Jill Graper

1966 - 2025

Jill Graper

1966 - 2025

BORN

1966

DIED

2025

Jill Graper Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 18, 2025.
JILL Graper Jill Graper dos Anjos of Castro Marim, Portugal (formerly of Pittsford, NY and St. Michaels, MD), died on September 17, 2025 from metastatic breast cancer.

Born in 1966 in Rochester NY, Jill was a graduate of Pittsford Mendon HS and the University of Michigan.

Her gift for languages and love of travel emerged early; she was able to travel the world.

Jill had a strong love of animals, a sharp wit, and a deep respect for the friendships she nurtured throughout her life.

After a Portuguese vacation in 2019, Jill moved to Portugal, married, and started a new life.

During her illness, Jill's faith grew tremendously. She faced her illness with strength and courage, knowing her care was in God's hands.

Jill is survived by her husband José dos Anjos, mother Judith Graper, sister Ellen Graper, beloved niece Anne, aunts, and cousins. She was predeceased by her father Ralph and sister Nancy.

A funeral mass in celebration of Jill's life will be held at a later date at St. Michael Mission Church in St. Michaels, MD.

In lieu of flowers, Jill requested that memorial contributions be made to Talbot Humane Society Inc. in Easton, MD.
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