Janet L. Wilder

Janet L. Wilder obituary, Rome, NY

Janet L. Wilder

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Janet Wilder Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Nunn and Harper Funeral Home, Inc. - Rome on Dec. 16, 2025.
Janet's greatest joy was being around friends and family. She was genuine, kind hearted, and overall; a big-kid at heart. Her generosity is unmatched; as she would give her last means to help someone in need.
Janet worked retail for most of her career. Customers and coworkers loved her. As well as, babysitting. She'd helped raise many of her friends children; adopting her into their family.
She enjoyed her occasional outings to the casino for slot play, keno and bingo. Also, she loved to play games and pulling harmless pranks on people.
She loved to travel and visited many places along the East coast. She had spoken quite fondly of her time spent in FL, VA and Ocean City, MD.
She is predeceased by her Paternal Grandparents A. Martha & Russell Wilder, Maternal Grandparents Rita and Clarence Goyette and Father Ronald Wilder I. Wife, Trula Wegrzyn.
She is survived by her Mother Mary Shufelt, Siblings brother Scott Wilder and brother Ron Wilder. Aunt Jo Rehm and cousin Wendy Rehm. Best friend Tina Ryan and two sons(Patrick Ryan and Devon Ryan). Step-Daughters Mariah and Maranda Wegrzyn. As well as other extended family and friends.
Janet's life was marked by her boundless love for her friends and family. Her absence is immeasurable, but so is the love she gave us. We are eternally grateful to have had you in our lives. Rest in Peace.
Family and friends are invited to call at Nunn and Harper Funeral Home, Inc., 418 N. George St., Rome, NY 13440, on Friday, December 19th, from 3-5:00 p.m.
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Nunn and Harper Funeral Home, Inc.,

418 N. George St., Rome, NY 13440

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