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Jay WRIGHT Obituary

Age 79, of Eagan Passed away on January 11, 2023 after a long battle with Lewy body dementia. Jay was born on July 31, 1943, to Earl and Georgia (Klinefelter) Wright in Hastings, MN. The third of four sons, he quickly learned the value of hard work growing up on the farm. After graduating from Forest Lake High School where he wrestled and played football, he started college at St. Cloud State University. He married the love of his life, Barbara Bergquist in January of 1963. While he continued his studies at St. Cloud State and the University of Minnesota, the couple had two children to make their family complete. Jay worked tirelessly to support his family with several jobs, all while completing his B.S. degree in math along with a teaching and coaching certificate. Jay taught math for six years at Brooklyn Center Jr. High and coached football, wrestling, and track and field. After moving with the family to Stacy, MN he took a leap of faith to begin what would be a 45+ year career in the insurance industry. While he loved helping clients and led a successful career, his focus was always his family. He and Barb never missed a softball game, tennis match, football game, wrestling match, or band concert for their children. Later as a proud grandfather, he attended countless piano recitals, band concerts, dance recitals, and everything he was invited to attend. Jay had a strong faith and listed God as his first priority. In addition to becoming a beloved and committed member of each of his church communities, he led a life devoted to service. He served as a church council member, church council president, school board member, Lions club member, served on many committees, taught Sunday school and confirmation classes and served as an association president. Jay was gregarious, he made everyone feel comfortable and valued. He will be remembered as a happy, generous, and kind-hearted person, who always saw the best in others. He was a natural leader who had a way of bringing people together; he had a true gift in relating to people. Jay is survived by wife, Barbara, daughter Lisa Rutt, son Scott (Cara) Wright; three granddaughters; two brothers, nieces, nephews and many loving family members and friends. He was preceded in death by his parents, and one brother. Celebration of life service Saturday, January 21 at 11am, visitation one hour prior, lunch after the service at Shepherd of the Valley Lutheran Church, 12650 Johnny Cake Ridge Rd, Apple Valley. Memorials preferred to Lewy Body Dementia Association https://www.lbda.org/ or Shepherd of the Valley Lutheran Church https://www.sotv.org/

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Published by Pioneer Press on Jan. 15, 2023.

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Loreen and Rich

January 17, 2023

Our Deepest sympathy on Jay's passing! Jay has been a wonderful friend like a brother to me for my adult lifetime. My heart aches for you Barb Lisa Scott Kara and family. Jay was one of the Best! He was loved will be missed and always Remembered!

Rev. Arlyn Tolzmann

January 17, 2023

As a pastor, Jay sounds like the kind of person I valued in my congregations. The Lord bless and keep Barbara and the family.

Denny & Lou Johnson

January 17, 2023

Love & prayers to Barbara & family.

C. (carter) Cincotta

January 17, 2023

as a fellow classmate way back in '61 - he never changed apparently over the years......kind, generous and outgoing. Our prayers are with all of you

Lyle Stinson

January 16, 2023

Enjoyed so many great times together with Jay in Sunland Village Mesa AZ over the years.

Dori Fulco

January 15, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Diana Curt Highet

January 14, 2023

Jay was like a dad to us. He was so kind and fun to be around. We loved making Lefse with Barb and Jay. Playing cards was always a joy as well. We had so many laughs.

Karin

January 14, 2023

We are sending much love and many prayers as you navigate this difficult path through grief. Peace for the journey...

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