Judy Wilmer

Judy Wilmer obituary, Farmington, MO

Judy Wilmer

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Judy Wilmer Obituary

Judith Helen “Judy” Wilmer, 86, of Farmington passed away November 8, 2025 at Southbrook Skilled Nursing Center in Farmington. She was born June 30, 1939 in Chicago, IL to the late Charles and Grace (Neuhaus) Ferrel.

She was a proud and passionate Cubs fan who loved everything about Chicago. At home, she found joy in tending to and arranging the flowers in her yard, creating beauty wherever she could. She enjoyed spending quiet moments reading, watching old movies, and especially singing along to her favorite musicals. Known by all as one of the sweetest ladies you could ever meet, she always saw the good in every situation—her glass was truly always full. She never had a bad word to say about anyone or anything, and her kindness left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her. She was also well known for her delicious potato salad and tuna creamette salad, which were staples at family gatherings and loved by all.

In addition to her parents, she was also preceded in death by her husband, Herby C. Wilmer; and sister, Diane Tremblay.

Judy is survived by her daughter, Amy Wilmer (Glen Banzso); two grandchildren, Matthew Ruttenberg and Samantha Ruttenberg Miranda (Alex); one great-grandson, A.J. Miranda; sister-in-law, Betty Trawinski. Several nieces and nephews also survive.

A memorial visitation will be held at the C.Z. Boyer & Son Funeral Home – Taylor Chapel on Saturday, November 15, 2025 from 3:00 PM until 6:00 PM. A private inurnment will be held at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery at a later date. Memorial donations may be made to Big Brothers Big Sisters of McHenry County, IL.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

C.Z. BoC.Z. Boyer & Son Funeral yer & Sons Funeral Home - Farmington Chapel

111 E. Liberty St. PO Box 12, Farmington, MO 63640

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Upcoming Events

Nov

15

Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Taylor Chapel

111 E Liberty St, Farmington, MO 63640

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