Lillian Geddes Cotter

Lillian Geddes Cotter

Lillian Cotter Obituary

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Lillian (Rita) Geddes Cotter, age 91 of Westport, beloved wife of the late Edward F. Cotter, passed away Sunday, January 6, 2013 at Norwalk Hospital. Born in Staten Island, NY the daughter of the John and Lillian Geddes, she had been a lifelong area resident. A devout Roman Catholic, she was a long-time parishioner of St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Fairfield. Survivors include two children, Patricia A. Crespi and her husband Jack of Milford and Edward T. Cotter and his wife Catherine of Landenberg, PA; three grandchildren, Christopher Cotter, Amy Crespi and Kelley Cotter; a great-grandson, Nathan Edward Florez; a sister-in-law, Elizabeth M. Pfriem; and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents and husband she was predeceased by her daughter, Pamela R. Cotter and five brothers. Funeral services and burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. For information or to sign an online guest register please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com

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January 9, 2013

Shirley Adano posted to the memorial.

January 8, 2013

Gail Ford posted to the memorial.

January 8, 2013

Julia Ann Kulish posted to the memorial.

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Shirley Adano

January 9, 2013

To Rita's family: please accept the condolences of my brother & myself in the passing of your Mom. I saw her everyday while Pam was alive...we talked, laughed & cried together at the Carlton. May she rest in peace...she's with Pammy now...that's what she wanted. Sincerely, Shirley & Bobby.

Gail Ford

January 8, 2013

We will miss you Missa Cotter!

Julia Ann Kulish

January 8, 2013

Dear Pat and Family, I am so sorry to read of the passing of your Mom, May She rest in peace and May God be with you at this very difficult time. Julie (Lupo) Kulish

Griswold Home Care

January 8, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

January 8, 2013

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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