Jeffrey S. Pacelli

Jeffrey S. Pacelli obituary, Yalesville, CT

Jeffrey S. Pacelli

Jeffrey Pacelli Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wallingford Funeral Home - Wallingford on Oct. 1, 2025.
Jeffrey S. Pacelli, age 68, of Wallingford passed away suddenly at home on September 18, 2025. For 35 years he was the loving companion of Margaret Dubuc. Jeffrey was born in New Haven, the son of the late Mario and Carol Grady Pacelli.
Prior to his retirement, Jeff was a skilled carpet and tile installer. He had a lifelong passion for motorcycles, and in his free time, he could always be found tinkering with engines-whether it was a lawnmower, a motorcycle, or anything in between.
He is also survived by his family, Cecily Quincy and her husband Daniel of Middlefield, Alyson Adamo and her husband Samuel of Wallingford, his grandchildren, Dylan, Corey, Brooke, Evelyn, Dominic and Jayden, as well as siblings, Andrea Allen Pacelli, Mario Pacelli, Peggy Carafano, Joseph Carafano and Jason Johnson, and numerous nieces and nephews.
Jeffrey's family will receive relatives and friends on Tuesday September 23rd from 4:00 – 7:00pm at the Wallingford Funeral Home 809 N. Main St. Ext. Wallingford. A Funeral Service will commence at the funeral home at 6:30pm. Interment will be private.
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