a ship-based missile defense system that became today's Aegis Missile Defense System, now a vital safeguard for the United States Navy. A Boeing vice president once stated that "the United States owes an enormous debt of gratitude to Jim Wright, for he will be the reason why nuclear missiles will eventually be rendered an obsolete threat against the United States."
Jim also created a wind pattern computer program intended to assist firefighters, painted an Apollo spacecraft portrait signed by celebrated astronauts, and earned three patents within five years-continuing a long family line of inventors.
Above all, Jim was a man of deep Catholic faith. For more than 40 years, he attended daily Mass and received Holy Communion, placing Christ at the center of his life. He spent his Saturdays praying for and counseling women at the local abortion clinic and was part of the Operation Rescue movement. Together with his beloved wife, Gayle, he hosted Catechism classes in the home and later founded Padre Pio Academy, a private Catholic school where Jim served as Administrator and Gayle as Principal. Their shared vocation to Catholic education remains a lasting gift to the community.
Jim retired from Boeing in 2003 at age 55. In 2009, he was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's Disease, a cross he carried with grace, patience, and unwavering trust in God.
May the angels lead him into Paradise and may the perpetual light of Christ shine upon him always.
May He rest in Peace.
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