Mary Bossenmeyer

We celebrate the life of Mary Johnson Bossenmeyer, a cherished wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, whose gentle presence touched the hearts of all who knew her. Born on April 9, 1929, at Knickerbocker Hospital in New York City, Mary's journey of 96 years came to a peaceful close with her husband and family by her side on November 10, 2025, in Orange, California. She was the embodiment of love and selflessness, and her departure leaves behind a legacy of kindness and unwavering faith.
Mary's early years in New York were filled with the joy of learning and growing within her community. It was in the summer of 1953 at Greenwood Lake in New Jersey that fate intervened and she met the love of her life, Bob Bossenmeyer. Their connection was immediate, and after eleven months of courtship, they were united in holy matrimony at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church in Rockaway Beach, New York. The couple's love flourished, leading them to the sunny embrace of Southern California, where they built a life together and celebrated more than seven decades of marriage.
As a devoted homemaker, Mary's life was a testament to her unwavering commitment to her family. Her husband and children, Kevin, Peggy, Beth, Kathy, Linda and Ringo all thrived under her nurturing care. Her nine grandchildren, C.J., Matt, Jeff, Amanda, Andrew, Alex, Will, Dane and Madison and ten great-grandchildren, Jackson, Cooper, Levi, Amelia, Reese, Adalynn, Nash, Avery, Brooks and Hudson were the joys of her life, each one cherished and loved immeasurably.
Mary's dedication to her family extended into the community as she served as a teacher's aide for over a decade at Cambridge Elementary in Orange. Her patience and gentle guidance enriched the lives of countless children. Her home was a sanctuary of warmth and meticulous care, especially during her renowned holiday celebrations, which reflected her passion for bringing her entire family together.
A woman of Catholic faith, Mary's spiritual devotion was evident in her daily prayers and regular attendance at Mass. Her faith was her compass, guiding her through life's trials and triumphs. In the words of Mother Teresa, "The fruit of faith is love, and the fruit of love is service." Mary lived by this creed, serving her family and community with a heart full of love.
In her quiet moments, Mary found solace in the pages of a good book, a simple pleasure that offered her a world of imagination and tranquility. Her beauty, both inside and out, was evident to all who encountered her. Mary was the epitome of a loving, selfless, and gentle soul, whose impact will be felt for generations to come.
We take comfort in the knowledge that her spirit will continue to guide and inspire us. Her life was a beacon of love and charity, and her memory will be cherished forever in the hearts of those she loved. Mary, a beloved matriarch, has found her eternal rest, leaving behind a world made brighter by her presence.
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