Marlene H. Stokes

Marlene H. Stokes obituary, Elmhurst, IL

Marlene H. Stokes

Marlene Stokes Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Gibbons Funeral Home - Elmhurst on Jan. 7, 2025.
Marlene Stokes (née Schintz) passed away peacefully on Jan. 5, 2025, at age 81. Born Feb. 1, 1943, to Theodore and Marjorie Schintz, Marlene graduated in 1961 from Providence High School on the west side of Chicago, where she and her younger sister, Barbara, were raised. A free spirit and strong-willed, Marlene secretly married Harold D. Stokes, a private in the U.S. Marine Corps, in 1963, and, when her furious mother found out, the couple repeated their nuptials in a second wedding ceremony (this time in the church) in 1965. They were married for 19 years and had one son. Marlene held a number of secretarial jobs for a variety of employers including Western Electric in Cicero, Esquire magazine in Chicago, and Dominick's Finer Foods in Northlake. Quick to strike up conversations with strangers, she also enjoyed working part-time retail positions for several stores such as Marshall Field's in West Dundee and, until her official retirement in 2019, Walgreen's in Elmhurst. Her most colorful job was working at Janssen's Egg Farm in Hampshire, Ill., in the late 1970s, where she and a small crew of similarly spirited women inspected, packaged and sometimes delivered fresh eggs. Her favorite job, however, was being a mother to Michael (Jana) Stokes and loving grandmother to Camille, Morgan and Avery. Known for being easy to laugh and her tendency to cry during both happy and sad movies, Marlene's warmth, patience and generosity was boundless. She was beloved by family and friends. An avid reader of mysteries, Marlene frequented the public library since she moved to Elmhurst in 1998. She stayed active "water walking" with friends at the public pool and Courts Plus. She also enjoyed crochet, had a legendary sweet tooth, and loved animals – including feeding and watching birds. Visitation Friday, January 17, 2025, 3:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Gibbons Funeral Home, 134 South York Road, (½ mile North of Saint Charles Road), Elmhurst. Interment Private. For funeral information please call 630-832-0018 or www.gibbonsfuneralhome.com
VISITATION
Friday
Jan
17
3:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m.
Gibbons Funeral Home
134 South York Road
Elmhurst, IL 60126
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INTERMENT
Private

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January 24, 2025

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January 7, 2025

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Raymond Stokes

January 24, 2025

I can´t remember a time when Marlene was not in my life. I have so many fond memories, I remember us swiping beer from her mother´s stash, having many, many basement parties where we slow danced to oldies from the fifties. Later in life I was privileged to be best man at her secret wedding to my brother Harold and to be godson to their son Mike. So rest in peace my dear friend I am blessed to have had you in my life.

Debra Gammie

January 19, 2025

My condolences to Mike,Jana and girls.i have so many great memories of aunt Marlene , I can remember the picnics at the lake and family BBQ´s. So many good times. Rest in peace.

The Gibbons Family

January 7, 2025

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