Marilyn Ruth Bethell

Marilyn Ruth Bethell obituary, Heavener, OK

Marilyn Ruth Bethell

Marilyn Bethell Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home - Heavener on Jul. 26, 2025.
Marilyn (Copeland) Bethell, 59, of Bokoshe, Oklahoma was born on July 6, 1965 in Poteau, Oklahoma to Charlie and Freda (Ballard) Copeland and passed away at home in Bokoshe, Oklahoma with her husband at her side on May 22, 2025 less than a month before their 42nd anniversary.
She is survived by:
Her husband:
David Bethell
Two sons:
Anthony Bethell
Cody Bethell
One grandson:
Adam Bethell
Three sisters:
Judy Anderson
Charlotte Potts
Brenda Fagan
One brother:
Tommy Copeland
Daughter-in-law:
Alexandra "Zan" Bethell
Numerous other loved one and a host of friends
She is preceded in death by her parents, Charlie and Freda Copeland; a son, Jayson Bethell; a granddaughter, Kaia Bethell; and a sister, Katy Cunningham.
Marilyn was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend. She will be missed by many and left a trail of good deeds in several states, where she at once called home. She was a mentor and helper to youth and adults that were in need. She put her heart into her children and was a very attentive mom. She was the aunt that many nieces and nephews loved. She provided loving end of life care to her mother-in-law leaving a legacy and respect for her deeds. Most of all she accepted, loved, and believed in God and Jesus Christ's grace and forgiveness knowing we all fall short of the glory of God. May she rest in peace.
A memorial service to honor Marilyn's life will be 2:00 p.m., Saturday, May 31, 2025 at the Summerfield Church of Christ with Brother Tracy Loyd officiating. Cremation arrangements are under the direction of Dowden-Roberts Funeral Home of Heavener, Oklahoma.
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