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Janet DeMicco Obituary

Janet (Restaino) DeMicco
Janet Susan (Restaino) DeMicco, 78, of Cromwell, CT, passed away peacefully on October 5, 2025, after a long journey with Alzheimer's Disease.
Born July 29, 1947, in Brooklyn, New York, Janet was the daughter of Enrico "Henry" Restaino and Lucia "Lucy" Dolores (Dell'Isola) Restaino. She grew up on Third Street in a close-knit Italian family surrounded by her parents, brother, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Though she later lived in Queens, her heart always remained in Brooklyn.
After she got married, Janet moved from New York to Louisville, Kentucky (where her sons Jim and Mike were born), then to Massachusetts, and finally to Connecticut, where she made her home for nearly four decades.
Janet worked for 20 years in the Government Department at Wesleyan University, where she was an administrative assistant. She loved meeting new students each year and often said that they kept her young at heart. She touched the lives of thousands over the years and formed so many friendships in her time there.
Janet was a fantastic cook and learned the family traditions and recipes from her mother, grandmother, and aunts. She started cooking family dinners at the age of 9, and over the next almost 70 years, she made thousands of incredible meals, often with the opera playing in the background (usually Pavarotti).
Her love for food brought her family together around a table filled with laughter, stories, and traditional Italian dishes. One of her proudest achievements was compiling a family cookbook for the Dell'Isola side of her family, sharing generations of recipes and memories. It remains a cherished treasure among those who contributed to it and all who were lucky enough to taste her cooking.
Janet also inherited her father's green thumb and found true joy in tending her gardens, filled with both vegetables and flowers. Gardening was more than a hobby; it was a way for her to stay connected to her beloved 'Pop' after he passed away. She shared that love with her sons, spending countless hours with them in the garden.
Janet loved the beach, especially Ocean Beach Park in New London, CT, where she spent so many summer weekends with her family. Her final wish was for her ashes to be scattered in Long Island Sound, her favorite place to be.
Janet is survived by her sons Jim DeMicco and his wife Skye of Wolcott, CT, and their children Parker, Chatham, and August; and Mike DeMicco and his wife Melissa of Hamden, CT, and their children Nicholas, Emma, and Samantha. She is also survived by her brother, Henry Restaino, and his wife, Cathy, of Newark, DE, as well as a large and loving extended family of nieces, nephews, cousins, and in-laws.
Services will be private. Family and friends are invited to visit her next summer at the shore, where she will rest in her favorite place.
Janet will be deeply missed, especially at family dinners around the table, where her presence, stories, and recipes will never be forgotten.
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Published by Middletown Press from Oct. 14 to Oct. 15, 2025.

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Mary Alice Haddad

October 17, 2025

I was a colleague of Janet's while she worked in the Government department, and I have such fond memories of the good cheer that she brought to our workplace. She had such a love for the students, helping them solve problems, find good opportunities, and offer a smile and friendly ear as they navigated the complexities of college live. I enjoyed her stories of family, which frequently made me laugh and I soaked up her tips on raising boys (mine two were both born while she was in the department). My deepest condolences to her family and all who loved her.

Tina Salafia

October 16, 2025

I am very saddened about the passing of Janet. We worked in the Government Department for many years and we bonded over all things Italian...family, culture, culinary traditions, social rituals, music. I was fond of listening to Janet reminisce about her years growing up in Brooklyn, surrounded by extended family. But above all, I loved when Janet spoke about her cherished "boys", Jim and Michael and how very proud she was of all their accomplishments.

Wishing you peace during this difficult time and may memories of Janet bring you comfort.

Tina Salafia

Kathleen Johnson

October 15, 2025

What a beautiful tribute!!! My heart and prayers go all to Janet's family she will be missed very much!!! I will definitely go to the shore and remember and talk to Janet.

Lori Flannigan

October 14, 2025

May you rest in peace, my friend.

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