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John Button Obituary

John Randall Button Loving Husband, Proud Father, Devoted Grandpa, and Cherished Brother February 26, 1957 – March 26, 2025 John Randall Button, 68, of Bolivia, North Carolina, formerly of Frankfort, New York, passed away peacefully on March 26, 2025, surrounded by his family. John was a man of quiet strength, boundless love, and unwavering devotion to his family. He is survived by his beloved wife and high school sweetheart, Wendy Button (Grippe); his four children Randi Button, Jessica Harper (Brad), Jamie Palumbo (Mark), and Ryan Button (Christine); and his cherished grandchildren Owen, Barrett, and Briar Harper; Hunter and Aiden Palumbo; and Scotland and Tripp Button. He is also survived by his siblings Mike Button (Susan), Mary Jean Grippe (Jody), James Button, and Geri Button (Patrice), as well as many beloved nieces and nephews. John now rests with his parents, Rosemarie and Randall Button; his grandchild Bailey Button; his Aunt and Uncle Joanne and Don McShane; and his cousin Tom McShane (Elaine). John graduated from Syracuse University and remained a loyal Syracuse basketball fan throughout his life. A true entrepreneur, John owned and operated a range of businesses throughout his life-from the family-run Herkimer Wholesale to sporting goods stores and equestrian stables-before finishing his career in TV and radio. He was admired for his insightful mind and exceptional strategic thinking. Whether in business, at the poker table, or facing life's greatest challenges, John always stayed ten steps ahead, approaching every situation with clarity, purpose, and quiet strength. That same strength defined his courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. John faced each day with grace, grit, and a fierce determination to be present for the people he loved. His resilience during that fight was a reflection of the man he had always been. Outside of work, John was a sharp and strategic poker player, a seasoned traveler, a teller of legendary dad jokes, and a constant presence in the lives of his children and grandchildren. His love for his family was fierce and unwavering, and his faith in Jesus remained a steady compass throughout his life. John's personality was one-of-a-kind-strong, compassionate, and loyal, with a dry wit and a heart that never stopped giving. His legacy lives on in the stories he told, the lessons he taught, the friendships he nurtured, and the family he built. Services to honor John's life will be held in both North Carolina and New York: Tuesday, April 1st Brunswick Funeral Service 3479 Southport/Supply Rd, NE Bolivia, NC 28422 2:00 PM – Funeral Mass Saturday, April 5th Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home 4309 Acme Rd. Ilion, NY 13357 12:00 – 2:00 PM – Calling Hours 2:00 PM – Prayer Service 3:00 PM – Celebration of Life VFW Herkimer 131 Mohawk Street Herkimer, NY In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in John's memory to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network: https://secure.PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network).org/site/Donation2?df_id=6701&mfc_pref=T&6701.donation=form1 From the family: To everyone who has supported us-throughout this journey and in these recent days-we are deeply grateful. Your love, prayers, and generosity have been a guiding light in one of the darkest times of our lives. We will carry your kindness with us always. One of John's favorite reminders: "Live each day to the fullest and never take a single moment for granted." He was deeply loved and will be deeply missed.

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Published by WKTV on Mar. 29, 2025.

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cissy p

April 1, 2025

Wendy and family sending condolences to you all. You are in my prayers. Sincerely,, Cissy P.

Nicholas Bonacci

March 29, 2025

My condolences to Ryan Button (class of 2006 classmate) and his family.

John Brown

March 29, 2025

Sending deepest sympathies on the loss of John.
May his memory be eternal.

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Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home

4309 Acme Rd, Ilion, NY 13357

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Enea & Ciaccia Family Funeral Home

4309 Acme Rd, Ilion, NY 13357

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Herkimer VFW

131 Mohawk Street, Herkimer, NY 13350

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