Jay Balano Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hall Funeral Homes & Cremation Services - Thomaston on Aug. 2, 2022.
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PORT CLYDE - Jay Moulton Balano, 78, (formerly of Wareham, MA, and Glendale, CO) passed
away on Thursday, December 16, 2021, at the Maine Veterans' Home in Augusta. He was born
in Wareham, MA to the late Jasper and Elizabeth "Betty" Kelley Balano.
Jay leaves behind his three brothers and sisters-in law: Jeff (Peg) of Falmouth, ME, Jim (Kate) of
Lady Lake, FL and Joel (Penny) Balano-Stott of Monmouth, ME. He also leaves his four children:
Judi of Wareham, MA; Jonathan (Rebecca Barber) of Fairfield, CT; Jeremey of Wareham, MA;
and Daniel (Avery) of Denver, CO as well as grandchildren Shiobhan, TJ, Hannah, Abigail, Remy,
Witt, and great-grandson Rowan, and many nieces and nephews.
Jay grew up in Wareham, MA, the oldest of four boys and attended local schools. He graduated
from Wareham HS in 1961 and enlisted in the Army in 1962. He became fluent in German and
was stationed in Germany, where he worked in the Military Police. After two tours of duty, he
returned to Fort Hamilton in Brooklyn, NY.
After his time in the Army, Jay returned to Wareham with his wife Anna and children Judi,
Jonathan, and Jeremey. He graduated in 1972 from Northeastern University School of Law
Enforcement in Boston, as part of the first class to complete the new program. He was
recruited immediately to work for the Quincy, MA Police Department.
Jay was a member of the Freemasons and The American Legion. Over time, he owned three
small businesses: a tour boat (The Sasanoa) in Bath, ME, The Ocean House hotel in Port Clyde,
ME, and The Print Stop in Denver. When living in Glendale, CO with wife Kelly and son Daniel,
he served on the Glendale City Council. After moving back to Maine, Jay worked on the
Monhegan Boat Line in Port Clyde and served on the Board of the St. George Water Company.
Jay's engaging personality always lit up the room. He retained his sociability and good humor
despite his slow decline from dementia. His circle of friends in Port Clyde helped him to live
independently for as long as possible. The family wants to thank the staff and nurses at both
the Captain Lewis Residence in Farmingdale and the Maine Veterans' Home in Augusta, for
their kindness and compassionate care.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Jay's name to the Port Clyde Baptist Church, 843 Port Clyde Road, Port Clyde, ME. 04855 or the St. George Ambulance fund, 3 School Street, Tenants Harbor, ME 04860.
A memorial gathering for Jay will be held on August 6th, 2022 at the Port Clyde Baptist Church at 11:00 A.M. A private burial with Military honors will take place earlier that day when Jay will be buried in the Ridge Cemetery, St. George. ( Martinsville)
Hall Funeral and Cremation Service, 78 Main Street, Thomaston has care of the arrangements. To extend online condolences to the family visit the family's Book of Memories at hallfuneralhomes.com