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Joseph Dermot Dickey Jr.
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Joseph Dermot Dickey Jr. grew up with two older brothers in the Bronx, and the three siblings became more competitive the older they got. They sparred in tennis, basketball, volleyball and golf. Mr. Dickey, 50, who had settled down in Manhasset, was not only the best basketball player, his oldest brother admits, but was probably also the best liked of the three.
"He was extremely sociable," said Bill Dickey, 58. "Frankly, he was more easygoing and personable than me or my brother."
A managing director with Cantor Fitzgerald, Joe Dickey was also successful on Wall Street. But in his tight-knit Irish-American family, attributes as a husband and father ‹ in Joe Dickey's case to his wife, Irene, son Joseph, 17, and daughter Liz, 15 ‹ were "the mark by which we judge each other," Bill Dickey said.
His family's verdict was that Joe Dickey was exceptional on both counts, especially with the children. The last big family gathering, which also drew Walter, 55, the middle brother, was at the wedding of Bill Dickey's daughter last August in Adare Manor, Ireland. "We had a great time, all of us," Bill Dickey said. "We spent a lot of time playing golf."
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Cindy Roe
September 7, 2021
Remembering Joseph on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
September 30, 2019
In cherished memory of Joseph.
Lisa Steinberg
September 11, 2015
I met Joe the summer after my freshman year of high school. Joe had just graduated from Fordham Prep and was a lifeguard in Ocean Beach. He was heading to the University of Wisconsin in the fall. What a truly amazing guy on so many different levels. His nickname for his brother Bill was puddin'. What a wonderful summer that was. Such a terrible tragedy that I don't know what else to say. God bless Irene, Joseph, Elizabeth, Bill, Walter and everyone who knew and loved him. Fondly, Lisa Steinberg Riverdale NY
Margaret Ames
September 11, 2015
Remembered. Always.
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Natasha Orlando
September 10, 2015
Dear Dickey family:
Every year on September 11. I stay home just to salute Joseph D. Dickey with tears. I remember all of the family and I also remember how kind he was to me when i worked in Manhattan for your dentist. I was the office manager. I remember William and Janet the children Susan and Kristin and Irene. Hope all of you are well. Sending you much love
September 11, 2014
You are remembered. May God bless the family you loved so much - May the memories of happy times continue providing light in world of darkness. We will never forget
September 18, 2012
Claud Dean Dickey, "May Your light shine forever"
Peggy Ames
September 11, 2012
11 years later, still in my heart and in my thoughts. God bless your family - I hope that they are able to remember the best and feel less of the pain of your loss.
Wendy Williams
October 11, 2011
Dear family and friends, my church handed out prayer cards and on mine was written Joseph Dermot Dickey. I pray that you will find peace and feel Gods comfort in times of sorrow. I carry the car with me every day. We should never forget.
Payton
September 29, 2011
I am sorry for your loss. Just always remember God has a plan for everyone and he is in a better place smiling down on you and your family. I am a student at Armuchee Middle School in Rome,Georgia. I was about three years old when this tragedy happend so I really do not remember the event of 9/11, but our educators here at my school are reminding us of it. On 9/11 this year our entire school did a balloon release and are in the progress of planting a garden in memory of the 9/11 victims and families just as yourself. Your family will always be in our prays.
Doug Abraham
May 26, 2009
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
September 10, 2008
May God continue to bless Joseph and his family. Irene, Liz, and Joe: Just from looking at his smile, I know he is still with you. My heart is and will always be with the Dickey family.
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 25, 2006
In remembrance....
Dennis Brinkmann
September 11, 2003
To the Dickey family -
My heart goes out to you - you are in my thoughts and prayers, especially on this day.
I'm honored to have known him.
Dennis Brinkmann, Fordham Prep '68
Mary & Ron Grosso
September 12, 2002
Yesterday, 9/11/02, we planted an evergreen seedling in our yard in the name of Joseph Dermot Dickey Jr. It came to us through an unexpected set of circumstances. We will tend it with care and remember him in our prayers. God grant strength and peace to the family.
Christina Trongone
September 12, 2002
Dear Liz, Joeseph and Irene,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was deeply saddened by this day, and at the Memorial Service held at my college- Marist College in Poughkeepsie, NY- I prayed for you, and for Joe.. that his spirit may always live on in our hearts and minds. I will never forget September 11th, 2001. God bless you all.
Love,
Christina Trongone (18, Manhasset, NY)
P.S. Liz, I would love to get together with you again... so if you see this, e-mail me!! (it's [email protected]) I truly enjoyed working with you this past summer. Again, my sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Kirk Stephens
September 11, 2002
Dickey family- You have been on my mind this sad day. I have a candle lit in memory of Mr. Dickey. God Bless
Peggy Hurley
September 11, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with the Dickey family. I was pained to hear that the brother of one of my favorite professors had been lost on September 11, 2001. I can't imagine your loss, but your family's love and admiration for Joseph is beautifully evident in this tribute to him.
Linda Mordeszewski
September 10, 2002
I received Mr. Dickey's name on a bracelet. While it was a tribute to one that lost his life tragicaly, it now holds a diffrent meaning for me after reading about his life, his family and his values.
Mr. Dickey made a difference in this world...and will continue to do so in the hearts and mind of those he's touched.
My sincere condolences to his family and friends...and to all who lost someone on September 11.
harry soffer
March 26, 2002
Dearest Joe I haven't seen you in 25 years but the joy of your laughter will ring in my heart eternally.May your family find peace in the beauty you brought into the world
Marc Lobell
March 11, 2002
Irene, Joseph and Liz:
Our thoughts have been with you and remain with you always. (Marc saw the first plane hit from the elevated subway and could not comprehend, immediately, what he was seeing.)
Thank Joe for always taking our boys to the beach and for the twelve summers of afternoon get togethers.
Love,
The Lobells ( Marc, Lynn, Jonathan & Elliot)
julie marini
February 12, 2002
Dear Joe,
I'll always treasure the times that we spent together at Fire Island,your house on Christmas Eve and dinners in the city with Irene and Billy. But, what always puts a smile on my face is how much fun you
would have when Billy was annoying Irene. These scenes always made you laugh; and I know that you are still laughing!
love,
julie
Connie Liappas
February 7, 2002
How fortunate we all are to have such wonderful memories. No message can express how valuable a friend you've been. You truly are special, and you have touched our lives. You leave us changed, and as our kids have turned into men, they will remember the gifts you gave them. Gifts such as: your love, time, and wisdom. Dear in our hearts, we will always remember you in Fire Island with a team of kids on their bikes loaded with sports equipment, CYO Basketball, and the early rise for the trip to DAC in the cold winter. What a great coach you've been. I will miss our conversations, your laughter and that funny little nervous scratch on the side of your head. You've accomplished so much but most life's finest your precious family. May god give them strength and courage to remember and love you forever.
Love,
Connie
Donald Dickey
February 5, 2002
Lest we forget the love strangers.
Cathy Perifimos
January 27, 2002
Dear Mr. Dickey,
Your quiet kindness, sincerity, and warmth made you an unforgettable person. Each time I look at Joe and Liz, I am reassured that you will always be here with us. Their eyes and their smiles radiate your likeness. I miss you deeply and feel that a part of my family has been taken away from me. I will always remember you.
Love, Cathy
Ann Hyman
January 24, 2002
Joe: The world is a lesser place without you, your radiant smile and understated humor. Larry and I miss you more than we could ever know. It's so true: you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone.
tom reilly
January 22, 2002
Joe
god bless you and thank you for all of the great times.You will never be forgotten.make sure you look after all the boys
love
tom r
Christopher Sheeron
January 20, 2002
Dear Mr. Dickey - Rest in Peace.
God Bless the Dickey family!
Kimberly Delancey
January 15, 2002
Joe, thank you for teaching my husband how to swim for it is where he finds his peace. May Irene, Joseph and Lizzie find peace in your memory and your spirit and your love. God Bless the Dickey family.
January 11, 2002
DEAR JESUS BLESS JOSEPH DERMOT DICKEY JR.AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE
WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND IRELAND AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN
John Casey
January 8, 2002
I'll always remember Joe as one of the best rugby players on the Wisconsin Rugby Club. I am having three masses said for Joe at Emmanuel Catholic Church in downtown Dayton, Ohio. My sympathies go out to Joe's family.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
What a dazzling smile and warm soft eyes Joseph has in the picture you have shared with us. Such a smile and warm eyes must be a reflection of his heart. We are very sorry for your loss of Joseph. May his warm heart, his life and love live on in those who love him. May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by the warm memories of times shared with Joseph. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Rich Bolton
December 29, 2001
Rest in peace Joe
Paul Cunningham
December 20, 2001
Dear Joe,
I don't need to say goodbye because I feel you will always be with us. Although our friendship was recent, it felt as if it was in place since childhood. We shared the same views, opinions and values on many subjects. Whether it was on the golf course where we both struggled to get a handicap, or at dinner with the wives, we were on the same path. We could share our concerns and experiences in an honest fashion.
You and Irene have raised two wonderful children, Joseph and Liz, who are strong and independent thinkers, a tribute to both of you.
I will miss our conversations, I will miss you.
Pat McBride Crowley
November 28, 2001
I knew Joe through a childhood friend. I later got to know him as an adult. He was a fine, outgoing man; very generous in spirit. My prayers are with the family. I hope you can celebrate his life without too many tears. Pat
leslie miller
October 30, 2001
What a wonderful man! What a wonderful life! Take comfort in the memories, and know that our hearts go out to you. We will never forget you.
Carla Congdon Leone
October 21, 2001
Manhasset lost too many good people, among them my good friend Kevin Cosgrove (who attended St. Mary's) and although I did not know Joseph, I wish I had met him, because he sounds like a wonderful person. I am so sorry he is no longer physically with you, but look for him in the beauty in the world - his spirit remains forever surrounding you, his beloved family. Peace and Love be with you.
Libby Kasselakis
October 19, 2001
Our deepest sympathy to the Dickey family. May his memory live forever in your hearts.
Sincerely,
Kasselakis Family
Peggy Ames
October 18, 2001
It is with enormous sadness that I leave this note in memory of a childhood friend who was kindhearted and a gentleman in the truest sense. God must have wanted Joe nearer to Him -- He so often chooses the best among us to leave the earth too soon!
I send my thoughts and prayers to Joe's family at this most difficult time. May you find peace in knowing he is surely among angels as he was an angel among us.
THE DIAKOUMAKIS FAMILY
October 8, 2001
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. ETERNAL BE HIS MEMORY.
Connie Selin
October 5, 2001
I am involved in making a quilt with all the victims names from Sept 11.I was givien your name to memorialize in my quilt block. I am honored to be a part of this and to have your name.
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
JOSEPH MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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