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Laura Buck Obituary

Buck Laura (nee Thomas ) Passed away on January 29, 2024, at her home in Vero Beach, Florida. She was about to celebrate her 93rd birthday. Laura was born in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania, on February 7, 1931, and grew up in Ardmore, Pennsylvania, as the only child of John L. ("Doc") Thomas and Elizabeth Machen Thomas. She and her husband, William C. (Bill) Buck, who passed away in March of 2023, raised their own three daughters, Laurie, Libby, and Sarah, in Villanova. Laura will be remembered for her endless energy, her many creative talents, her wonderful taste and sense of style, and her generosity and impact on so many organizations. Warm and gracious to all, Laura cherished her family, who knew and adored her as "Lolly," and she was a lifelong friend to many. Laura attended the Agnes Irwin School, graduating in 1949, where she enjoyed her studies, played lacrosse and field hockey, and was an active member of many clubs and committees, not least the Welfare Committee, where, according to the yearbook, she raised "large sums of money for charity," proving that helping others was in Laura's DNA from the very beginning. After Agnes Irwin, Laura attended Bradford College in North Andover, Massachusetts, graduating in 1951. She then worked briefly as a travel agent, no doubt engendering her lifelong love of travel. In 1954, Laura married the love of her life, Bill Buck, and they soon had three daughters, a menagerie of pets, and houses in Villanova and in Avalon, New Jersey. They later owned houses in Nantucket and Vero Beach, where they made many close friends. They were the consummate hosts, welcoming guests for activity-filled getaways filled with laughs and fun. Always keen to spend time with her children and grandchildren, Laura loved nothing better than getting the family together by arranging trips to Broadway shows, to ski country, or to the islands to celebrate big birthdays or anniversaries. During their 68-year marriage, Bill and Laura were inseparable and always on the go. They shared many artistic, athletic, and charitable interests, and they were usually the first on the dance floor and the last to leave. Friends and family alike marveled at their energy. Laura was forever grateful for her education, and she remained a champion of educational causes, including both of her alma maters. At Agnes Irwin in particular, she served on the Board for seven years and volunteered in countless other capacities, including as chair of the first Winterfest fundraising event and as honorary co-chair for the 150th Anniversary celebration; the school honored her with its Alumnae Award in 1999. As the mother of three daughters who attended Agnes Irwin, and as a proud alumna for 75 years, Laura could be counted on to make calls for annual giving or to host an alumnae event. She felt strongly that a good education should be available to anyone, and together with her husband, she also supported both the St. James School and the Discovery Center in Philadelphia and, more recently with her three daughters, the SEGA school in Tanzania. Laura was also deeply interested in art and art education. She had a great eye for fashion, art, and décor, and she and Bill collected many forms of art, including antiques and paintings. Her interest in art education deepened in her thirties, when she volunteered as a teacher in "Art Goes to School," a program offered by the Philadelphia Museum of Art. She later went on to be co-chair of the Associates of the Museum. For more than fifteen years, she dedicated many hours to the prestigious Philadelphia Antique Show, chairing the event in 1984. She was also committed to the Barnes Museum in Philadelphia. In Vero Beach, where she and Bill spent their winters starting in their early sixties, she quickly came to love the Vero Beach Museum of Art, where she served as a member of its board and as an active member of the exhibition committee. Laura was soon co-chairing VBMA's Art of Dining fundraiser, and she was an integral part of the Athena Society, where she helped to select art acquisitions for the museum. Laura also devoted time to other organizations that were particularly meaningful to her. She and Bill were huge fans of the Philadelphia Zoo, where Laura served as chair for its annual fundraiser, the Zoobilee, in 1977, and together they supported several projects, including the zoo's Primate Reserve and the renovation of "Big Cat Falls." In 2004, she and Bill received the William Camac Founder's Award in recognition of their "profound generosity, dedication and enthusiasm." Laura also co-chaired the inaugural Philadelphia Ski Ball, which raised money for the US Ski Team, and she and Bill were generous supporters of the Indian River Land Trust and Riverside Theatre in Vero Beach. In her volunteer activities, Laura drew on her many talents (not least her knack for throwing fabulous parties), not only to raise money, but to create enthusiasm and momentum, inspiring others to commit more deeply, as well. Throughout it all, Laura somehow found time for a broad range of personal interests and activities. She was passionate about her gardens in Villanova, Nantucket, and Vero Beach and loved flower arranging. Laura also enjoyed tennis, skiing, golf (playing into her nineties), and bridge. She was always eager to improve her own knowledge and skills, attending lectures and taking lessons to upgrade her game. Laura also belonged to The Antique Study Group, an investment club (where she was quite the accomplished stock picker), and garden clubs in Nantucket and Vero Beach. Last, and certainly not least, she enjoyed cheering for the Philadelphia Phillies, where Bill and his brothers were longtime members of the ownership group. Laura is survived by her 3 loving daughters Laurie Marshall (Sam), Libby King (Charlie), and Sarah Schmader (John). She also leaves 7 grown grandchildren Buck Marshall (Emy), Bailey Marshall Pritikin (Jordan), Jennifer King Mittnacht (Arthur), Hope King, Lila King, Bill Schmader, and Molly Schmader, and her first great-grandchild, Arthur "Bear" Mittnacht. A private reception will be held in Vero Beach. In addition, a Memorial Service will be held Friday, April 19, 2024, at 3:00 P.M. at St. David's Episcopal Church, 763 South Valley Forge Road, Wayne, Pennsylvania. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts can be made to Vero Beach Museum of Art, 3001 Riverside Park Drive, Vero Beach, Florida, 32963 or to The Agnes Irwin School, 275 S. Ithan Avenue, Rosemont, Pennsylvania, 19010.

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Published by The Philadelphia Inquirer on Feb. 9, 2024.

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Kate Gaydos

November 6, 2024

Sad to see the news!
My condolences to her daughters Laurie, Libby and Sarah.
I was Laura's interior designer for several decades, in their Villanova home and Vero Beach. From 1970 till the eighties, together, we chose the best and most suitable art works and materials. Her taste was impeccable. Bill the most relaxed and elegant gentleman. My memories of that beautiful family still linger, after so many years.
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Sandy Morgan

February 17, 2024

I had the privilege and pleasure of helping Laura with her home in Vero Beach. She was enthusiastic and passionate about creating a beautiful, inviting home for family and friends, even in the last days of her life. She was always fun to be with and true to her love of flowers, the color Pink, and her precious cat, Misty. Her sharp eye for style kept me on my toes! Laura was a great lady who I will miss very much.

Hewitt Heiserman

February 10, 2024

Like Bill, Laura was enthusiastic about all life had to offer, and great fun to be with. She was a beautiful lady, and I will miss her very much. What an amazing couple.

Anthony Walsh

February 9, 2024

Nantucket now misses both Laura and Bill, gracious with a common touch that allowed her to relate to all. Oh her beautiful Nantucket! Tony Walsh of bryn Mawr and nantucket

Anne E. McCollum

February 8, 2024

I loved getting to spend more time with Bill and Laura on Nantucket. It was often that we'd run into one another at Moor's End Farm or scoping out art in town on a Friday night. They were also devoted to PAFA and threw a party at their home and showed up at every other PAFA party thrown. Laura's delightful smile and laugh will stay with me forever.

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