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Kirk Brink Obituary

Dr. Kirk Lynn Brink, age 76, of Grand Rapids passed away unexpectedly on December 8, 2025. He was born July 30, 1949 and grew up in Grant, MI. He graduated from Hope College and completed a PhD in Clinical Psychology from DePaul University in Chicago. He deeply loved his life's work as a psychotherapist, maintaining a robust private practice until his death. Over more than 45 years, he provided individual, group, couples, and family psychotherapy. He was passionate about group consultation and supervision of other therapists. He served as an adjunct faculty member at numerous local colleges, was active in professional organizations, and co-wrote two books.
Kirk is survived by his three sons, Brandon (Aurelie), Aaron (Stacy), and Jonathan (Lindsey), his brother, Mark (Sandi), his nieces and nephews, and his grandchildren, Beatrice and Max. He is survived by his partner, Catharine Walstra, and her children and grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his mother, Katherine, father, Max, sister, Kathleen, brother, Ralph, and former spouse, Jane.
Kirk loved bringing people together, whether through collaboration with colleagues or his long-standing men's group. He loved art, creating the perfect playlist, and weighing in on lists of top movies. He was a lover of dogs and found great joy in their companionship. He was generous, quick-witted, keenly observant, and deeply funny. He will be greatly missed.
A memorial service will be held Saturday, January 17, 2026 at Watermark Country Club. Visitation begins at 12pm and memorial service is at 1pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Humane Society of West Michigan (https://www.hswestmi.org/)

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Published by Grand Rapids Press on Dec. 11, 2025.

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Visitation

12:00 p.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Watermark Country Club

5500 Cascade Rd SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49546

Jan

17

Memorial service

1:00 p.m.

Watermark Country Club

5500 Cascade Rd SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49546

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Ellie Pettee

December 24, 2025

Dr. Brink, I am so filled with grief that you have died and are no longer in this world. How can this possibly be? You came into my life over twelve years ago when my family did an intervention with me and told me I needed help. Thank God for Dr. Bodley for referring me to you. It has been an incredible journey with you. You were instrumental in my getting sober but more importantly in beginning to be open, honest and willing to look at myself. Your compassionate, loving and skilled care and your sharing of yourself over the years are incredible gifts in my life. I love you dearly and will miss you greatly. I am so very grateful for the hours I spent with you learning to live a better life. Rest in great peace. And my journey will continue, remembering your words `be well´. And to Brandon, Aaron, Jonathan, Catharine and your families, I send my deepest condolences and prayers for comfort.

Christopher Brush

December 17, 2025

Dear Catharine and Family,
I am writing to express my deepest condolences for the passing of Dr. Kirk Brink. I was heartbroken to learn of this news, and it has taken me time to process the profound impact he had on my life.
Dr. Brink was not only a vibrant and thoughtful colleague but also a remarkable mentor and advisor. His ability to understand human motivation and behavior was astonishing - it was both a gift and the result of his intense dedication to his studies and observations. I often found myself inspired by his insights and perspective.
I also loved Kirk's passion for literature, art, and the humanities. Whenever we met, I learned something new about everything from the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius to Steve Jobs, or even Sigmund Freud. His diverse knowledge enriched my understanding of the world.
I had the privilege of working alongside Kirk on a business engagement, and witnessing his interactions with clients was nothing short of a masterclass in emotional intelligence. He had an extraordinary way of connecting with people that fostered trust and encouraged open communication. Additionally, we shared a love for dogs, and during our discussions, his two pups were always nearby, bringing even more warmth to our conversations.
His legacy of kindness, wisdom, and dedication will continue to influence all who were fortunate enough to know him.
Please know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Dr. Brink's memory will forever remain in our hearts, and his spirit will continue to inspire those he touched.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Chris and Karen Brush

Sandi O.

December 15, 2025

My heart grieves with all who are stunned by the death our beloved Dr. Kirk Brink.
I spent 25 years with him, from age 25 to 50. He allowed for thousands of tears, words of rage and a place of safety.
He lives on in my heart and in all the lives he has touched.
I thank God for Dr. Brink's life.

Anonymous

December 14, 2025

I talk to you every day. You tell me you are outside of time now, that you can feel all of the love I have ever or will ever feel for you. I often hear your laughter, which helps me see the ridiculousness of every day life. It hurts so bad that youre gone, but I feel deeply grateful to have known you and been loved by you.

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December 14, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Thomas Ippel

December 13, 2025

I loved Dr. Brink. I worked with him twice, the first time for about 10 years, and just recently since June. He helped me live in reality instead of living out of a sense of scarcity. As a result, my wife and I enjoyed 7 overseas trips and I got over a chronic depression. He also helped me learn to enjoy contact with strangers. Thank you so much. I will miss you.

Catharine Walstra

December 12, 2025

My love. You were and are my best friend and the love of my life. The house is quiet and Grace sleeps on your pillow. Elliott tells us you are now in fairy school, you are not gone yet, but when you go she will feel you in her heart. The coyote came, the cranes came, the turkeys came and the starlings filled the yard. Fly safe and wait for me with the boys. All my love, Catharine

bill battjes

December 11, 2025

kirk has been a friend, cohort and fellow traveler of life for thirty five years or more. his insight, guidance and love have had a significant impact on me. his presence in my life has made me a better person and my life more rewarding. i will miss you kirk. your death shocked and has shook me. i love you. bill

V. Scott

December 11, 2025

Thank you for your service Sir

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