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Lilyann Teifer
December 6, 2025
Dear Nancy, we are saddened to hear of Jay's passing and wish you comfort and peace in the support of your family and many dear friends. Lil & Pat Teifer
Reesa Bloom
December 2, 2025
Nancy....i am so sorry for this terrible loss . He was the love of your life and for that you were lucky. Prayers and love are being sent as you´ve had some rough months. Reesa Bloom
Lynne Coates
December 1, 2025
We remember Jay, laughing, singing, being a joyful presence to us in Sounds of Joy, especially the concerts he arranged for Hearts and Home. May we always remember what he gave in love and music.
Yona Lazier Joseph
November 30, 2025
I am the luckiest daughter to have
had Jay Lazier as my father for 52 years in the flesh and for a few days in spirit. My Dad genuinely had compassion for others. He was one of the warmest, most nurturing people I´ve ever known. He was fun loving and absolutely adored his grandchildren, Sammy and Elani. His eternal spirit will live on in his children and grandchildren. I will not go one day without honoring my father´s spirit in some way.
I love you, Dad, more than I can express in words. You´ve had a tremendous impact on my life ,and for that I will always be grateful. I know that your spirit is eternal. I am sure about that. Rest in peace , my Dear Dad. You lived an amazing fulfilling life. I will miss seeing your soulful face. But, I am comforted knowing God is with you now and that you are in the most serene place
Angela Mercer
November 30, 2025
Sincere condolences to Nancy and the family. May they find some peace and comfort as they carry the heaviness of the lost of their son and husband and father. Angela Mercer
Kathleen Beck
November 30, 2025
Saddened to hear of Jay's passing. I met Jay in 1994 when I came to work at the City of VB. He always had compassion for the individuals and staff we worked with. He was a tireless champion for persons in the community living with mental and physical disabilities to allow them to become a part of the fabric of their neighborhoods. Jay will certainly be missed.
Janet Meyers and Jim Guggenheim
November 30, 2025
May Jay´s memory be a blessing, and may the kindness and compassion he showed in life continue to inspire and comfort the Lazier family and all who mourn him.

Donna Corbt
November 30, 2025
I'm sure that I share this for all the SOUNDS OF JOY Members. Jay was a wonderful compliment to our musical family. He was warm, generous and caring man. A loving kindness that connected us to Home and Community. Our hearts a filled with great Love and Appreciation for Nancy and the Lazier family. May you feel the arms of condolences surround you and assist you through this journey. We love you, Nancy!
Pamela Denues
November 30, 2025
My heart saddens with the news of Jay´s passing. Nancy, may you and your family be uplifted by loving memories always.
Greg and Lisa Sowell
November 30, 2025
I am so very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. May God bring you comfort and peace.
Cindy Buckler
November 30, 2025
My deepest condolences. I worked with Jay for many years. He was the kindest man. I remember he would visit a program and knew the names of all the participants. The Virginia Beach Developmental Services program exists because he and a few others cared for the people. I am truly saddened to hear of his passing.
Sheldon Starman
November 29, 2025
Jay´s memory is a blessing. Our love for Nancy is source of strength and admiration and hope for all who were ever in contact with her.
Betsy & Sheldon Starman
H.D Oliver Funeral Apartments, Inc. - Laskin Road Chapel
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November 28, 2025
Jay Lazier Obituary
Jay T. Lazier passed away after a six-month illness on November 28, 2025 in Norfolk, VA. He was born in Pittsburgh, PA, to his loving parents, Joseph and Gertrude Lazier. He was eighty-two years old. He was a deeply caring, warm, and kind man... Read Jay Lazier's Obituary
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