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Martin Graf Obituary
Martin R. Graf, a resident of Mahopac, NY, and East Sandwich, MA, died on December 7, 2025, after a prolonged illness. He was 87. He was born in Stamford, CT, the son of Martin and Matilda (Wurzenberger) Graf. He attended Stamford High School, the University of Miami, and served in the US Marine Corps. Until retirement, he was employed by Machlett Laboratories. He was a longtime member of the Halloween Yacht Club in Stamford and enjoyed sailing, gardening, and spending time on Cape Cod. In addition to his wife, Carolee Proscia-Graf, Martin leaves three children: Amy Morton (Jeffrey), Jennifer Graf, and Martin Graf, Jr., two step-children: Michael Proscia (Angela) and Anne Proscia Carlson, six grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. He also leaves a sister, Lucy LeMay and nephew, Fred LeMay.
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David Stewart
December 17, 2025
I knew Martin as "Sandy" back in the 1940's He lived on a farm on Interlaken Rd in Stamford. His father & my father were good friends back then and the families did get together many times. I lost track of Sandy after we both went to Dolan Junior High. I extend my condolences to his family and to Lucy.
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Former Stamford Resident
December 16, 2025
RIP MARINE
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December 15, 2025
Thank you for your service to our country. May you now rest in eternal peace.
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