Lucia Parma Obituary
Lucy was born on December 13, 1942, in Chicago, Illinois, the cherished daughter of Anthony and Adeline "Lena" Santelli. On May 23, 1964, she married the love of her life, Ralph Parma, and together they built a beautiful life rooted in love, family, and unwavering devotion.
Known for her warmth, kindness, and gentle spirit, Lucy had a heart as beautiful as her smile. She found joy in life's simple pleasures and had an eye for beauty in the everyday. Earlier in her career, she worked as a switchboard operator for the John Plane Company in downtown Chicago, which sparked a lifelong fondness for the city she grew up in.
A remarkable cook and immaculate homemaker, Lucy took great pride in her home and found true happiness in caring for her family. Her greatest joy was being Grandma Lucy to her five beloved grandchildren-whom she affectionately called the "Fabulous 5." Her love for them was boundless, and she treasured every moment spent with them.
Lucy is survived by her devoted husband of 61 years, Ralph Parma; her loving daughters, Lisa (Joe) Napientek and Jeanine (Todd) Niedzwiedz; and her adored grandchildren, Elayna, Reannah, Ryan, Alex, and Jake. She was also fondly known as "Auntie" to her nieces, adored by all of her nephews and many in her extended family. Lucy will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing and loving her.
Visitation will be held on Thursday, October 2, 2025, from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. at DeFiore Funeral Home, 10763 Dundee Road, Huntley. A second visitation will be on Friday from 9-10am at Church before Mass.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, October 3, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. at St.Mary Church-10307 Dundee Road,Huntley.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Lucy's honor to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, an organization close to her heart.
For further information, please contact DeFiore Funeral Home at (847) 515-8772 or visit www.defiorefuneral.com to leave an online condolence.
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