Marie Grkovic

Marie Grkovic

Marie Grkovic Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Nov. 18, 2007.
GRKOVIC, Marie, age 94, of Richmond, passed away at Lucy Corr Village on November 12, 2007. She is survived by her husband of 66 years, Duke Grkovic; a daughter, Karen Sue; a son, Wilson Duke and his wife, Carol Rose; grandsons, Eric, David and John; stepgrandson, James R. Stone and his wife, Lourdes; and their son, James Luke. She is also survived by her sister, Glennae Mae Pauli of Boise, Idaho. Marie was the fifth of ten children born in a small farming community of Buhl, Idaho. After marrying in 1941, she and her husband, a civil engineer, moved often, living in various communities in 17 villages and towns in such diverse places as Grand Coulee Dam, Washington; Kemano, British Columbia, Canada; and Casablanca, Morocco. She raised her family, making a home in each new community while plunging into volunteer work for many civic and church groups. In Des Moines, Iowa, she retired as the executive administrator for the Dean of Liberal Arts, Drake University. At the age of 75, she and hubby, Duke, settled in Richmond to be near her children and grandchildren. Marie was an artist and avid painter. A remembrance service will be held on Wednesday, November 21 at 11 a.m. at the Southminister Presbyterian Church, 7500 Hull Street Road. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Southminster Presbyterian Church, Richmond, Virginia 23235.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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November 19, 2007

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A Painting by Marie

November 22, 2007

Maria with children Kare Sue & Wilson Duke [circa 1948]

November 22, 2007

Wilson Duke Grkovic

November 19, 2007

11/16/2007: Email note received from Aunt Glennae Mae Pauli, Marie's youngest sister:

Duke(ie) -- knowing how important family history is to you, I need to tell you a story.
I spent a number of tours at the Viet-Nam Peace Talks, assigned to the American Embassy in Paris. While there, I bought beautiful French china and crystal. I brought back a small piece of china for your Mom. I don't recall exactly what it was and what it looked like, so I can only say it was a "small piece of china." I recall I held it in my cupped hand as I handed it to her, so it was quite small. The best way to describe it would be to say it might resemble a small mustard jar. I keep seeing it as blue with a design, but I am very unsure of that. I would expect it to have some printing on the bottom indicating it was a product of France or one of the other countries nearby, maybe Germany. I think it had a lid, but am not sure.

I only mention this because of its antiquity and military and diplomatic historic value to you and your children. Whether you care, whether she still has it -- I don't know, but I thought you would like to know.

This is so hard for me to talk about. I love her so dearly and it is so hard for me to say goodbye.

Love you all.

Wilson Duke Grkovic

November 19, 2007

11/15/07 Email note from Aunt Glennae Mae Pauli [Marie’s youngest sister]: “Duke(ie), I am so very happy you want to keep in touch and will help me build a data bank on the Wilson side so the present and yet-unborn children can know where they came from to help them know where in the world they are going. Some of your cousins also have expressed their lack of fulfillment because they don't know who they are -- ergo, "Aunt Glennae, who am I?" So it's not just you and I who are trying to discover the past. I am the last repository, so…….”

Re: possible chronology of births in the Wilson family we talked about this morning:
1. Fern Geneva
2. Viola Mae
3. Franklin
4. LeRoy
5. Marie
6. John Wesley
7. Lucille
8. Cleo
9. Betty Lou
10. Glennae Mae

one of Marie's many makeshift art studios

November 18, 2007

Marie & Duke [circa 1997]

November 18, 2007

Marie in center of family [L-R] Eric, David, Marie, John, Carol Rose, Wilson Duke

November 18, 2007

Marie with young friend in Yogoslavia [1991]

November 18, 2007

Marie cellebrates young Wilson Duke's birthday with grandsons Eric and John [far R] circa '80's

November 18, 2007

Marie with young Wilson Duke [laughing?] Dale Hollow Dam 1943

November 18, 2007

Marie Christmas 2006

November 18, 2007

Marie & Family [kids, grandkids, spouses, aunts] at James R & Lourdes Wedding [2005]

November 18, 2007

Marie on Alaskan cruise [1991]

November 18, 2007

Marie in Des Moines, Iowa with Rusty

November 18, 2007

Marie & daughter Karen Sue in front of home at US Air base Casablanca. Morocco

November 18, 2007

Children Wilson Duke & Karen Sue in front of cohanset home in Kemano Bristh Columbia, Canada [circa 1953/54]

November 18, 2007

Marie with Duke at His graduation U of Idaho [1947]

November 18, 2007

Marie and Duke 50th Wedding Anniversary [1991]

November 18, 2007

Marie [far R]at daughter Karen Sue's [3rd frm R] Wedding [1966]

November 18, 2007

Marie with son Wilson Duke in Dale Hollow Dam 1943

November 18, 2007

Marie [circa 1941]

Wilson Duke Grkovic

November 18, 2007

Mom died in the early hours of November 12, 2007. Even though it was not unexpected, we were still unprepared, living as though she would get better and come home, and every thing would be fine.

Mom was a much loved woman. She had a presence that brought comfort and acceptance to her many friends, acquaintances and family. She always deferred her comfort and well being to that of others.

Even during times of great turmoil and stress she seemed to "understand" with a demeanor that brought peace, harmony, meaning and relevance to the situation.

Mom made wilderness places a "home" as we trekked around in my father's heavy construction work: that of building bridges, dams and tunnels, etc. She never protested about where we landed next; she just went to work decorating, sewing, painting, arranging, making a home.

Mom never complained about her circumstances, her predicaments or the 'cards' she'd been dealt in life. She never really talked about herself; told her story. We hope to understand her better through comments and postings that are coming in as word gets out abut her passing.

We have also just been reacquainted with Mom’s youngest sister, Glennae Mae, the last remaining of the 10 Wilson children. Aunt Glennae Mae has just begun to provide a wealth of knowledge about her sister Marie, my Mom.

Even as we celebrate the remembrance of Mom’s art, her love of colors, her soothing accepting ways, she will be sorely missed.

We love you Mom. You’re the best ever!

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