Larry D. Gay

Larry D. Gay obituary, Grand Ledge, MI

Larry D. Gay

Larry Gay Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Mills Funeral Home, Shelly-Odell Chapel - Eaton Rapids on Nov. 18, 2025.

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Larry "The Lasher" Delaine Gay, age 65, of Vermontville, MI, passed away peacefully at home on November 16, 2025. He was born on May 14, 1960, in Lansing, MI.
Larry was a graduate of Waverly High School, where he first showed his love for sports and the great outdoors. Following graduation, he honorably served his country in the United States Army, a period of his life that instilled in him a profound sense of duty and camaraderie. After his military service, he carried his strong work ethic into his career at a Forging Company, where he was respected for his dedication and hard work.
An avid sportsman, Larry found joy in the simple pleasures of life. He could often be found hunting in the woods, fishing in the lakes of Michigan, or playing baseball, a sport he loved since childhood. Larry's passion for sports extended to being a spectator as well; he was always ready to catch a game, reveling in the victories and agonizing over the defeats of his favorite teams.
Riding his beloved Harley, Larry felt the freedom of the open road and the companionship of his fellow riders. His interests also included gardening, where he took pride in cultivating a variety of plants, and he had a special place in his heart for animals, always ensuring they were well cared for.
Beyond his hobbies, Larry was a man who cherished his afternoon naps, a time to recharge and dream. He was also deeply committed to his community, often seen volunteering and participating in local events. His connection to his heritage was evident in his love for attending Pow Wows, where he celebrated the culture and traditions of Native Americans.
Larry leaves behind his beloved son, Garett Gay; his adoring mom, Evelyn "Sue" Sheldon; and his siblings, Randy Gay, Dennis (LeAnn) Gay, Charles Edward (Marianne) Gay, and Penny (David) Wood. He also leaves behind a community of great friends and neighbors who were like an extended family to him. Larry was preceded in death by his father, Aubrey Gay, and his mother, Arial Gillerd.
A celebration of life will be held at a later date. For donations made in loving memory of Larry please do so to the VFW National Home of Eaton Rapids, 3573 S. Waverly Rd, Eaton Rapids, MI 48827. For online condolences please visit www.millsfuneral.com.
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