Search by Name

Search by Name

Kay Smith Patton

1937 - 2025

Kay Smith Patton obituary, 1937-2025, Leawood, KS

BORN

1937

DIED

2025

Kay Patton Obituary

Kay Smith Patton

October 11, 1937 - November 2, 2025

Leawood, Kansas - Kay "KK" Smith Patton, age 88, died Sunday, November 2, 2025 in Leawood, Kansas. She was born October 11, 1937 in Corsicana, Texas to the late William J. and Irma H. Smith. She was preceded in death by her husband of sixty years, William L. Patton, Jr. She is survived by three daughters, Holly P. Beineman (Don), Ann D. Patton (Jack), and Katherine D. Patton (Alaric), and granddaughters, Alexandra Beineman (Brynna), and Carson Beineman.

Kay moved to Little Rock in 1940 where she was educated in Little Rock public schools. Upon graduating Little Rock Central High School in 1954, she attended Randolph Macon Women's College. Upon graduating college in 1959, Kay became part of the first group of 40 students allowed to study behind the iron curtain in the Soviet Union, Poland, and Czechoslovakia.

She met Bill Patton in 1960 and they married in January of 1961. She taught Western Civilization at the University of Arkansas while she earned an MA in history and Bill earned a law degree. They returned to Little Rock and started their family, to whom she was devoted. Kay dedicated her professional life to social services and children, especially those who needed a voice.

Her accomplishments were too many to count, and the impact she had on the city of Little Rock and beyond will be remembered forever. She never stopped seeing the magic in people and in life, and her glass overflowed with optimism, compassion, and humor. She never stopped learning, she never stopped teaching, and she was always interested in other people's story. She considered her life vast and interesting. Her infectious smile and laughter reminded us all that joy could be found in even the simplest moments.

We will remember her not only for what she gave to us as her daughters, and to all whose lives she touched, but for how she lived: with courage, grace, and an unshakable faith in love.

The family will be forever grateful to the caregivers who, with loving hearts and kind hands, were with her this past year.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her honor may be made to The Farmers House in Kansas City, MO.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kansas City Star from Nov. 6 to Nov. 9, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Kay Patton

Sponsored by Kansas City Star.

Not sure what to say?





1 Entry

Amy Allison, Executive Director The Farmer's House

Yesterday

I am sending my deepest sympathies to the Patton family. Thank you so much for thinking of memorial donations to The Farmer's House during this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Make a Donation
in Kay Patton's name

Memorial Events
for Kay Patton

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Kay's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Kay Patton's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more