Lillian Styer Obituary
Lillian “Betsy” E. Styer, 84, formerly of Lancaster, passed away on November 24, 2025 at Arden Courts in Harrisburg, PA. She was the loving wife of the late Stephen E. Styer who preceded her in death in 2018.
Born in Lancaster, PA, she was the daughter of the late Harry and Anna (Hefright) Ensminger.
Betsy spent much of her professional career in the banking industry and later continued as a cafeteria worker for the school district of Lancaster.
In her spare time, she enjoyed playing Bingo.
Lillian is survived by her daughter, Tammra M. Augello (wife of the late Manuel); a grandson, Vincent Augello and a great-grandson, Paxton Augello. Also surviving is a sister-in-law, Darlene Wise (wife of the late Raymond); nephews, Raymond, Richard, and Scott Wise. In addition to her husband and parents, she was preceded by sisters, Patricia Kendig, Sarah Gray, Shirley Ann Ensminger and Valencia Ensminger.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a memorial service on Friday, December 12, 2025 at 11:00 AM at DeBord Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory, 141 E. Orange St., Lancaster, PA 17602. A visitation will be held from 10:00 AM until the time of the service. Interment will follow in Riverview Burial Park. To leave an online condolence, please visit: www.DeBordSnyder.com
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141 E. Orange Street, Lancaster, PA 17602
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