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Lillie Eaton
February 19, 2011
To the Clyde Byrd family
I am one who knew your mother before any of you were born.
We shared everything.We went to school together, she being six months younger than me and was one class behind me. We dated together, married first cousins. We all went to Chicago together in Byrd's old Nash and the guys went to school there after WWII. We lived together in Dallas for awhile when times were hard. We were always the best of friends. She was a sister to me. When we talked last before Christmas, she wanted me to come and visit. We had long conversations and I would catch her up on what was happening in Fairview and Joplin.
In Fairview, she and Miriam were known as the Marrs Twisters. She had a great life and I know how much she loved you all. I will miss her so much. It is sad to give up your best friend.
Love to all and especially you Byrd. I am keeping you all in my prayers.
Monte Byrd
February 16, 2011
Mama, the four days that have passed since you left us have been the hardest days of my life. I can't imagine never seeing you again, hearing your voice and putting my arms around you. It would have been you who I would have told this to and you would have said there are no words that would make everything alright, but that you knew "we would get through this". I never imagined losing the "we" I had with you and I somehow must get it back. I told you when I was a little boy, "Don't worry Mama, you'll always have me and I won't let anything happen to you". No one could have kept that promise, but I hope you know how hard I tried.
MONTE BYRD
February 15, 2011
Mama,
As I continue to weave through this labyrinth of sorrow, I catch glimpses of the visions of a bright tomorrow and my Mother is standing there in all of her glory.
Your forever loving son, Monte
Cheyenne Dean
January 15, 2014
Meems,
It's been so hard to come back to this page. I visit it often when I'm feeling sad because I can see so many stories from people who have known and loved you. Just because i'm crying doesn't mean i'm not feeling the joy of those stories. Meems, just like I knew it was you that night after you died in the stars, I know it was you shinning so bright the day Pa passed. It was so hot! Not a damn cloud in the sky. I know you've been waiting, and the first thing you said was, "Damnit, Byrd! What took your ass so long??" with a beer in your hand standing next to aunt Mary. While you're having the time of your life up there, just know we are missing you and Pa so extremely that you can feel it through my aching bones, the tears we all shed, and the laughter we all enjoyed as we reminisced fond memories of you and Pa. Thank you once again, for everything you have taught me and continue to teach me. These last few weeks, this poem is one of the few things I've found solace in.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die."
-Mary Elizabeth Frye
R.I.P Meems and Pa
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Theresa McCoy
February 12, 2012
What a beautiful tribute! I never met your mom, Monte, but she left a wonderful legacy in you. My condolences to you and your family.
Theresa
Shirley Hunter
February 12, 2012
Love our Marj! I, too, have a heavy heart today. I've been thinking about this for the past two weeks. I can't believe it's been a year since she left us. Last year was a hard year for me. We lost so much. But the memories of Marjie will never leave us.
Monte Byrd
February 13, 2012
It would have been hard to imagine the past year without you Mama. I had no idea how difficult it was going to be living in this world without our little fearless leader. You are still so present in our lives, and yet we all feel the empty space you left behind. We ache for you to walk into the room with your signature hello, your non-stop laughter, your classic stories. I miss so many things about you that were just "you", things I never thought I would lose. As the second year without you begins, it is an unusually dark, chilly and "dreary" day (as you would call it). I am waiting for the sun to break through and make it go away, like we would do together when I was a child. Mama I love you and I just need to need to hear you say "Honey, it's going to be OK".
Judy Horvath
March 5, 2011
'Byrd', Monte, David, Marcy & family,
Thank you for thinking to put a notice in the OKC paper regarding the loss of your mother. Margie & I worked together in the CRS unit at Allstate Insurance Co. I can still see her smile, spunk & the way she walked (like no one else). Monte & David I also enjoyed going to the club to hear your band & still have a record of the group. At the end of 1999, I retired & did check around to see if anyone knew how to reach Margie without success. We would have enjoyed seeing her again. I am so sorry for your loss... She was truly a special lady & I have fond memories of her.
Chandler Byrd
March 1, 2011
Sans,
Its hard to conceive that you're already gone. You always loved and cared for me. My fondest childhood memories are a testament to that fact. I have always been amazed by your achievements and the wonderful family you helped create. I am certainly grateful for it. You showered me with enough love and affection these past 22 years to last a lifetime. It hurts now that you're gone, but your inspiration provides the strength to get through it. We will always ache for more time with our beloved Sans, but I know I can never forget all the time we spent together. You were two grandmas to me, and you did it with ease. The love you showed for your family set the bar for me, and no one could ever come close. You couldn't have made me any prouder. I miss you!
Love,
Chan
Ric Perez
February 23, 2011
A Promise
There are very few people we meet in life,
With a smile so big that it makes a room bright;
You can tell the sincerity and the nature of their heart.
When you are so drawn to them, that you are reluctant to part;
I believe God lives within such people, and causes them to shine,
For only He knows our limitations, for He knows our time.
We have been blessed to have known her, to have kissed her hello,
To have shared in laughter, in gatherings, watching the children grow;
Words will never satisfy the loss that we all feel.
For absence is what makes this sorrow, it makes it very real.
But we have been given a promise, though elusive it may seem now;
That one day we will all gather, so with this we lift our brow;
Though we will miss her, this is true;
But our Faith in God says... Marge will we see you soon!
We love you...
Ric, Maria, Adam and Erica
Jetta Wessel
February 22, 2011
Words can't tell you how you have touched my life. I only was able to get to know you through Dave and I thank him for that. I loved your smile and kind words you always had for me. You and "Byrd" were very kind for letting me into your home and life. You will be missed but never forgotten. You have left a hand print on my heart.
Lisa Geisler
February 20, 2011
I will miss you Aunt Marji. I remember we use to come to your house quite often on a friday night. Go to Casa Bonitas in okla.city where you lived in that spanish house. You and mom and grandma would go shopping on saturday, come back home and then we would all go out for mexican. There was one time when we had come down for a visit and we had brought some pixy stix with us. I wanted to make a drink out of mine so I came into the kitchen found a glass got some water and poured the pixy stix into the glass. I was trying to find a spoon and end up opening the drawer full of your mail that was your bill drawer.You came in there and said"what are you doing in that drawer those are my bills I have to pay". I was so scared and I knew I was in trouble. I just left the room hoping you were not going to tell my mom and dad what I had done. But I did not get yelled at. I was so happy. I couldn't have been maybe ten years old. Then there was the time I think I was in junior High. You and Uncle Byrd and Marcy came down for a visit. I went to the Movies with my best friend Marie and saw The Way We Were. You were tickled I had gone to see it. I had forgotten until now that that was a favorite. You are with God now and you are healthy and whole. You will be in all of our hearts. Love you Aunt Marji.
Scott Turner
February 20, 2011
My favorite Aunt Marj,,,,, lets see here....was it when Dave and I drove by her on the hiway in OK city.. She "flipped" off those two "damned long-haired" hippy types that were "crowding" her space. Nope,,, my favorite memory was from our wedding reception, the BEST kiss of the day,,, from Aunt Marj. EVERYTHING you could get from a kiss... Such great memories: Grace, class, humor, and love. All in a feisty little package. We will miss you so much.
Cheyenne Dean
February 20, 2011
Meemies,
February 12 was the hardest day of my life; I hoped I could just wake up and see you again...and I did. You were the sun that was shining in my face that beautiful Saturday morning, and I had to get out and enjoy the sun, because I know you would have wanted me to. You were always telling me how silly I was for loving the overcast, grey skies that poured rain all over your beautiful city. I wish I could have a quarter for every time I came to your house and found you out in the back lounging, soaking in the sun...I would literally be a millionaire! I won't ever forget how many times I came over to give you your pills but ended up talking about everything and anything for hours. I won't forget how you told me you would beat up all the kids at school who ever hurt me. Meems, you were truly the best grandma in the whole world, and no one could ever replace you. There will always be a piece of my heart dedicated to you and your sassy attitude. Every time I think of you, I think of little weenies, mac and cheese, butter sandwiches, Werthers, ego waffles, olives, and the most beautiful smile in the world. Seeing you walk in every party with a huge smile on your face and your booming "Hellooo!" made me smile every time. I've gotten used to people not really listening to my pointless stories, but you listened to every single one of them and looked absolutely absorbed by every one of them. Meems, you have no idea how hard it will be to not see you or hear you anymore, but I find solace in the fact that I can see you in the sun, and hear you in my mind. You've taught me so much, but there is still so much wisdom, and so many things I never got to ask. I could honestly go on and on for days about everything I love about you and every little thing we did together, but there would not be enough words. It's alright though, because I have all those memories and all those talks and laughs stored in my mind and my heart, locked up in a box where no one can take them away from me, because no one or nothing can take you away from me. After the sun went down on February 12, I saw a shooting star, and I knew it was you meems, telling me it would be okay, and that you would be back in the morning, when it was warmer. Meema, I'm so glad I got to know you for 17 years, and even though it was not nearly enough time, it was the best 17 years I could ask for. I'll see you in the morning, Meems.
Love, Pookie Doodle
(Cheyenne)
David Dean
February 20, 2011
It's always really hard for me to put into words what is in my heart. (I usually ask your daughter to do it for me!) I guess what I would want to tell you is how much it meant to me for you to "adopt me" as one of your own. You were the one I often called when I needed advice that only a mother could give. I will miss your spirit and the way you and I would always joke around together, as you did even in your last days. It's just like you to "leave" 40 years to the day that my father died. Say "hi" to him for me, will you? I love and miss you. Love, David (David #2!)
Susan Lamberth
February 19, 2011
Hi Marjie, my Miss Spicy, I miss you so. I haven't known you long but you made a big impact on my life. I would come to work and could not wait to see you. You always made my day. You always knew when something was wrong, no matter how big of a smile i had and that was the mother in you. I was always able to talk to you about anything, even my kids and in the end of it all you would say just love them no matter what they say or do just always love them. I'm so honored to have met you and as a friend, you will never leave my heart.
Marcy Dean
February 19, 2011
Mom, I have been dreading posting anything because then I have to really believe you're gone. I keep just thinking I will pick up the phone and hear your sweet voice again. Your hold on my life has never been so apparent as in the last week. You weren't just my Mom, you were my first and best friend. I will never stop missing you and wishing I could talk to you and hug you just one more time. The hardest part about this all Mom, is that whenever I felt really bad, you were the one who made it all better. And I don't remember ever feeling this badly...I know we will all get past this, but never by forgetting you. You are truly unforgettable. I love you so much and will miss you forever. Love, your "baby", Marcy
McKenna Dean
February 19, 2011
Meemies,
Its really hard to write this because it means you are truly gone. You meant so much to me, much more than a grandma. It hurts me to know I can't go talk about my day with you whenever me and my mom went over to your house. I still remember when me and Cheyenne taught you the z-snap. All my other friends at school were jealous when I told them because their grandma wasn't as cool as mine. I also think about when me and Cheyenne would go over and spend the night at your house in Hemet. You would always get up at 6 in the morning and even though I was 7 or 8, I would get up when you would too, because I'm a morning person. My mom used to always tell me about how me and you had that in common. You used to make me Eggo waffles, butter and jelly sandwiches (you told me they were dry if they didn't have butter), and when we used to leave you would go to the candy jar and give us a handful of werthers. I love family parties because all the sudden I would hear "Helllooo!" and I would be so excited to see you. You always had a smile on your face. You would tell me funny stories about you when you were little or about my mom getting in trouble with her teacher who used to get angry with her because she would yell out the answer. It makes me sad to think you will never get to see me grow up and graduate high school, but I know you will be there in spirit. You are one of the greatest people i knew. You have the kindest hearted soul but you weren't afraid to tell people how you really felt ( your sassy-ness). I love you Meems. You created the greatest mother, and you are one of the greatest people I ever met and had the privilege of sharing love with for 15 years. I love you forever Meems. Love, Kenna Boo
Kristen Dean
February 17, 2011
Mema, Meems, Memes... I can still feel your hug thank God. One of the most comforting things i know. I cannot believe that you are really gone, but i am so grateful for our time together. You often reassured me that i was indeed a part of this family ;) mom would always tell me, "You are just like your grandmother"... What an honor. You always saw the best in me, you and mom my biggest fans. So many wonderful times we had together me and you Meems. You would always make me laugh so hard and making you laugh was such an accomplishment to me. You listened to me talk about my dreams, my heartaches, my pointless stories.. Always interested and always on my side. But also knew when to put me in my place! Your opinion meant so much to me I will strive every day to be a better person for you. Like you.
the last month and a half have brought up so many memories i have of you and Pa. like out at the lake in Texas u would make us tuna sandwiches and cottage cheese. Shells and cheese with lil smokies. I love lil smokies because of you!! And Pa hates the powdered cheese I will never forget that. the smell of Eggos waffles in the morning will forever remind me of you and Pa. And that old smelly dog that lived behind u in the round house in Texas, I would come back after playing with him and I´d be all smelly and you'd yell at me to wash my dirty hands! And you'd always introduce us to your neighbor friends like we were dipped in gold and worth a million. Visiting you when you and Pa had the motorhome. Begging you to let us take the golf cart out a hundred times when you lived in CCC. Babysitting us at the daylily house, and even a time or two at the new house! Wow I was at least 16 by then you´d think my parents trusted us? Haha! Taking you out to run errands and to eye doctor appointments and such. Our time in the waiting room or at the grocery store or out and about was never dull or boring you would crack me up with your comments and jokes and stories! Remember running into my friend at the store.. Met you for 5 minutes 2 years ago and still asks about you because he thought you were so rad! I remember when I first got my white civic when I was about 17 or 18 I took you to Neiman Marcus to shop. And on the way back you said "Everyone says you drive so crazy well I think you drive just fine!" I´m fast like you Meems, everyone always tells me I´m walking too fast they can´t keep up. It´s the fire in us. I am so happy to be just like you.
You are gone and it is incredibly hard but I am so happy to have had as many years with you as I did. Of course there will always be sadness that you will not be around in person to share moments like if I ever get married or have children (don´t worry Meems, I´m on it! And in that order promise!) but I know you will be there in spirit, happier than ever, and your soul will be taking care of me and all of us that miss and love you so much. I cannot thank you enough for all of you love and support through all the years. Just like a parent, being a grandparent is earned. And you have done the most amazing job at being my Grandmother, my Meems, My Memes, and you will always be with me and carry a huge part of heart. You have earned your title a thousand times over. And I will never be the same over the loss of you. Until we see each other again someday, I love you so much.
Fran and Cathy Martin
February 16, 2011
Dear Monte, Karen, Nathan & Chandler - Memories are like flowers.......Brightening the saddest of days with their quiet beauty. May your dearest memories of your mother and grandmother bring you comfort in the days ahead. With our most sincere condolences. Hugs are being sent from upstate NY. Love, Fran and Cathy
Emily Cavazos
February 16, 2011
No words can express the thoughts going through my mind and the way I feel for your family. Monte....what a beautiful site you have created and the music is touching as was your mama. I pray that your family finds the strength to endure this difficult time in your lives. I know your mom is smiling down upon you all with pride knowing that she raised a family she is proud of and that will carry on her traditions of love, caring and gentleness.
Patti Martin
February 16, 2011
Monte, Karen, & Family,
Marjie's smiling face and zest for life was always so present. Most of all, I remember the love in her eyes when her entire family gathered together enjoying life as she did. The depth of her love for her children and grandchildren was so evident.
You are very Blessed Monte, and because of your Mothers love, you will carry all of her fond memories with you for the rest of your life. I am so sorry for your loss and truly understand the depth of your grief. You will all be in my prayers.
ann bullis
February 16, 2011
Dear Monte and Karen, We are not sure how someone as special as your Mom is ever replaced here on our earth but we are sure she will appear someway in lovely sunsets, soft rains, and always in your hearts. With the sadness you have so many cherished memories, our thoughts are with you. Fondly,Ann and Michael
Shirley Hunter
February 16, 2011
My dearest Marj, How old was I when I first met you? About 8, I think. That's how long we were sisters - 63+ years. We really had so much fun laughing and laughing at all the silly things in this world. You helped me write a poem for "Poppy Day" when I was in Jr. High. You taught me the "Boarding House Song" which I still sing today. Some wish I didn't, it's pretty gross! Oh, my, that was a long time ago. You always encouraged me. And today even though you are no longer physically with us you will always be in my heart. You had the greatest laugh!!! I love you.
Marca Hiller
February 15, 2011
I have fun memories of Marjie and I know you do too. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Love to you all. Marca
Matthew Dean
February 15, 2011
Meems, I will never forget you. My heart aches to hear your voice. To tell me, just one more time, how much you adored Aiden and Logan, and to tell me to be 'nice to my wife'! You embraced Kristian into the family like one of your own, and I appreciate that more than words can tell. You were always 'spicy' like your caregivers would like to say, and I loved it! Thank you for always speaking your mind. Thank you for loving me and my little family I created SO much! I love you with all my heart Meems.
Doug Lynner
February 15, 2011
I have never met Marjorie Byrd but I feel that I have some sense of her by knowing her son Monte and the qualities that she instilled in him. RIP. Collette and I are have Monte, her family and her friends in our thoughts.
Olivia Massey
February 15, 2011
I still remember when I came out to California and got completely fried on 4th of July! You made me lay down and covered my sunburned skin with shaving cream to make it feel better:) Thanks for being like another grandma!
Karen Byrd
February 15, 2011
Marjie,
I stare at this empty space trying to find the words to describe how much you meant to me. Tears pour from my eyes. My heart aches. I am at a loss for words.
You did not not know - I never told you how I anxiously awaited your arrival to every family event. Always the first to arrive. A glass of glass of wine poured for you. We would chat away like "a couple of hens" (quoting my husband) while waiting for everyone else to arrive. You are not here - who will I wait for? Drink wine with? Chat with?
How I cherish all the dinners we shared, domino games played, late nights laughing and early mornings sharing stories over our coffee and tea. Some mornings pouring my heart out to you. You took in my pain. Your eyes filled with tears. Who will I talk to?
Thank you for taking me into your heart, making me part of your family and for loving me so deeply. I knew. I hope you knew.
I can never repay you for all that you have given me these past 30 years. Life will never be the same without you.
I love you Marjieee!
Christina Duane
February 16, 2011
My beloved friends Monte, Karen and the boys. So many beautiful years, I have been touched by Marjie through you. Monte, you were my rock through many of the hardest times in life and that foundation was always Margie. Her beautiful spirit, sense of humor and values that permiated your soul and iminated everyone you touched.
To have spent time with beautiful Margie and watch her with all of you this past summer was so special. I will treasure it forever as I saw the source of my wonderful Monte's radiance. The radiance that you, Karen and the boys pass to future generations.
I love you all! I love Margie. I thank her for being and continuing to be in heaven with beautiful Maureen, enjoying heaven until we are with them.
David Byrd
February 16, 2011
I will miss my Mama's wonderfully sweet greetings, her radiant smile, her abundant love, her soft kiss, her feisty spirit and caring soul.
Pat Kelley
February 16, 2011
Our dear Marjorie you were always the life of the party. My lifelong best friend Monte inherited your spirit. I loved your cold slaw when I was a wee lad, can taste it in my head as I think of it. Thank you for giving so much to the world. You will not be forgotten. Love always.
Jamie Hilboldt
February 16, 2011
Thank you for the kindness you showed to the many wayward musicians that passed through your door.
John Ford
February 16, 2011
Monte and family,
Sorry about your loss, but happy for your fond memories. Love you,
John

Christmas 2009 - (12/25/2009) - Mom and Me again.
March 6, 2011

My Mom & Me Christmas '09 - (12/25/2009) - Mom and me at her home on Xmas
March 6, 2011

MOM PARTIES - (7/5/2008) - ENJOYING HER 80TH
March 3, 2011

THE KISS 2 - (7/5/2008) - THE KISS AND THE CAKE! 60 YEARS LATER.
March 3, 2011

THE CAKE - (7/5/2008) - MOM & DAD'S 60TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY CAKE
March 3, 2011

MOM & KATE - (7/5/2008) - MOM AND HER LONGTIME FRIEND, KATE AT HER 60TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY/ 80TH BIRTHDAY PARTY.
March 3, 2011

March 2, 2011

Jamie, Marjie & Susan - (6/8/2007) - Marjie having a ball with her loving niece, Jamie and grandniece, Jamie's daughter, Susan. Three wonderful women. Marrs/Byrd Reunion 2007
March 2, 2011

Cracking Up Again - (6/8/2007) - Suzie and Scott share some big laughs again with Aunt Marjie.
March 2, 2011

Leaving For Las Vegas Reunion 2007 - (6/7/2007) - Mom is ready to go and excited. We are traveling to Las Vegas for the weekend and a reunion with the Turners.
March 2, 2011

Jessie and Her Pama - (6/8/2007) - A great picture of Pama and her loving granddaughter, Jesse
March 2, 2011

Mom & Dad At Home - (10/9/2010) - Here's a recent shot from this fall in front of the fireplace in their home.
February 15, 2011

Mom and Dad Christmas Day 2010 - (12/25/2010) - Mom was ill and couldn't attend our family Christmas Day dinner at Marcy's so we all came over to her house and brought the party to her. This is one of my last photos of Mama.
February 15, 2011

Pretty Woman '44 - (1944) - The notes on the back of this print put this picture somewhere between 1943 and 1945 (Mom is 15-17 years old)
February 15, 2011

Mom & Dad 2009 - (12/16/2009) - Mom and Dad a little worn out from Nate's 25th birthday bash.
February 15, 2011

Funny Little Mama - (6/6/2007) - On a family reunion in Las Vegas a few years back, Mom posed humorously, her sunglasses knocked off-kilter. It has become a family favorite pic.
February 15, 2011

Marjie and David D - (2007) - Marrs Reunion in Las Vegas
March 2, 2011

At Kara's Graduation - (05/25/2009) - Mom, David and Dad
February 16, 2011

Mom, Dad, David and Jessica - (2/15/2011)
February 16, 2011

Mama - (02/15/2011) - Photos of my Mama, Marjie Byrd
February 16, 2011

Majorie and Clyde - (10/1952) - The Kiss of a Lifetime
February 15, 2011

Karen's Birthday - (2007) - Always the life the of the party. I can't imagine a family gathering without you.
February 15, 2011

Brick Marble - (7/2007) - Marjie and Karen
February 15, 2011
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