Kailana M. K. Graciidis

Kailana M. K. Graciidis

Kailana Graciidis Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Aloha Mortuary on Sep. 19, 2025.

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In Loving Memory of Kailana Alapai
Sunrise: November 15, 1986 – Sunset: July 26, 2025
It is with deep sorrow and love that we announce the passing of Kailana Alapai, who left this world far too soon at the age of 38. A trying mother, cherished daughter, beloved sister, loyal friend, and the best aunty anyone could ask for-Kailana touched the lives of everyone who knew her with her unwavering love, selflessness, and light.
Kailana was the kind of person who gave without expecting anything in return. She carried a heart full of compassion and a spirit that lifted those around her. Whether you knew her for a moment or a lifetime, you were better for it. Her laughter could brighten the darkest days, and her loyalty ran deep-always showing up when it mattered most.
Her family was everything to her. She lived her life for those she loved. Though she faced her own struggles, she never stopped trying. As a friend, she was always there. As a sister, daughter, and aunty, she brought warmth, unity, and joy into her family.
Though her time with us was short, the legacy she leaves behind is enduring-a testament to a life lived with purpose, love, and grace.
She will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who were fortunate to know her.
Rest in peace, Kailana.
You were truly one of a kind.

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